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	<description>Sex. Relationships. Dating. That&#039;s what I&#039;m talkin&#039; &#039;bout.</description>
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		<title>By: Khiem</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-worst-time-to-meet-the-opposite-sex/591/#comment-17125</link>
		<dc:creator>Khiem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Donald,

The question you should ask yourself is:
1.  Were you good in bed?
2.  Did she sleep with you because she was just horny and needed a willing partner?  or did she actually like you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Donald,</p>
<p>The question you should ask yourself is:<br />
1.  Were you good in bed?<br />
2.  Did she sleep with you because she was just horny and needed a willing partner?  or did she actually like you?</p>
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		<title>By: Donald</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-worst-time-to-meet-the-opposite-sex/591/#comment-17108</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 18:49:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What is your understanding of women who engage men with (incredible) sex early in the relationship, only to determine the relationship isn&#039;t right and want to continue to be &quot;friends&quot;........minus the sex ? 
Personally, I find the attempt to be mostly frustrating !
Thanks for your thoughts....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is your understanding of women who engage men with (incredible) sex early in the relationship, only to determine the relationship isn&#8217;t right and want to continue to be &#8220;friends&#8221;&#8230;&#8230;..minus the sex ?<br />
Personally, I find the attempt to be mostly frustrating !<br />
Thanks for your thoughts&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Khiem</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-worst-time-to-meet-the-opposite-sex/591/#comment-17013</link>
		<dc:creator>Khiem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 18:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam,

Your plan of action in a college town is to make friends and become the guy who knows everyone.  Uses the fact that it&#039;s a small town to be friendly, fun and social with everyone.

When you do that, you start harnessing the power of social networking and you&#039;ll meet and attract even more women to your life.  

All girls in college wants to have fun.  By the sheer fact that you know everyone, you can connect them to the right people and you&#039;ll know where the coolest gigs in town are.  So guess what, you become the &quot;it&quot; man.

In that position, you now have the choice to pursue ANY woman you want.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam,</p>
<p>Your plan of action in a college town is to make friends and become the guy who knows everyone.  Uses the fact that it&#8217;s a small town to be friendly, fun and social with everyone.</p>
<p>When you do that, you start harnessing the power of social networking and you&#8217;ll meet and attract even more women to your life.  </p>
<p>All girls in college wants to have fun.  By the sheer fact that you know everyone, you can connect them to the right people and you&#8217;ll know where the coolest gigs in town are.  So guess what, you become the &#8220;it&#8221; man.</p>
<p>In that position, you now have the choice to pursue ANY woman you want.</p>
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		<title>By: Susu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 08:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great subject you brought up...

First off, I believe that women are not in denial. When they have a night out at the bar/club, it&#039;s not because they are secretly hoping some man will swoop them up. Women like to go to these rowdy bar/clubs full of hungry men, because having men hit on them will boosts their ego. You can even say that they go to compete with each other on who gets  the most attention. It&#039;s annoying, but it feels darn good to get hit on twice as much as all your friends put together. For women, going to the bar/club is not about getting drunk and meeting men. It&#039;s a fashion show, beauty contest, or a simple &quot;I had a tough day at work, and I need to get effed up&quot; 
 
But this statement also proves what David was saying: Give up the weekend hunting. You will not find your dream woman, unless she&#039;s some easy drunk that&#039;s been ran through several times by the entire city. Sorry to be negative...but it&#039;s true. You can pick women up during the weekends, but I think instead of having that one agenda, my personal advice would be to try to expand your circle of friends. There&#039;s no better way then meeting someone through someone you already know. Most women DO NOT like to be approached by strange men. My first thought would be &quot;Ew, what am I, your fifth try tonight?&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great subject you brought up&#8230;</p>
<p>First off, I believe that women are not in denial. When they have a night out at the bar/club, it&#8217;s not because they are secretly hoping some man will swoop them up. Women like to go to these rowdy bar/clubs full of hungry men, because having men hit on them will boosts their ego. You can even say that they go to compete with each other on who gets  the most attention. It&#8217;s annoying, but it feels darn good to get hit on twice as much as all your friends put together. For women, going to the bar/club is not about getting drunk and meeting men. It&#8217;s a fashion show, beauty contest, or a simple &#8220;I had a tough day at work, and I need to get effed up&#8221; </p>
<p>But this statement also proves what David was saying: Give up the weekend hunting. You will not find your dream woman, unless she&#8217;s some easy drunk that&#8217;s been ran through several times by the entire city. Sorry to be negative&#8230;but it&#8217;s true. You can pick women up during the weekends, but I think instead of having that one agenda, my personal advice would be to try to expand your circle of friends. There&#8217;s no better way then meeting someone through someone you already know. Most women DO NOT like to be approached by strange men. My first thought would be &#8220;Ew, what am I, your fifth try tonight?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Dating Devil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dating Devil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 04:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG! I am so bad about saying cool. For me though, it has nothing to do with not knowing what to say, its more on being a habit, albeit a bad one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG! I am so bad about saying cool. For me though, it has nothing to do with not knowing what to say, its more on being a habit, albeit a bad one.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 04:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hilarious and so true!  So many guys that I&#039;ve seen trying to &quot;listen&quot; to women fall in that trap!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hilarious and so true!  So many guys that I&#8217;ve seen trying to &#8220;listen&#8221; to women fall in that trap!</p>
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		<title>By: k spring</title>
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		<dc:creator>k spring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 03:15:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally offbase on most issues.  A recent article on&#039;trust&#039; is a prime example-- there is EVERY reason to &#039;snoop&#039;, play PI, and generally check-up on your SO when a woman has an inutitive &#039;hunch&#039;, because 999.99% of the time, that woman&#039;s &#039;hunch&#039; is right on the money.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally offbase on most issues.  A recent article on&#8217;trust&#8217; is a prime example&#8211; there is EVERY reason to &#8216;snoop&#8217;, play PI, and generally check-up on your SO when a woman has an inutitive &#8216;hunch&#8217;, because 999.99% of the time, that woman&#8217;s &#8216;hunch&#8217; is right on the money.</p>
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		<title>By: JustMe</title>
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		<dc:creator>JustMe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 18:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahahahaha... damn! i ought to stop saying cool! done my share of that :P

oh, not only cool.. but &quot;hey, what&#039;s up?&quot; (not as in &quot;what&#039;s up in your life&quot; but the casual one) cause i&#039;ve nothing else to ask about.. and i can SEE what is going on.. such an obvious, silly question! the other person&#039;s like &quot;hmm, do i have so say something like.. really funny right now, cause she just asked me what is up, and she can see i&#039;m just sitting here at work&quot; :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahahahaha&#8230; damn! i ought to stop saying cool! done my share of that <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>oh, not only cool.. but &#8220;hey, what&#8217;s up?&#8221; (not as in &#8220;what&#8217;s up in your life&#8221; but the casual one) cause i&#8217;ve nothing else to ask about.. and i can SEE what is going on.. such an obvious, silly question! the other person&#8217;s like &#8220;hmm, do i have so say something like.. really funny right now, cause she just asked me what is up, and she can see i&#8217;m just sitting here at work&#8221; <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: JustMe</title>
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		<dc:creator>JustMe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 18:20:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is nothing new to me :P i&#039;ve had dates right after school in a cafe sharing cakes.. :P i&#039;ve had dates from 09.00 a.m til before noon... on a wednesday!

i don&#039;t hang out in bars.. it&#039;s as you say; amateur.. ish! why complain about there being no real connections made in places like that on weekends, when you have SO many other chances and opportunities to make real/genuine connections?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is nothing new to me <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  i&#8217;ve had dates right after school in a cafe sharing cakes.. <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  i&#8217;ve had dates from 09.00 a.m til before noon&#8230; on a wednesday!</p>
<p>i don&#8217;t hang out in bars.. it&#8217;s as you say; amateur.. ish! why complain about there being no real connections made in places like that on weekends, when you have SO many other chances and opportunities to make real/genuine connections?!</p>
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		<title>By: Vic</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 06:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Recently I went out with a woman who used the &quot;cool&quot;. I asked questions of her  that I believed to be thought-provoking and showed that I was, in fact, paying attention to what she was saying. However, when I shared things about myself she threw &quot;cool&quot; at me.  What does one do if the other person hits you with &quot;cool&quot;? For me I find it frustrating as it tends to kill momentum and I&#039;ve always thought that  there should be a reciprocal give-and-take during the course of a conversation...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently I went out with a woman who used the &#8220;cool&#8221;. I asked questions of her  that I believed to be thought-provoking and showed that I was, in fact, paying attention to what she was saying. However, when I shared things about myself she threw &#8220;cool&#8221; at me.  What does one do if the other person hits you with &#8220;cool&#8221;? For me I find it frustrating as it tends to kill momentum and I&#8217;ve always thought that  there should be a reciprocal give-and-take during the course of a conversation&#8230;</p>
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