http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-secret-to-being-a-good-conversationalist/4934/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-secret-to-being-a-good-conversationalist/4934/#comment-42485 Mario C Wed, 25 Aug 2010 15:55:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4934#comment-42485 bob/manny castro- i believe thats why you practice so when you do say whats on your mind it comes out positive because you have been practicing and your in a great mood so positive things come out of your mouth. i do it all the time and it works fine for me. bob/manny castro- i believe thats why you practice so when you do say whats on your mind it comes out positive because you have been practicing and your in a great mood so positive things come out of your mouth. i do it all the time and it works fine for me.

]]> http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-secret-to-being-a-good-conversationalist/4934/#comment-42479 Bob Wed, 25 Aug 2010 04:02:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4934#comment-42479 Good one Manny Castro. Yea, maybe a different example would have been more appropriate, for sure! I have tried not to "censor" my conversations, and boy, did it get me in trouble a time or two. Blurting out the first thing that comes to mind is a definate mistake. The key to good conversation, really, is to be able to quickly ascertain your audiance, then make the appropriate conversation which is suited for that moment, and circumstance. This is the problem that most guys have. They say the wrong things at the wrong time. They either escalate too fast, or too slow, say inappropriate things at the wrong time and place. If you can learn to size up what you are trying to accomplish, and find the conversation that most efficiently achieves that end...then you are learning how to be a natural conversationalist. Good one Manny Castro.
Yea, maybe a different example would have been more appropriate, for sure! I have tried not to “censor” my conversations, and boy, did it get me in trouble a time or two. Blurting out the first thing that comes to mind is a definate mistake. The key to good conversation, really, is to be able to quickly ascertain your audiance, then make the appropriate conversation which is suited for that moment, and circumstance. This is the problem that most guys have. They say the wrong things at the wrong time. They either escalate too fast, or too slow, say inappropriate things at the wrong time and place. If you can learn to size up what you are trying to accomplish, and find the conversation that most efficiently achieves that end…then you are learning how to be a natural conversationalist.

]]> http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-secret-to-being-a-good-conversationalist/4934/#comment-42466 Mario C Tue, 24 Aug 2010 05:13:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4934#comment-42466 wow that blog just kicked me square in the ass. jeez David you really are good at kicking peoples asses and making them think more critical and positive wow that blog just kicked me square in the ass. jeez David you really are good at kicking peoples asses and making them think more critical and positive

]]> http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-secret-to-being-a-good-conversationalist/4934/#comment-42465 Manny Castro from Grand Forks Tue, 24 Aug 2010 04:12:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4934#comment-42465 Man! One of the ways you can tell you you've been in the field for too long is when you start admiring the business plans of successful homeless people. Its like the sun just beats down on you and just messes with your head. I propose a conference called "Unleash the Vagrant Within!" Neill Strauss can teach us the hobo opener. It goes like: "There's this hobo outside. Do you know what he got up to this morning? I don't know but the third base plate got jealous. Baaa Duh Boom!" Ah, good times. Man! One of the ways you can tell you you’ve been in the field for too long is when you start admiring the business plans of successful homeless people. Its like the sun just beats down on you and just messes with your head. I propose a conference called “Unleash the Vagrant Within!” Neill Strauss can teach us the hobo opener. It goes like: “There’s this hobo outside. Do you know what he got up to this morning? I don’t know but the third base plate got jealous. Baaa Duh Boom!” Ah, good times.

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