I’m flipping through the television channels the other night and caught part of an episode of HBO’s “Real Sex.” I thought it was kind of interesting. You certainly get to learn what turns people on and about their fetishes.

If that show is any indication, the mega-full bush is making a comeback. I mean, there sure seem to be a lot of swinger camping retreats populated by naked 60 year old women who don’t shave under their arms and men who haven’t shaved their beard since sometime in the late 1970s.

As we’re watching this show, my girlfriend and I look at each other and said “Huh, we must be so . . . ” I’m actually not going to say how we are, because this blog is not about my sex life or how I define intimacy.

This is really about how you define intimacy. What is intimate to you? 

Are you someone who needs to fantasize about other people while you’re having sex, or are your thoughts pure and wholesome? How do you get turned on sexually? I want to know.

I really want to know, because I want to know how all of you think. I know what turns me on sexually. If you all share with me, then stay tuned tomorrow . . . because I’ll share with all of you.

I’m going to keep this one short and sweet. Here are the things I want to hear about from you today:

When you’re having sex, what do you think about?
What do you need to be turned on sexually?
What do you need to have intimacy?

Comment on the blog today and tell me!