Comments on: The Worst Idea For Meeting Women

By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 17:36:55 +0000

I’m not a smoker but my ex g/f used to occasionally smoke when we’d go to a club. She’d do it as a social thing… or an occasional stress relief.

And it was actually very easy to meet people by bumming a cigarette. Funny thing is noone ever thought of us less for bumming a cigarette.

It’s like the accepted “to do” thing…. for them, it’s like sharing food or something.

By: Jesse Charger

Jesse Charger — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 03:21:07 +0000

Smoking to meet women has got to be the stupidest idea. Or using it as a pickup line… WEAK. If you like a girl you need to have some balls to go for what you want. Thanks David, great article!

By: Charles

Charles — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:04:02 +0000

The pic ad is hilarious. When would blowing smoke in a woman’s face ever work, smoker or non-smoker? On top of that, because of the ‘tangy cherry or rich grap-y’, she’ll follow you. Wow, I think the cigarette bummers would have a better chance of starting a conversation. ‘Smokers of America, do yourself a flavor…’;'satisfaction of smoke without inhaling smoke.’ Gotta love marketing!!! Thx

By: Kevin

Kevin — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:04:26 +0000

I don’t care how hot a woman is or how much chemisrty I have with her, if she smokes…she’s gone.

By: Hank

Hank — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:58:08 +0000

Lisa

Like asses hang together!!
Smokers are a pain in the butt:)
SO nasty i can not believe that some states still have no smoking laws and your are forced to breathe in there cancer laden sticks.

PLus ever smell a smoker nasty!!!!!!!

By: Lisa

Lisa — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:55:45 +0000

I hate that smokers drop their LIT cigarette butts. They don’t even put out the cigarette; smoke is still emitting from it. That’s gross and LAZY!!! Then their breath smells like an ashtray, and their clothes stink of smoke. They think that once they stop smoking that you can’t smell the smoke on them! Really?!

I don’t mind that a guy comes up to me to bum a cigarette; I don’t smoke so he’s immediately screened out. At least, that way the smokers will stick together.

By: Hank

Hank — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:05:11 +0000

Can you share a butt…now that would work for me.

By: FirstDateCoach

FirstDateCoach — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:05:10 +0000

This is a no brainer guys! Women + Shopping?!?! Happy women shopping are the easiest women to start a conversation with. Even unhappy women shopping are open to random conversation. Long lines, rain checks, bait and switches..what else is there to do but chat(complain) with the person in front or in back of you?

Also, what better way to see what’s important to someone than by finding out what they got up at the crack of dawn to purchase.

Consider this guys….If you’re still dateless for Dec 31st this is perhaps one of the best ways to meet a potential New Year’s Eve date. You’ll have a month to get to know each other and maybe get a few dates in before Dec 31st.

One caution to the men: make sure that this Black Friday style shopping spree doesn’t happen Every friday for her.

One caution to the ladies: make sure this guy’s urge to save a few bucks is more of a tradition than an extremity.

By: Tyler

Tyler — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:16:47 +0000

Black Friday is a great opportunity to meet people. Most people will show up hours before the stores open and then just wait around with nothing better to do. So instead of going for the deals you can go and walk up and down the line just talking everyone and since it’s obvious why they’re there it shouldn’t be too hard to start a conversation.

Unfortunately, I’ll be working that night so the only time that I’ll really talk to anyone is to ask them to move out of the way.