The Realities Of Good Sex
June 16, 2009 
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Juicy…
It’s really funny because men don’t need any special reason to check out a woman’s ass . . . let alone women wearing something with the word “juicy” or “belief” written across it.
I was just in the grocery store and saw a woman wearing sweatpants that had the word “juicy” on it, and then saw another one in a different aisle with the word “belief.” Every time I see this, I always think how interesting it is how many women wear things like this.
Women get so annoyed that men check out their asses, but then they go out, buy and wear sweatpants with words like “juicy” on them all but putting a neon arrow pointing to their ass.
I mean, women know we’re curious and they know we don’t like a lot of text at one time. If women really wanted men not checking out their ass, then they would put a whole paragraph on the ass of their pants.
Anyway, I believe in juicy. Really, it’s true that if we’re looking at your ass we already think you’re ass is juicy.
So on to today’s juicy blog…
Let’s talk about sex. Let’s talk about the realities of good sex.
Sex should never get boring. The truth is that if you have good and open communication with your partner about what feels good and what you desire then sex should never get boring.
You and your partner should always be wanting and willing to please each other. So if you combine that with open and honest communication about what you each desire then you are going to have some amazing sex.
Let’s also talk about something else about good sex. Everyone is always talking about new sexual positions. They want something new to do other than 69. They’ll say, “I want to do 77. I want to do 48. I want to do 62.” The bottom line is that there are probably only four or five positions that really feel good to both of you or that allow both of you to orgasm really amazingly.
Let’s go even deeper into this. Let’s say you like five positions. Then let’s say you are really good at certain foreplay things, so that’s ten or fifteen more things you like to do. Finally let’s say there are ten different places in your house that you like to have sex.
There are then more than twenty different ways you can have sex that you both really enjoy. So if the average couple has sex two days a week (which, by the way isn’t enough for me), it is going to take you months to do everything you both like one time before you have to ever repeat things. Plus, by the time you get back to repeating something, it will seem new and exciting again.
Sex should never get boring with the person that you are with, because you should always be coming up with new and fun things to do and really enjoying each other’s bodies. Â It is amazing when someone knows everything you like. They know how to make you feel good, and they know how to make you orgasm in ways no one else does.
Granted, the newness does wear off. Everybody loves that newness. It is so great, and I love to have, new sex.
If you think about it, though, new sex is actually nerve-racking. When you’re having sex with someone you’ve only slept with once or twice, you don’t know what they like or what they are feeling.
Being with your lover and getting to know them in every which way, however, is the ultimate intimacy. Learning somebody, feeling them, experiencing things with them, and then making love to them, is beautiful. Â It is a beautiful thing to experience somebody and get to know everything about their body, because just when you think you know everything about their body you find out something new.
I want to find a woman that I can have this undying and true connection with physically and emotionally. These are some of the same thoughts that I have about good sex and intimacy. When its great it is great for the both of you.
There are some sexual positions that I like have you done it in a chair yet. Where the man is sitting down and she sits facing you and comes down on you slowly. There are certain sexual positions I like, but what I like to do is find out what satisfies my guy the most and in return allow him to get to know what makes me tick.
its kind of hard to take my eye’s of the juicy pants however what are they thinking:)
A woman’s body is amazing and like you said you always learn something new that you didn’t know before.
amazing blog today!!
The new sex makes me nervous however i love that feeling and all the new sensation.
You know I heard that the kamasutra is made of i think 6 different position and you can do these six different position like 5 different ways which leaves you with 30 sex position.
Greetings from Ireland!
Great Blog, I think sex in new relationships is the best, it’s better than one night stands when it’s awkward sometimes, being in a new relationship you’re both interested and can enjoy discovering!!
As for the juicy pants, I’m afraid in Ireland the girls who wear these are normally fat mingers (means NOT attractive girls) so yes their ass is juicy but WAY too juicy for my liking!!! lol…
I’ll have to move to states where the ladies seem so much hotter!!
Sandra – you’re right about the chair, it’s hot!!
Live with passion,
Philip
I think the best kind of sex is when your hand, your body acts like a little adventurer/explorer. There’s always a fun spot you can find if you really pay attention!
The other day, my partner discovered that I get very ticklish when she kisses me on my back, a little above my shoulder blades.
I never knew that spot existed! LOL
Of course you would expect someone to look at your ass with anything written on it..especially a word like Juicy.
What I really don’t like being a mom is the age group this kind of saying on clothes it being targeted. Juicy is cute on a older girl and I think kind of playful, but on a 12 years old is just plain sick.
Right Sandra that’s a good one..it really makes the girl be able to move freely and control the fun.
I totally agree with you – there’s no reason to get bored with partner sex! It takes a little creativity and effort to keep things hot, but it can be done, exactly like you said … there are enough combinations of things that work to keep it fun.
That said, I think the main reason why couples get bored has more to do with creating anticipation and sexual tension, which is just easier to come by with new people. But the pleasure and intimacy isn’t guaranteed. Great post!