Comments on: Understanding the Confident/Nervous Guy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: anonymous :p http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-65207 anonymous :p Mon, 20 Feb 2012 21:16:10 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-65207 theres this boy .. i think he likes me his close friend said he likes me twice he screamed it in maths when he was sitting infront of me the first time he said ayee (copying the way i talk) and the second time he was sitting forward he didnt say anything and he always teases me he took my blue letter and his close friend then screamed he likes you i went bright red loool ive known him for 4 years and we used to always sit next to each other and this year we have two classes together and we have seating plans in english he sits a few tables across from me he turns and looks at me sometimes and in maths he used to turn around and just stare at me i said what? then he said something cute and i laugh lol do you think he likes me?? :) he sits infront of me in maths and he used to turn around and stare at me and now he stares at me sometimes in classes and the teacher said my name and his name and his friend said they are in love he got shy and so did i lol and we hardly talk anymore and it was killing me but today in english he got sent out and so did i he was smiling and i started talking to him hes always with his friends so i try not to interfere and he stares at me when i walk past i really like him ... like really bad im leaving in june to go to college and hes leaving too but i dont know what college i want to just be with him hes leaving this year too i dont know what college though i talk to his friends and im friends with them too they said he likes me but i havent asked him and he does glance at me sometimes but he doesnt talk to me as much as he used to i try to talk to him but it just ends after a couple of seconds he doesnt keep it going :( he doesnt talk to my friends when im with my friends he says hey to me sometimes but he hardly does anymore ..he just stares at me i look at him but i feel really shy when i see him with his friends because there ok as friends but really mean ..they say stuff to everyone and its like a staring contest :p theres this boy .. i think he likes me his close friend said he likes me twice he screamed it in maths when he was sitting infront of me the first time he said ayee (copying the way i talk) and the second time he was sitting forward he didnt say anything
and he always teases me
he took my blue letter and his close friend then screamed he likes you
i went bright red loool
ive known him for 4 years and we used to always sit next to each other and this year we have two classes together and we have seating plans
in english he sits a few tables across from me he turns and looks at me sometimes
and in maths he used to turn around and just stare at me i said what? then he said something cute and i laugh lol
do you think he likes me?? :)
he sits infront of me in maths and he used to turn around and stare at me and now he stares at me sometimes in classes
and the teacher said my name and his name and his friend said they are in love
he got shy and so did i lol
and we hardly talk anymore and it was killing me
but today in english he got sent out and so did i
he was smiling and i started talking to him
hes always with his friends so i try not to interfere and he stares at me when i walk past
i really like him … like really bad
im leaving in june to go to college and hes leaving too but i dont know what college
i want to just be with him
hes leaving this year too i dont know what college though
i talk to his friends and im friends with them too
they said he likes me but i havent asked him and he does glance at me sometimes but he doesnt talk to me as much as he used to i try to talk to him but it just ends after a couple of seconds he doesnt keep it going :( he doesnt talk to my friends
when im with my friends he says hey to me sometimes but he hardly does anymore ..he just stares at me i look at him but i feel really shy when i see him with his friends because there ok as friends but really mean ..they say stuff to everyone
and its like a staring contest :p

]]> By: Mary http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-63996 Mary Mon, 16 Jan 2012 10:53:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-63996 I found your article very useful to identify the weird behaviour of a man I fancy. It seems that he also fancies me! Great!!!! However, I think he has a gfriend (not 100% sure, though) so I cannot understand why he gets to nervous around me, he being gorgeous, sought after by many women and me not throwing myself at him and me being older than he is. If he has a girlfriend why is he so nervous around me and so normal with other women or men? If he is really interested in me why is he still attached to another person? Could it be that he does not fancy me but is scared of me in the sense that I am a temptation that he wants to avoid? Why does he find so difficult being normal around me? We flirted in the past, but I stopped when I realised that he might be attached. Your answer would be much appreciated. Help! I found your article very useful to identify the weird behaviour of a man I fancy. It seems that he also fancies me! Great!!!! However, I think he has a gfriend (not 100% sure, though) so I cannot understand why he gets to nervous around me, he being gorgeous, sought after by many women and me not throwing myself at him and me being older than he is. If he has a girlfriend why is he so nervous around me and so normal with other women or men? If he is really interested in me why is he still attached to another person? Could it be that he does not fancy me but is scared of me in the sense that I am a temptation that he wants to avoid? Why does he find so difficult being normal around me? We flirted in the past, but I stopped when I realised that he might be attached. Your answer would be much appreciated. Help!

]]> By: elle http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-59176 elle Mon, 07 Nov 2011 17:33:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-59176 ok so i'm in a LDR with a man i'm completely nuts about; and he told me he still gets a little nervous when he talks to me..that was awhile ago. anyway, i'm heading to stay with him tomorrow for 2WEEKS (soooooo excited!!!) and i asked if he was nervous to see me; and he said "not at all, just ready to have you here." does that mean he's losing interest?! I'M nervous to see him...help? ok so i’m in a LDR with a man i’m completely nuts about; and he told me he still gets a little nervous when he talks to me..that was awhile ago. anyway, i’m heading to stay with him tomorrow for 2WEEKS (soooooo excited!!!) and i asked if he was nervous to see me; and he said “not at all, just ready to have you here.” does that mean he’s losing interest?! I’M nervous to see him…help?

]]> By: Kelly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-58588 Kelly Thu, 27 Oct 2011 23:19:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-58588 hey guys, so very true. It depends how dramatic the change is from when he is with his mates to when hes with a girl he likes. for example, i knew a guy back in highschool and i never noticed till his friends pointed out, "look hes been so quite since you got here, hes usually acting like an idiot." He was inexperienced with girls so it explains his shyness. But guys who change way too much infront of a girl is a out off BECAUSE 1. she'll think, well whats wrong with me? and think you dont like her 2. girls(like me) enjoy the side of a guy when hes with his mates because hes cool, calm, hilarious and looks like a bunch of fun to be around. Most guys lose this fun, carefree factor about them which is the reason why a girl may be interested in you in the first place (because youre in your element). Im not saying dont be shy. Shy can be charming but like this guy in highschool he was completely the opposite of how he was around his friends when with me. This also doesnt benefit you because no girl can get to know KNOW the best sides of you! hey guys,

so very true. It depends how dramatic the change is from when he is with his mates to when hes with a girl he likes.

for example, i knew a guy back in highschool and i never noticed till his friends pointed out, “look hes been so quite since you got here, hes usually acting like an idiot.” He was inexperienced with girls so it explains his shyness. But guys who change way too much infront of a girl is a out off BECAUSE 1. she’ll think, well whats wrong with me? and think you dont like her 2. girls(like me) enjoy the side of a guy when hes with his mates because hes cool, calm, hilarious and looks like a bunch of fun to be around. Most guys lose this fun, carefree factor about them which is the reason why a girl may be interested in you in the first place (because youre in your element).

Im not saying dont be shy. Shy can be charming but like this guy in highschool he was completely the opposite of how he was around his friends when with me. This also doesnt benefit you because no girl can get to know KNOW the best sides of you!

]]> By: Jenny http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-49194 Jenny Fri, 20 May 2011 04:29:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-49194 I'm glad that I stumbled across this question because I honestly believed that a colleague hated me. I'd try to make small talk with him but either he would just smile at me or he'd laugh shyly. I thought that we were never going to talk so I gave up altogether. A few days later, I found a coffee card on my desk with no note. An HOUR later, he emailed me to thank him for helping him with a task. Told me he got me the card. I was stunned that it was him! During meetings, he stares at me a lot when I'm not looking. But still, I haven't been able to get any long conversations out of him when I see him, there's always a nervous laugh...it's driving me crazy and I'm frustrated. He jokes around with everybody else. a few weeks ago when no one was around, he came around to my desk and we talked for a bit. He seemed very interested in my travelling adventures. He asked a lot of questions. Good eye contact and he sat really close to me. I decided to email him every few months and tell him about a funny situation I got into, etc. - he always replies.. It just seems to be the only way I can communicate with him.....he just won't talk with me in person. Help! I’m glad that I stumbled across this question because I honestly believed that a colleague hated me. I’d try to make small talk with him but either he would just smile at me or he’d laugh shyly. I thought that we were never going to talk so I gave up altogether.

A few days later, I found a coffee card on my desk with no note. An HOUR later, he emailed me to thank him for helping him with a task. Told me he got me the card. I was stunned that it was him!

During meetings, he stares at me a lot when I’m not looking.

But still, I haven’t been able to get any long conversations out of him when I see him, there’s always a nervous laugh…it’s driving me crazy and I’m frustrated. He jokes around with everybody else.

a few weeks ago when no one was around, he came around to my desk and we talked for a bit. He seemed very interested in my travelling adventures. He asked a lot of questions. Good eye contact and he sat really close to me.

I decided to email him every few months and tell him about a funny situation I got into, etc. – he always replies.. It just seems to be the only way I can communicate with him…..he just won’t talk with me in person.

Help!

]]> By: hichem http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-48030 hichem Thu, 14 Apr 2011 09:47:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-48030 How to deal with nervous woman? I told a girl who has a crush on me, that she has the eyes of an angel, but the big ears of an Elepahnt, how come? And she laughed out loud! But now when i get close to her she gets nervous looking at the ground and when she walks past me she looks at the ground too! It makes me feel rejected sometimes, but rejection doesnt exist.I really want to talk to her but not when she is nervous, its like she looks a second at me and then look fast away or she pretends i just dont exist when shes talking to her friends or walking with her friends. And i know her for verry long! How to deal with nervous woman?

I told a girl who has a crush on me, that she has the eyes of an angel, but the big ears of an Elepahnt, how come? And she laughed out loud! But now when i get close to her she gets nervous looking at the ground and when she walks past me she looks at the ground too! It makes me feel rejected sometimes, but rejection doesnt exist.I really want to talk to her but not when she is nervous, its like she looks a second at me and then look fast away or she pretends i just dont exist when shes talking to her friends or walking with her friends. And i know her for verry long!

]]> By: Chloe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-43688 Chloe Sun, 24 Oct 2010 18:27:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-43688 The guy I like is this totally confident, funny, amazing person when he's with other people, but when he's with me, you could cut the tension in the air with a knife! Neither of us know what to say to each other - so I'm a confident/nervous girl too. I'm totally crazy and confident when I'm with my friends, but, when it comes to him, I just freeze up inside and don't know what to do!! How can I be my normal self around him, and how can I encourage him to be normal around me? Much love, Chloe xx The guy I like is this totally confident, funny, amazing person when he’s with other people, but when he’s with me, you could cut the tension in the air with a knife! Neither of us know what to say to each other – so I’m a confident/nervous girl too. I’m totally crazy and confident when I’m with my friends, but, when it comes to him, I just freeze up inside and don’t know what to do!! How can I be my normal self around him, and how can I encourage him to be normal around me?
Much love,
Chloe xx

]]> By: Kozmo http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-18726 Kozmo Wed, 08 Oct 2008 12:25:58 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-18726 Greetings Friends~ I feel so much better, reading YOUR empowering words! How can I Thank-YOU ALL?? YOUR words are Truly an Inspiration & full of Wisdom! I feel I can put YOUR suggestions into action in the lives of my children & myself!!! YOUR words are Truely Divine & I feel humbly Grateful. My new job is awesome! I took deep breaths said a Prayer to my Higher Power & WOW the first day was miracoulous moment after moment! & I owe so much of it to YOU! Thank-YOU! Hav'nt seen the shy guy for a few days or so & thats OK! I feel if I start thinking about him a little too much I bring my focus back to the here & now! Just like YOU have taught me! WOW, so Glad to have the Pleasure & Blessing to have YOUR Wisdom & Support! When the student is ready the Master'S' appear! Thank-YOU forever! Blessings of abundance & LOVE to YOU!!! Have a Wonderful Forever One Day (Breath & Moment) @ a Time,Happy,Joyous & Free with Great big bunches of LOVE to YOU, ~Kozmo~ Greetings Friends~

I feel so much better, reading YOUR empowering words! How can I Thank-YOU ALL?? YOUR words are Truly an Inspiration & full of Wisdom! I feel I can put YOUR suggestions into action in the lives of my children & myself!!! YOUR words are Truely Divine & I feel humbly Grateful.

My new job is awesome! I took deep breaths said a Prayer to my Higher Power & WOW the first day was miracoulous moment after moment! & I owe so much of it to YOU! Thank-YOU!

Hav’nt seen the shy guy for a few days or so & thats OK! I feel if I start thinking about him a little too much I bring my focus back to the here & now! Just like YOU have taught me! WOW, so Glad to have the Pleasure & Blessing to have YOUR Wisdom & Support! When the student is ready the Master’S’ appear!

Thank-YOU forever!

Blessings of abundance & LOVE to YOU!!!

Have a Wonderful Forever One Day (Breath & Moment)
@ a Time,Happy,Joyous & Free
with Great big bunches of LOVE to YOU,
~Kozmo~

]]> By: Lily http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-18710 Lily Wed, 08 Oct 2008 02:10:17 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-18710 Now for a comment about being nervous around those we are interested in. Just human nature when your heart starts racing and then there goes your mind because you are feeling the euphoria of being attracted to someone. Eventually after being around them enough, hopefully we calm down and breathe a little easier and can think of what to say. I think that is the glory of new relationships though and wish I could bottle that one up..... Now for a comment about being nervous around those we are interested in. Just human nature when your heart starts racing and then there goes your mind because you are feeling the euphoria of being attracted to someone. Eventually after being around them enough, hopefully we calm down and breathe a little easier and can think of what to say. I think that is the glory of new relationships though and wish I could bottle that one up…..

]]> By: Lily http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/understanding-the-confidentnervous-guy/853/#comment-18709 Lily Wed, 08 Oct 2008 02:05:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=853#comment-18709 Oh, sorry, I think the spelling was Kozmo. :) Oh, sorry, I think the spelling was Kozmo. :)

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