Dating Advice: Ideas for a Date

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By David Wygant March 4, 2013 152 Shares

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So you’ve got a hot date.

You’re picking her up in one hour.

Your car is clean.

Your neckbeard is trimmed.

And you’ve got your best pair of shoes on–you’re looking good.

Now what?

Where do you take her? What do you do? How do you get her so turned on that you guys do the horizontal samba later?

No worries: I break down some of my killer date ideas in today’s video.

Watch and enjoy:

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Colby

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Name it together! Love it. I do this at a bar with a shot and it works magically. Walk up to the bar, and tell her you want a shot. BUT, you want her to make it up. Just create something. Then you name the shot together. I'm telling ya, it's fun, creative, AND most important, you build a connection with them. And, it challenges them to :-)

Todd

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Had a lot of fun just watching the action. Can only be done with a woman.

steven flores

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Hey i know this is a little off topic but im really curious. so i have been dating this girl for about 9 months and we been on plenty of dates and we had sex twice. but i was wondering how can i make this relationship more serious and have her become my girlfriend?

Nathalie

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Steven, have you been dating consistently for nine months and then just recently became intimate?

Nathalie

Tuesday, March 5th, 2013

I think you need to have a talk with her and find out what do you both want? What you looking for? What is she looking for? And maybe tell her you want to see more of her and try to book more of her time, see what happens..

Steven flores

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Good question Nathalie but yea i havent been dating her consistently because throughout the whole nine months we sort of been going on and off like we would stop talking to each other for like about a month or two and then we would start talking to each other again. and yea the last time we had sex was a month ago...

Nathalie

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Aw this date idea feels fun and sweet, feels like natural fun like kids too.. :-)

jr

Monday, March 4th, 2013

Dudes, Has anyone seen that new movie "21 and over"? It's really funny and has some PUa lingo in it too like the phrase " closing a girl ". Be cool if some of that wild partying came back into the mainstream cuz... hittin' on women would flow easy & naturally. Ha!

Mike

Tuesday, March 5th, 2013

I had a date like this in a museum....lots of fun! :)

Nathalie

Tuesday, March 5th, 2013

Museum dates are awesome! One of my favorites too :-)

Mark

Tuesday, March 5th, 2013

I hope she remembered to take the collar off! :)

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Haha great observation, Mark :) I don't know about you, but me, I'm convinced that otherworldly observational skills would be one of the best superpowers of all to have. Not as good as reading people's minds, but better than X Ray vision for sure. Better than flying? That's debatable. And the way he used that collar was just BRILLIANT. Putting it on like an elegant necklace then leading her around like a pet. That's just plain dangerous because it works on so many levels subliminally.

nico

Tuesday, March 5th, 2013

did you do her later?

Technoboy

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

About the actual topic of picking dates though: So I used to be a hyper puppy and brainstorm random ideas I liked. hey wanna go play some trampoline dodgeball? learn how to fence? learn how to juggle? go kayaking? jump into a lake? do ya, huh, do ya?! Now I make it a point to link my outings into something we talked about. And I go fish for future dates and talking points when I am conversing. I stumbled onto this concept when I was fretting like a nervous wreck over picking a follow up date one day, consulted a friend to settle on an idea, then just called the girl and talked for a while about our last outing which lead to a long conversation. And you know what? During that talk I got struck by inspiration TWICE for great follow up date ideas just based on the conversation - ones that blew my wild but random ideas and my friend's safe but generic ideas out of the water. Wow. Example: Michigan Girl and I both loved rope swings when we were kids. SO if we last more than a few dates, I should check out my childhood rope swing spot and make sure there is a rope there. Then invite her over to help test it for durability and verify my hunch that she would look good in a bathing suit. In the meantime I got her to divulge at least FOUR other factoids that I can make a date out of, just off the top of my head.

chris

Monday, March 11th, 2013

i love it, activity dates are always the best,it not about going to an expensive one ,its about having fun ,spending time to get confidence just to engage more the conversation , thanks

Grant

Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013

Here is another example of what David is talking about from the movie Good Will Hunting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DuQrsK8Z5ok

Dating Advice: Ideas for a Date

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Todd

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Steven flores

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jr

Mike

Nathalie

Mark

Technoboy

nico

Technoboy

chris

Grant