Comments on: The Smell Of Sex http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-37262 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:25:17 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-37262 Jimmy, You understand me well. I am saying to seek first to understand her. By seeking to understand her first, you can see what she sees in you or in whatever issues you are having together. Only then can you communicate with her in a way that she will understand. Just know that I'm not saying to submit to all her will or to only accept what she wants. I'm just saying to communicate and relate to her based on how she sees the world. It's really the art of listening attentively and empathizing with her. It's understanding her on an emotional level instead of a rational one. When you allow your own emotions and her emotions to speak up freely, there's no ego to hold you back from truly communicating to each other. Jimmy,

You understand me well.

I am saying to seek first to understand her. By seeking to understand her first, you can see what she sees in you or in whatever issues you are having together.

Only then can you communicate with her in a way that she will understand. Just know that I’m not saying to submit to all her will or to only accept what she wants.

I’m just saying to communicate and relate to her based on how she sees the world.

It’s really the art of listening attentively and empathizing with her. It’s understanding her on an emotional level instead of a rational one.

When you allow your own emotions and her emotions to speak up freely, there’s no ego to hold you back from truly communicating to each other.

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36857 Coach Kimberly Sat, 06 Feb 2010 05:56:30 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36857 thanks Clint...you got it. Pick a topic and we'll do it! thanks Clint…you got it. Pick a topic and we’ll do it!

]]> By: David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36625 David Wygant Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:25:06 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36625 Michael Its so funny that you brought up that book. I am reading it right now and its brilliant. Simple easy to understand and you can break down just about any relationship based on the 5 languages of love. It also helps you to understand yourself and how your language needs to be filled everyday. We talked about this book the other day..In mondays blog actually. What made you read the book? Michael

Its so funny that you brought up that book. I am reading it right now and its brilliant.
Simple easy to understand and you can break down just about any relationship based on the 5 languages of love.

It also helps you to understand yourself and how your language needs to be filled everyday.

We talked about this book the other day..In mondays blog actually.

What made you read the book?

]]> By: Mats http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36623 Mats Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:41:00 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36623 Thanks for looking into it, my suggestion was with the best intention, and thanks you Ken for your solution. Thanks for looking into it, my suggestion was with the best intention, and thanks you Ken for your solution.

]]> By: Clint http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36622 Clint Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:38:54 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36622 Coach TK: It was what you said about the importance of communication between the two partners. Looking forward to more podcast and your insights. Thank you! Coach TK: It was what you said about the importance of communication between the two partners. Looking forward to more podcast and your insights. Thank you!

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36620 Coach Kimberly Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:04:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36620 Thanks Clint! What part did you relate to? Thanks Clint! What part did you relate to?

]]> By: Sweetheart http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36617 Sweetheart Thu, 04 Feb 2010 17:38:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36617 David...this is one of your best podcasts yet! Great advice from you and the team! David…this is one of your best podcasts yet! Great advice from you and the team!

]]> By: Michael http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36597 Michael Thu, 04 Feb 2010 12:07:25 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36597 Very interesting topic! It reminded me of a book "The 5 love languages" from Gary Chapman I read some weeks ago. He described the model of different love types, and that they need different kinds of of things to get from their partner to "know" that their partner loves them. The love languages he describes are: 1. Quality Time 2. Physical Touch 3. Gift 4. Acts of Service 5. Words of Affirmation Maybe its a different model of what "type" a partner can be than you described in the podcast, but basically it comes to the same: - knowing your own needs and communicating them to your partner - have a partner that can communicate his/her needs and you having the desire to fulfill them Very interesting topic!

It reminded me of a book “The 5 love languages” from Gary Chapman I read some weeks ago.

He described the model of different love types, and that they need different kinds of of things to get from their partner to “know” that their partner loves them.

The love languages he describes are:
1. Quality Time
2. Physical Touch
3. Gift
4. Acts of Service
5. Words of Affirmation

Maybe its a different model of what “type” a partner can be than you described in the podcast, but basically it comes to the same:

- knowing your own needs and communicating them to your partner
- have a partner that can communicate his/her needs and you having the desire to fulfill them

]]> By: Kevin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36585 Kevin Thu, 04 Feb 2010 08:19:54 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36585 No David, I don't think you do. lmao j/k No David, I don’t think you do. lmao j/k

]]> By: Cloud http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-smell-of-sex/3603/#comment-36584 Cloud Thu, 04 Feb 2010 07:26:22 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3603#comment-36584 I enjoyed this podcast. Thank you very much David.. I enjoyed this podcast. Thank you very much David..

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