So your sitting across the table from your fantasy woman, and all of a sudden you think.

“Wow I need to get sexual with her right now so she gets turned onto me”

So you space out for a second and you stop listening to what she is saying.

You then go into deep thought moment and think.

“How can i stop this conversation right now and start talking sexual”

So she is in the middle of a great story, sharing with you her travels across the world and all of a sudden you stop her in mid sentence and change the flow of a great conversation to something sexual.

She looks at you and thinks.

What the @$%^ is this guy talking about?

How many more questions am I going to get about “escalation”? So many of you guys are really just stuck on Pua Island–or PUA, as you call it.

I been asked this question about 10,000 times: Hey David, how do you sexually escalate on the first date?

Well, here’s an option: you can sit there across from her like Chester Chester the Child Molester and stare at her and tell her how wonderful her little titties look and how that great little sweater she picked out for the day really cups her breasts. You can recite some ridiculous made-up story that you spent 15 hours infusing with subliminal sex words to trick her into bed with you. Or when she goes to the bathroom you can look at her and tell her how you can just picture her G-string and what you would do with it, how you’re going to rip it off with your teeth and use it as dental floss later on.

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Then, as she’s calling the police or texting her friends about the freak sitting across from her, you can apologize to her and say, “Gee, I’m so sorry for being such a pathetic pervert trying to escalate with you like a typical Pua.”

Or you can do what a man would do: you can look directly in her eyes, you can listen to her because you’re actually interested in who she is and what she’s all about as a person, and you can smile confidently because you’re having an amazing time together.

When she stands up to go to the bathroom, you can give her a sly look, an intriguing little smile, and she’ll wonder what the hell is going on in your mind. When she gets back, you can give her another smile again, and she’ll wonder what that smile is all about. You can continue to listen to her and share what’s really on your mind and build on the conversation, learn a little bit more about each other, actually talk to her and connect with her like a person. You can behave like a human being, like most people, instead of a sex-starved escalation machine.

Or you can continue to be some Pua wannabe, talking about how wet and hard you are and how you want to floss your teeth with her G-string after dinner.

That’s it for today.