How many times have your friends called you on the phone with issues or problems?

You rally the troops together and maybe you sit down at a restaurant for a pow wow. After a long three-hour dinner that’s more of a self-help intervention where you offer up your best advice, your friend looks at you, shakes his head and says, “Man, yeah that makes sense. I’ll listen, I’ll definitely do this.”

But, this is only to be followed by another self-help mission three weeks later with the exact same advice being given to the same person. Again, the cycle goes on. We, as human beings, tend to give advice that people don’t really listen to.

As a matter of fact, how many of you are actually reading my blogs?

Watching the videos, and actually going out and doing all the things that resonate with you in the moment that you’re reading it?

Are You Taking My Advice?

Think about it. How many times do you buy a self-help program, listen to it, and actually trust and do the things that the person is telling you to do?

The majority of people, about 80% of people, I’d say, will listen to a self-help program, feel jazzed about it, and then go out and try something once, and fail, because that’s what life is all about. Every single time you try something once, most likely you’re going to fail.

When you get advice, you need to implant that advice into your subconscious mind and change the way you’ve been thinking by actually doing the things advised so you’re able to make the changes in your life.

It feels like we’re all just constantly blowing hot into the universe.

Right now, I’m writing this blog post and I’m just blowing hot air all over you. You’re listening, but are you really actively listening? Are you really relating to this? You’re probably shaking your head and thinking right now, “David, you’re 100% right. I get advice and just don’t seem to listen to it, yet I’m searching for the same advice over and over again.”

Well, that’s what most people do.

Most people will constantly search for the same advice over and over again and allow a problem to become a lifelong problem.

How many of you are still looking for ways to meet women? Looking for ways to approach women? Even though you’ve been reading about approaches for years. Do you still suffer from approach anxiety?

It’s because you’re not listening to the advice that’s being given to you. You’re not implementing it in your life. So we’re all just blowing hot around the room.

How do you give advice to people so they actually listen? How do you make somebody feel like this advice is the thing that’s actually going to change their life, so you feel like you’re actually helping people? Because when we give advice to a friend, we’re doing so with a heart-based feeling.

Or are we?

Some people give advice based on ego.

I’ve met lots of people in the dating field that are terrible at meeting women, terrible at giving advice. But they’ve been giving advice for years.

Why?

Because they’re all ego-based. They want to feel validated by people following them. They’re still insecure from their days of high school not really fulfilling them.

Tips for How to Give Advice

So how you give advice to somebody you want to give advice to? I strongly suggest you watch this video a few times – that’s right, a few times – so you can actually grasp the methods.

It’s been proven that when we listen to something more than three to six times, we actually start to get that in our mind. That’s why whenever you give advice to friends, you seem to have the same conversation over and over again. It’s not that they’re not listening, it’s that they’re not taking it in. You can’t just do it once.

So be prepared to watch this video six times. I’m going to watch the views on YouTube, I’m going to check the clicks on the email, I’m going to look at the blog today. I want you to make me a promise that you’ll listen to the message in this video six times, so you’ll start to get it into your subconscious mind.

Because I want you to be able to give your amazing advice to your great group of friends and actually have them listen, so you no longer have to go and literally talk to them over and over again. There are certain techniques and tricks that you can use, that I’m going to share with them right now.