so very true. It depends how dramatic the change is from when he is with his mates to when hes with a girl he likes.

for example, i knew a guy back in highschool and i never noticed till his friends pointed out, “look hes been so quite since you got here, hes usually acting like an idiot.” He was inexperienced with girls so it explains his shyness. But guys who change way too much infront of a girl is a out off BECAUSE 1. she’ll think, well whats wrong with me? and think you dont like her 2. girls(like me) enjoy the side of a guy when hes with his mates because hes cool, calm, hilarious and looks like a bunch of fun to be around. Most guys lose this fun, carefree factor about them which is the reason why a girl may be interested in you in the first place (because youre in your element).

Im not saying dont be shy. Shy can be charming but like this guy in highschool he was completely the opposite of how he was around his friends when with me. This also doesnt benefit you because no girl can get to know KNOW the best sides of you!

A few days later, I found a coffee card on my desk with no note. An HOUR later, he emailed me to thank him for helping him with a task. Told me he got me the card. I was stunned that it was him!

During meetings, he stares at me a lot when I’m not looking.

But still, I haven’t been able to get any long conversations out of him when I see him, there’s always a nervous laugh…it’s driving me crazy and I’m frustrated. He jokes around with everybody else.

a few weeks ago when no one was around, he came around to my desk and we talked for a bit. He seemed very interested in my travelling adventures. He asked a lot of questions. Good eye contact and he sat really close to me.

I decided to email him every few months and tell him about a funny situation I got into, etc. – he always replies.. It just seems to be the only way I can communicate with him…..he just won’t talk with me in person.

Help!

I told a girl who has a crush on me, that she has the eyes of an angel, but the big ears of an Elepahnt, how come? And she laughed out loud! But now when i get close to her she gets nervous looking at the ground and when she walks past me she looks at the ground too! It makes me feel rejected sometimes, but rejection doesnt exist.I really want to talk to her but not when she is nervous, its like she looks a second at me and then look fast away or she pretends i just dont exist when shes talking to her friends or walking with her friends. And i know her for verry long!

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Hav’nt seen the shy guy for a few days or so & thats OK! I feel if I start thinking about him a little too much I bring my focus back to the here & now! Just like YOU have taught me! WOW, so Glad to have the Pleasure & Blessing to have YOUR Wisdom & Support! When the student is ready the Master’S’ appear!

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I say don’t just focus on that one guy you are interested in. More than one man can treat you right. Don’t limit yourself. But, I also think that in your situation, you need to focus first on you and your children. A new relationship right after or during a seperation period is when you are emotionally vulnerable and you need to take your time and make the right decision for the long term welfare of your family. Your children’s feelings need to be considered and I’m sure they don’t want any more situations where they or you are put at risk. It’s hard because everyone wants someone to love and to feel loved by someone and when we don’t have that person in front of us, we want it now, but like I said, think long term of what is right for you, not just what might feel right for the moment. Do things that build you and your children up.
Focus on time spent with them. Go on walks, eat right, listen to music, just anything that is a positive and that you can do with your children will help you to feel better and in the end you will look better and make better decisions. Set some goals for you and your children and see what happens. Just do it for 30 days and then see if you notice some changes in your life. There will always be a man to find, but this time you want the right one. One day at a time, one breath at a time. In the end you have to understand that if you don’t find that one right man, it’s okay, you can live happily knowing that you aren’t with the wrong one. Live each day the best you can.