So many guys are all about hunting all the time.

Most guys have this mentality: they go out on a Friday night to a bar, they give it five minutes and decide that the bar’s no good. They say to each other, “let’s go to the next one, man,” and they end up CTN – chasing the night.

“Let’s go to the next one,” “let’s go to the next one,” they keep going and at the end of the night, they end up at home – by themselves. They’re alone, staring at the ceiling again and wondering if they missed out on meeting people at the bars they didn’t hit.

Here is an excerpt from a conversation that I had with a few of my clients at a recent bootcamp.
We just spent three hours at Whole Foods, and what did it feel like, guys?

Client: It felt like five minutes.

David: Yeah, it felt like five minutes. This brand new Whole Foods they just built is like a destination on its own – everyone is going there. We had new people coming in all the time. We must have talked to, like, 20 different people, easily. It was just endless people.

And one of the key things we did was with that old woman. This like 90-year-old woman in a wheelchair started petting Daphne and we totally made her day. And guess what? Other people noticed that, and you saw that other people approached us after that incident. We had created this really positive and welcoming energy.

So you don’t have to go hunting every night – you just have to find fertile ground. You can find those places and then just hang out.

Really, life is about just hanging out and having a good time.

We would have stayed in Whole Foods longer but we got kicked out – we were a group of 14 guys just hanging out and finally one of the managers came over because he knew exactly what we were doing! He basically told us he had no problem with us, but he just wanted us to disperse a little bit more.

So really, you could just hang out in one place all day long. You’re not going to be with 14 other guys, so you won’t get kicked out of the place – don’t worry about that. But you’ll really start to grow a little bit more because you’ll start to see things more – you’ll realize that you don’t have to chase life.

You don’t have to chase it, because it will come to you!

If you checked out yesterdays video you will see that it juts ends. Today I break down what happened and why.