The Friday Challenge
February 10, 2012 
73 Comments
We’re doing some new things around here.
Next week, I’ll be launching a brand new design for DavidWygant.com. I can’t wait to show you.
In the spirit of newness, we’re also going to change the format of the blog a bit. We’re doing more videos, we’re answering questions, we’re recording podcasts, and we’ll have this: The Friday Challenge.
The Friday Challenge will consist of actions that I’ll encourage you to take, in an effort to help you improve your dating life. You’ll be required to perform the action on Friday, and then report back to us on Monday in the comments section of the blog.
THE CHALLENGE
Do you remember the episode in Seinfeld when they had the masturbation contest to see who could go the longest without masturbating? I’d like to do that challenge here on the blog.
I want to see how long all of you can go without masturbating.
I want to know how you feel every day you take masturbation out of your life. How do you feel when you don’t masturbate for a few days? How do you feel when you don’t masturbate for a week? How do you feel if you don’t masturbate for two weeks?
Let’s find out. If you want to enter the contest, post “I’M IN” in the comments section below.
Whomever can refrain from masturbating the longest, will get a free half-hour coaching session with me and the praise and acclaim from our friends here on the blog.
I think I’m worth not masturbating for. What do you think?
I’m IN!! , I’ll start as soon as I’m done whackin’ it!
I am in.
Starting right now.
I’m in! … never mind, I’m out
I’m in !
I’m in. Let’s do this! … errr… NOT do this!
Quick rules clarification,,, if you hang streamers from your weiner,, and dangle it in front of the cat… DOES that disqualify you?
:-/
Just to clarify, the person who jacks it the most at the end of the contest DOES NOT get a 30 minute pity call with me. So put your hands-free headset away.
I am also IN.
I’m in too.
I’m in, but I need a clarification on the rules as well. Do I have to stop having sex?
No Colin, you do not need to stop having sex. Please continue having sex.
That would be like the worst challenge of all time.
@collin,, only if it’s with yourself!,, , or underage girls,,, or family members,, or bigfoot…
Otherwise,, it’s ok.
@Shogo, I may be able to win this contest. I don’t have 30 years to wait around trying to win the no sex contest. Also, I doubt I would last a week.
Holy Crap, If this was the no masturbation/no sex challenge you should just call it the “How many people can you kill with your bare hands in a week?” Challenge.
And John, this is a tricky rules area. Afterall, you would be getting off with the help of a pussy.
I’m 17 and I have hormones. Let’s see how long I last. I’m in.
im in
Im in Dave
@david wygant – will you be having similar challenges on the women’s blog?
What a frickin totally unfair challenge. Those of us with girlfriends never mastubate, those without are forced too, or receive blue balls. Stupid challenge, with ridiculous rules. No Masturbating, No screwing, the real thing, is the only fair way. Hell, I’ll just hire a hooker twice a week, and win…Besides is this an honor based contest? yea right, every one is gonna tell the truth. Julie, I didn’t know there was a man good enough for you to lay you down, so how the hell can you win? A man might “soil” your most awesome, superior body…
Oh, the waltz dancin was sooo coool. I’m signed up every thursday to learn all six ballroom dances. No shit three to one girls. They were practically throwing themselves at me! I will wait to pick out the ones I want to get numbers from in the next week or two. Wow, what a great idea!!
I’m in
Bob, I’m glad to hear that you loved it! And yes… a target rich environment.
Dan, No shit man. Greatest odds I have ever seen. And damn, there were some awesome lookin gals there. I was talking to one I really liked, and two or three others kept breaking in to try to get my attention on them. Wow, You were right! cudos to you bud. The one I liked looked around 25, so I thought oh no, another Krisi, but when I asked her if she was around 25 she cracked up. I said, “to old, I’m so sorry, I didn’t mean to embarrass you”, and she laughed and said try closer to 40
. I swear she looked 25 and awesome body. Number one on my list next week. Things are looking up. PBR is in town, so gotta get to the honky tonk and check out the cowgirls. I’m at my lovenest in Oklahoma city, so we will see what happens… Y’all have a great weekend!
If David loses, (I assume he is in, since it is his contest)I will give him a 30 minute free call with a 6 time world champion, ladies man, for advice that is over his head. As I said in an earlier post…I am far more intelligent than he, and he may learn some business pointers!
I’m in
I’m in. Hey David since you give so many rants about frequent flyer miles, can our non-masturbation days carry over? I have at least 40 continuous days going into this competition.
I’m in!
wow bob so you subscribe to his blog for what purpose then? not in…. i would prefer to masterbate than to manipulate some girl im truely not interested in into the sack…. taking a break at the moment…. gotta center myself
Dave
Nope no fequent non jerking miles carried over. The bet starts here
I am also glad we have some women on board with this social experiment.
alright so dumb question. are we supposed to write every day in this blog about our non masturbation journey?
i can start.
day 1
tonight i started reading naked. sense not masturbating i feel all my energy and motivation coming back and i had this randomly awesome conversation with this girl on Facebook and asked her out and i got a rejection, but i still had fun doing it. i also physically wrote down a game plan to actually how im going to go about meeting people and wooing girls. too which ive never done before and sense doing it i feel a millions times more committed to it.
even though i heard both my roommates banging there girl hard in there rooms down the halls i still some how ob stained
more on this later. tomorrow
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How does writing a journal everyday prove we didn’t masturbate? How will you know we aren’t just making it up? Unless I overlooked it. I didn’t see anyone else ask this question.
I’m in:
day 1 – Due to the championship meet in my sport coming up this is something were required to do anyways.
We not leave the challenge till August and we can join the Muslims, but instead of Ramadan we can call it Ramawank. @David how are you going to know the people are telling the truth? So many people lie about this habit already.
exactly my thoughts
I´m in guys and girls!
I´m in!, well i was in already!
@bob ,, just curious,, what was the age range of the women at the ballroom dancing class??
I am so in! It’s gonna be hard, but I think it’s a really good idea, for both the single folks as well as the attached folks!
@Bob: good luck with your dancer lady!
I am most definately in
I’m a little late but i’m in!
John,
A few 20′s, but mostly 35 to 45 or 50. I’m not kidding. They form a waiting line for men to dance with. (You dance with each lady for just a couple minutes, then have to grab another because there aren’t near enough men for all of the ladies) But you have to take the first one in line so you never know who you will get, unless you ask one of the ones sitting down.
I’m at my “pad” in OKC this weekend because the PBR is in town, and the honky tonks are hot here this weekend. Had a crazy experience last night at Graham’s saloon. Some insane lady stalked me, kept telling every girl I wanted to dance with that I was “dangerous”, and totally ruined my night. The bouncers finally brought her into the office, and I saw her and two other people being escorted out of the place soon after. Then the manager apologized to me and said drinks were on them tonight. It is a crazy story, too long to go into here.
Tried this after the summer and for 2.5 months. Almost went crazy for the first two weeks but after that it was easy and I found myself more productive and more inclined to go out.
I’m late but I’m in. As a virgin this oughta be easy.
Damn, that sounds ridiculous, Bob. I thought I would have the most ridiculous story for the night with getting followed to my house by a cop, but you take the cake.
he he i have u all beat i could go longer…without masturbation…how many of you can go without porno tapes while masturbating…he he
In the past day (since this started) I’ve wanted to touch myself a few times, but I had to restrain myself. It was weird.
So far no one has broken down?
Every guy needs to watch this. Resist resist resist:)
lets do it. the challenge not the sex that is…
dave
eight years without sex with a man and a year without a vibrator and a porno flick…ummm…what do u think…
oh i am not going to watch that video not interested in women…how about some men please…
I’m in. This is cake for me. I’ve recently gone 2 months without masturbating i kid you not. I can go weeks and months without masturbating and it really puts my life in perspective. I simply begin approaching more women when I’m not masturbating. Having said that here’s what it doesn’t teach you: how to stay true to yourself. I’ve been such an enigma to myself that I simply do not express myself at times the way I should. I end up being my own oppressor and I begin partitioning my life somehow. This partitioning doesn’t allow me to show parts of myself which I need to since I need to bring together the energy from other parts of my life in to my present.
Hey Manny,
what are you hoping to do by partitioning yourself? What’s your goal?
I’m in. When I go without masturbating I just end up doing it unintentionally while I sleep. Fair?
day 2
went out tonight and it was amazing.
still havnt broken down yet!!!!
I remember years ago when I once went without masturbating for at least 6 months. I remember feeling more energetic and appreciative of everyday things, and felt like I had more energy for other things.
I’m in (this is going to be tough)
I haven’t been laid since July, 2010
She was my on/off again girlfriend for 3 years
and she was the sexiest woman I ever been with (and haven’t desired anyone since her)
Dan, I try not partition myself since partitioning makes me shameful of every aspiring action i do. i am my own oppressor. So Ive decided that in order to love every part of me i have to embrace all my weaknesses. Those weaknesses have beauty in them that i kill when i end up hating the weak part of me.
Do I really get a free coaching call? If so, there is no way in hell anyone can go longer than I can. I once went from Jan. 2007 to Aug. 2008 without masturbation or sex (the only reason I broke down is I broke the cardinal rule of not looking at porn and drinking at the same time). Anyone want to try that? I can assure you you don’t. The details of what happens to your sex drive are ugly to say the least. I could explain, but trust me if you have not gone without sexual release for that long, you don’t want to know. No normal functioning adults body was designed for that. But if I really get a free coaching call, my current time since last wank is Jan. 21st. I have already gone through the climbing the walls phase once. Once or twice more through this stage and I can go as long as you want. One year? Two? Bring it on.
I’M IN!!!
Bikini? Pfftt I need hardcore porn to get me off
ALL IN!
fap fap fap … ok, I’m in.
WOW, very hard for me to resist, sorry guys i can not do it.
Good luck to everybody.
IM IN
You know what, I’m in!! Even if I don’t win the personal phone call, I’m really more interested to see how it is like to live without masturbating for awhile. I’m hoping I can learn some genuine life lesson from this experience.
ohhh c mon is not that hard to resist, when u have a box of these
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http://a2.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/425024_367372906606645_283767324967204_1480491_1155644904_n.jpg
I”M IN
Wasn’t sure if this applied to women, but it looks like it does. I’ve resisted temptation since last Friday, where are we with this contest – will there ever be a closing date?
I want to WIN the coaching call!!
I’m IN!
Damn you David and your stupid video. >:|
I ended up losing the contest before I can say “I’m in”.
Men and women would be the opposite, David. It will build desire in men through a build up of testosterone. No going would curtail female libido. Women are far more active after sex (activity facilitates the travel of sperm to the ovum for fertilisation) Sexual drives are mostly dependant upon the stage of women’s cycles and subsequent hormone levels. Mother nature makes women most amorous at a time where conception is likely to take place.
Im in!