“David. All I want is a girlfriend, but how can I find women when there aren’t any anywhere?”

Boy, I’ve heard this a few times. If you’re out your home right now I want you to look around you. How many women can you see? Unless you’re in a men’s changing room, or some other kind of all male facility, my guess is there are at least a few women near you. If you’re at home reading this, the next time you go out, make a deliberate effort to count the number of women you see.

Don’t worry about age, or whether you’re instantly attracted to them. Just count the women. Because there’s a few of things at play when you tell me there are no women out there. Either you’re being stupidly selective. Or you’re just not seeing the women all around you. Now I’m not suggesting you start dating 80 year-old Grannies with walking canes just because they’re around, but if you’re only looking for 6 foot, blonde, swimwear models with massive breasts, you are going to see less of them wondering the streets.

Stop finding reasons not to talk to the women you see. Who cares if she isn’t your usual type. Get to know her, and you might find she’s amazing!

Another reason you might think you can’t see any approachable women is because you’re going to the wrong places. Are you actually going to places women visit? If you hang out at the “shooting range” or the golf club all the time, guess what, there are probably going to be more men than women there. Why not take a salsa class or something? You’ll find a bundle of women there!

The third reason you’re asking, “How can I find women? There are never any around where I live!” is because you’re simply not opening your eyes and seeing the opportunities all around you. Honestly guys, there are women everywhere. Sometimes I hear some of you talk like the human race is about to die out because women are vanishing off the earth.

There is no shortage of women. Only a shortage of your mind!

This video gives you an example of what I’m talking about…