If you have a Victoria Secret and a mall it can’t be that bad. I feel that it’s better if you can work on someone gradually like a coffee shop or supermarket. A place where it seems natural that you would go on a regular basis. If you keep showing up at Victoria Secret I’m sure that you will agree, would be a little weird. If I know that I will see her again I never go for the phone number. I say something like: Wow, you are awesome,I am going to come back just to see you! They will usually tell me what days they work or when they will be back there again. That way she demonstrates to you that she wants to see you again. If she doesn’t I assume that she is not interested….Next

Also,make it a point not to be bland or forgettable. Many times I have bantered with a girl in a sandwich shop and grabbed a menu off the counter(for the phone number) before leaving. I wait 5 minutes and call up and ask for her and tease her just a little bit more. I keep it very short. This is the type of shit that makes her look forward for you to come in.

One more point,many guys think that the only places to meet girls is places like Starbucks,bookstores or the mall. If there is a girl anywhere and she has a pulse that is where you can operate. I can do better in Home Depot than most guys can ever do in Starbucks. Think outside the box! Go for it!!

Even if nobody else likes hearing your stories, I always like hearing a good success story. A good failure story is usually pretty fun too (not that I’ve ever been shot down by a girl haha)

Im am making massive progress at the gym. Not brag here about myself, but just for sharing. The tips that David teaches really helped me in allot of ways.

I am much more comfortable flirting with women now. Just being in the present moment and enjoying myself. Having relaxed bodylanguage and such.

Saturday I was at the gym flirting with the girl who signed me up for the gym. I bantered with her for a while. I told her that I was thinking about her Friday and at that same moment she passed me by on her bycicle. Told her she passed through red light, and if I was a cop I would give her a ticket. She laughed and told me next time she will greet me.
At the end of the day(Saturday) I was walking back home from the gym, as she passed me by and waved. I yelled:”Hold up, let me jump on the back of your bike”. She actually stopped and considered me biking her to the trainstation, and she would sit on the rear end.
She told me she was a bit heavy.( that for an athletically fit woman). I asked her how much she weighed, she said she wasnt going to tell me.
I was almost home, so I declined her offer.
Thing is, I wasnt sure what I was going to pull off was going to work nor did I care. I just did it and the result was better than I expected.

Next thing Im going to try when I see her, just for fun is:

Greet her, shake her hand. As I am holding her hand, I spin her into me and lift her up by her legs with my other hand. To which I reply: You aint heavy, and put her back down.

It’s all about having fun.

There is this awesome book that David wrote and is available on amazon.com called: Always talk to strangers. I liked the preview of what I read. Think Im gonna buy it.

Why don’t you just go in Guess store and just do simple chit chats? The women at the Guess store aren’t any more confident than women in other stores.

It’s just the fact that Guess clothing makes women look confiden’t b/c it’s all very form fitted clothes. I go in Guess stores and flirt with those girls all the time.

I actually take clients every bootcamp in that store just to play with them. I’d tell the girls that they are now the official “make over” person for the client… and that the client is their live “ken doll” they never had when they were kids….

So the girls get super excited and all you have to do is talk and play with them!

Lol, yeah baseballers “hit” homeruns.

Got the things a little mixed up. thnx for reminding.

Farley-

Speaking of baseball, I heard this comparison of success/failure w/ women in one of David D’s interviews:

Babe Ruth finished his career w/ 714 home runs, but ppl don’t realize he had 1330 strikeouts. Dude went up there everyday and took his swings!

Or like David W says, the best hitters only bat .300 or 30% and the best quarterbacks only complete 60% of their passes. That’s a lot of at bats and/or passes that are unsuccessful, but these players keep doing their thing and have massive success.

Same here, Im a David D fan too. I listened to David Wygant to talk as a guest on one of his interview series. Next thing I know I was reading these blogs and posting comments.

Inner game is important. Do not make what others think of you more important than what you think of yourself. I read that somewhere and it really hit me.

@ Mario:

I know GUESS, the women there are awesome. I go to a barbershop where there are only hot women working there. Sometimes I get intimidated, but I still keep eye contact and talk to them.

Remember, the hotness they project is just a mask. It’s all make-up and clothing. The are real people just like me and you.

Which each level of accomplishment comes new challenges. Its like a video game.

You got to envision the positive and go into action. When doubt creeps in, just kick it out and keep to the positive.

A famous baseball player know for its homeruns, NEVER envision himself NOT throwing a homerun. If it doesn’t happen that day, he doesn’t mind. He will throw them in the next game.

Hope I helped.