Comments on: Get Out Of The Friend Zone http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Rose http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-58880 Rose Thu, 03 Nov 2011 15:05:21 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-58880 Hi David, You mentioned in your newsletter today, sorry I don't have the title. That as women we should follow up with men, say hello to them if we see them at the mall etc.. Be friendly and approachable. I agree with you and have done this often. Problem is, I find as a woman when I am friendly, and following up with my male friends they take it as that I am interested in them and also that I would want to go with them as a romantic partner. How I can I avoid this awkward and annoying situation and follow your advice? Thank you, Rose Hi David, You mentioned in your newsletter today, sorry I don’t have the title. That as women we should follow up with men, say hello to them if we see them at the mall etc.. Be friendly and approachable. I agree with you and have done this often. Problem is, I find as a woman when I am friendly, and following up with my male friends they take it as that I am interested in them and also that I would want to go with them as a romantic partner. How I can I avoid this awkward and annoying situation and follow your advice? Thank you, Rose

]]> By: Peter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-58773 Peter Tue, 01 Nov 2011 13:51:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-58773 I like this post and the part about escalating. My situation: I was out with a girl that I like, for the fourth time. What we do aren't dates, (don't think she considers them as such) but we spend time together. We do something in the afternoon (she often brings her child) and in the evening we have dinner somewhere. We also have long phone conversations. I recently told her that I really liked her and she responded that she doesn't see us in a relationship. She sees me as a great guy, a good friend, a fun person. We will still make appointments and spend time together. I am wondering what I can do. Later she texted me telling me she doesn't feel attraction, it has nothing to so with me as a person, she tried to reassure me. For some reason I have the feeling that some sort of tension is gone in my head. I have the feeling that I can behave more freely like myself, but I have to see next time. Is all hope lost, or is it possible she will change her mind in time? She enjoys her time with me. I like this post and the part about escalating.
My situation: I was out with a girl that I like, for the fourth time. What we do aren’t dates, (don’t think she considers them as such) but we spend time together. We do something in the afternoon (she often brings her child) and in the evening we have dinner somewhere. We also have long phone conversations. I recently told her that I really liked her and she responded that she doesn’t see us in a relationship. She sees me as a great guy, a good friend, a fun person. We will still make appointments and spend time together. I am wondering what I can do. Later she texted me telling me she doesn’t feel attraction, it has nothing to so with me as a person, she tried to reassure me. For some reason I have the feeling that some sort of tension is gone in my head. I have the feeling that I can behave more freely like myself, but I have to see next time. Is all hope lost, or is it possible she will change her mind in time? She enjoys her time with me.

]]> By: Nick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-58427 Nick Tue, 25 Oct 2011 01:00:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-58427 Thank you for your posts David. But To everyone reading this I have a question, and I need your help. I have been talking to this girl Christine for a while. She's great. Along with her great personality, we have a lot in common. We've been flirting a lot through texting, and in person, but I want to know how to tell her how I feel about her without coming off as creepy, or coming off as weird. I'm also a little afraid of if I went in to kiss her, she would reject me. If I could get some tips from anyone out there it would be great. Thanks so much. Thank you for your posts David. But To everyone reading this I have a question, and I need your help. I have been talking to this girl Christine for a while. She’s great. Along with her great personality, we have a lot in common. We’ve been flirting a lot through texting, and in person, but I want to know how to tell her how I feel about her without coming off as creepy, or coming off as weird. I’m also a little afraid of if I went in to kiss her, she would reject me. If I could get some tips from anyone out there it would be great. Thanks so much.

]]> By: RONI http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-56271 RONI Tue, 27 Sep 2011 17:07:21 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-56271 thanx david for ur posts ! I never tried this out ! Today i went out and started approaching with women .Though the first one shot me down . But i kept on trying and at the of the day i got 15 women's number ! i never knew that i had soo much power in me ! Again THANKS DAVID FOR UR SUPPORT ! thanx david for ur posts !
I never tried this out ! Today i went out and started approaching with women .Though the first one shot me down . But i kept on trying and at the of the day i got 15 women’s number ! i never knew that i had soo much power in me !
Again
THANKS DAVID FOR UR SUPPORT !

]]> By: Steve http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-55776 Steve Tue, 20 Sep 2011 17:48:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-55776 lol I just wanna know, is that E from entourage in the picture? hahaha lol I just wanna know, is that E from entourage in the picture? hahaha

]]> By: Tony http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-54919 Tony Sat, 10 Sep 2011 15:42:50 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-54919 Need some advice: An ex and I started talking again after four years. For a whole year we just had a phone friendship, she asked me out a few times but I politely declined saying I was busy, when in reality I just didn't know if I wanted to repeat history with her again. We finally went out and after going to one bar to another she ended up talking with another old guy friend, than his brother, one of her old flings, sat down. I began to feel uncomfortable and felt like it did matter if I was there or not so I told her I was going to head home. I was pissed but kept it hidden. I felt like she totally disrespected me, especially after the two of us not seeing each other for four years. Since that night, she has kind of flaked out on me. I invited her and her 13 year old daughter to a friends BBQ, she was hesitant at first but agreed to go...unless it rained, which it did. I was cool with that and went with one of my friends and had a blast. Later I told her we made the right decision by not going together to the BBQ and told her it was boring at first but then it was a blast later. She got all pissed off, saying I have the time of my life with old friends but am bored with her...WTF? Anyway...I took her and her daughter to a movie last weekend and than spent the night talking, flirting and laughing...we both seemed to have a good time and she suggested we do this again, when her daughter was with her dad. Here is my concern, I think she may of began seeing her old fling she met at the bar...she doesn't initiate contact with me like she used to and when she does it's just to talk as friends, which is fine because that is all we are at this point. Should I continue the friendship, knowing it will probably end up as possibly nothing more than friends, or just move on. Lately she has been on my mind a lot and it's driving me insane!!! Sorry for the long post! Need some advice:

An ex and I started talking again after four years. For a whole year we just had a phone friendship, she asked me out a few times but I politely declined saying I was busy, when in reality I just didn’t know if I wanted to repeat history with her again.

We finally went out and after going to one bar to another she ended up talking with another old guy friend, than his brother, one of her old flings, sat down. I began to feel uncomfortable and felt like it did matter if I was there or not so I told her I was going to head home.

I was pissed but kept it hidden. I felt like she totally disrespected me, especially after the two of us not seeing each other for four years.

Since that night, she has kind of flaked out on me. I invited her and her 13 year old daughter to a friends BBQ, she was hesitant at first but agreed to go…unless it rained, which it did. I was cool with that and went with one of my friends and had a blast.

Later I told her we made the right decision by not going together to the BBQ and told her it was boring at first but then it was a blast later. She got all pissed off, saying I have the time of my life with old friends but am bored with her…WTF?

Anyway…I took her and her daughter to a movie last weekend and than spent the night talking, flirting and laughing…we both seemed to have a good time and she suggested we do this again, when her daughter was with her dad.

Here is my concern, I think she may of began seeing her old fling she met at the bar…she doesn’t initiate contact with me like she used to and when she does it’s just to talk as friends, which is fine because that is all we are at this point.

Should I continue the friendship, knowing it will probably end up as possibly nothing more than friends, or just move on. Lately she has been on my mind a lot and it’s driving me insane!!!

Sorry for the long post!

]]> By: Dale http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-54225 Dale Sat, 03 Sep 2011 23:35:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-54225 The thing about being close friends with women who you are interested in is that it is also very good practice, if your not going for them, to have conversations and do things that you would normally do to people that you find interesting and attractive. Being outcome independent and being dependent to converse with everyone will really bring ppl to you, it is very attractive and will yield many benefits, maybe even that close female friends of yours. The thing about being close friends with women who you are interested in is that it is also very good practice, if your not going for them, to have conversations and do things that you would normally do to people that you find interesting and attractive.

Being outcome independent and being dependent to converse with everyone will really bring ppl to you, it is very attractive and will yield many benefits, maybe even that close female friends of yours.

]]> By: Maryanne http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-53726 Maryanne Mon, 29 Aug 2011 06:22:12 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-53726 This is a great post!!! This is a great post!!!

]]> By: bigp http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-51994 bigp Fri, 15 Jul 2011 16:53:12 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-51994 Great Article David Great Article David

]]> By: Connie- http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-friend-zone-mindset/3567/#comment-51861 Connie- Sun, 10 Jul 2011 02:35:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3567#comment-51861 I agree with Cathy. Just do it! If you want to find love you have to put yourself out there. I agree with Cathy. Just do it! If you want to find love you have to put yourself out there.

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