Comments on: The End Result http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:52:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 Adam DW Head Instructor - London.By: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22856 Adam DW Head Instructor - London. Tue, 10 Feb 2009 19:54:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22856 Hey Dan, Just to back up what Kimberley mentioned. Your going about things great. Dont let your head start messing with you just because things are going so well. just enjoy living in the moment as so many people struggle with that idea. Notice how she talks, totally feel the underlying emotion when she talks, thats where that true connection comes into play. At the same time, be the man and lead..I dont mean tell her what to do and order her around but instead demonstrate to her that you have a path in life and you know where your going and make sure you stay on that path. Be that intersting guy that any women would want to orient herself around...Enjoy and let me know how you get on... Hey Dan,
Just to back up what Kimberley mentioned. Your going about things great. Dont let your head start messing with you just because things are going so well. just enjoy living in the moment as so many people struggle with that idea. Notice how she talks, totally feel the underlying emotion when she talks, thats where that true connection comes into play. At the same time, be the man and lead..I dont mean tell her what to do and order her around but instead demonstrate to her that you have a path in life and you know where your going and make sure you stay on that path. Be that intersting guy that any women would want to orient herself around…Enjoy and let me know how you get on…

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]]> LaceyBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22830 Lacey Tue, 10 Feb 2009 01:57:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22830 hi im a middle school student. i know this guy named justin whom i would like to get more involved with. weve been best friends for a year and i like him more than that. he tells my friends that he wants to go out with me but im not sure if that is true.... i also am afraid of ruining my reputation as a "tough girl" by going out with justin. i constantly flirt with him and he flirts back does this mean he likes me? HELP!!!!!!! hi im a middle school student. i know this guy named justin whom i would like to get more involved with. weve been best friends for a year and i like him more than that. he tells my friends that he wants to go out with me but im not sure if that is true…. i also am afraid of ruining my reputation as a “tough girl” by going out with justin. i constantly flirt with him and he flirts back does this mean he likes me? HELP!!!!!!!

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]]> Coach YakubBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22810 Coach Yakub Sun, 08 Feb 2009 19:28:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22810 sometimes when i think about each moments, and how the clock is ticking by each seconds- I find life to be so amazing, and feel bad if I waste any minute of my life. I always love learning more about our inner self, and enjoying life by the moments, and whenever i think about embracing my life, i feel good about my life and how far I have come. Life is a great gift and your story is very inspiring D.!! sometimes when i think about each moments, and how the clock is ticking by each seconds- I find life to be so amazing, and feel bad if I waste any minute of my life.

I always love learning more about our inner self, and enjoying life by the moments, and whenever i think about embracing my life, i feel good about my life and how far I have come.

Life is a great gift and your story is very inspiring D.!!

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]]> SandraBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22806 Sandra Sun, 08 Feb 2009 18:27:23 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22806 Observing your surroundings say you have a crush on this guy if you watch how he is around others and especially how he treats other women. Then start talking to him then you can decide if he is the right one for you. There are times that I observe my surroundings for I am around money working as a cashier. Then I notice guys that I would not mind being with but do they want to be with me? Observing your surroundings say you have a crush on this guy if you watch how he is around others and especially how he treats other women. Then start talking to him then you can decide if he is the right one for you. There are times that I observe my surroundings for I am around money working as a cashier. Then I notice guys that I would not mind being with but do they want to be with me?

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]]> LoganBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22801 Logan Sun, 08 Feb 2009 13:12:38 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22801 David, Recently I started to consciously observe my surroundings more as you recommend. I looked at everything, I listened, I observed people, and so on. What happened by doing so was that it really helped me get out of my head. I was more in the now moment. I was enjoying the moment more and was less trying to get to the next thing. Oftentimes I found myself talking to strangers without having thought about it before. Wonderful! :-) David,

Recently I started to consciously observe my surroundings more as you recommend. I looked at everything, I listened, I observed people, and so on. What happened by doing so was that it really helped me get out of my head. I was more in the now moment. I was enjoying the moment more and was less trying to get to the next thing. Oftentimes I found myself talking to strangers without having thought about it before. Wonderful! :-)

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]]> danBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22799 dan Sun, 08 Feb 2009 06:38:27 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22799 Kim, thanks so much :) Kim,

thanks so much :)

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]]> SandraBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22798 Sandra Sun, 08 Feb 2009 04:17:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22798 At one time I wanted a relationship with this one guy but I gave it some thought why rush into it before I got to know him. So I let each day come to pass as it should now today we are best friends. People have a tendency to rush into things without getting to know each other. Sometimes our hormones can speak for us. First get to know one another then see if the relationship is going to be compatable and then once the two decide together then take it from there. At one time I wanted a relationship with this one guy but I gave it some thought why rush into it before I got to know him. So I let each day come to pass as it should now today we are best friends. People have a tendency to rush into things without getting to know each other. Sometimes our hormones can speak for us. First get to know one another then see if the relationship is going to be compatable and then once the two decide together then take it from there.

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]]> KBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22796 K Sun, 08 Feb 2009 02:51:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22796 Interesting to ponder - I've always thought that I was doing just fine by enjoying the moment in my relationships of the past. I didn't worry about where they were going or when but it seemed that someone was always pushing me to go faster or in another direction instead of just letting things unfold on their own. By not allowing a natural progression of things but maneuvering things (and me) to suit their own purposes, they drove me away, some faster than others. I don't like being "herded" or manipulated in any way. If you want something, say so and stop beating around the bush. Otherwise, eat my dust because I am gone. Interesting to ponder – I’ve always thought that I was doing just fine by enjoying the moment in my relationships of the past. I didn’t worry about where they were going or when but it seemed that someone was always pushing me to go faster or in another direction instead of just letting things unfold on their own. By not allowing a natural progression of things but maneuvering things (and me) to suit their own purposes, they drove me away, some faster than others. I don’t like being “herded” or manipulated in any way. If you want something, say so and stop beating around the bush. Otherwise, eat my dust because I am gone.

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]]> TarasBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22795 Taras Sun, 08 Feb 2009 00:10:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22795 Great post David! It is inspiring to see the kind of life you live, but even more so how you know how to enjoy every minute of it :) Great post David! It is inspiring to see the kind of life you live, but even more so how you know how to enjoy every minute of it :)

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]]> Coach KimberlyBy: http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-end-result/1269/#comment-22794 Coach Kimberly Sat, 07 Feb 2009 23:17:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1269#comment-22794 Great post! Especially in this day and age when we are all so quick to get results fast in so many areas of our lives! I learn this concept of "carpe diem" or "seize the day "with children. I see how excited they get with little things that happen throughout the day and now I really try to look at things through a child's view. That also makes daily interactions more playful and pure. Dan, if your girlfriend is initiating half of the conversation then it sounds pretty even and that she too is enjoying it. At the momemtum you are describing, why would you take a day off? I think that might send the wrong message, especially if things are going well.... I like your idea of just enjoying and not thinking about the end result so much:) Kimberly Great post! Especially in this day and age when we are all so quick to get results fast in so many areas of our lives! I learn this concept of “carpe diem” or “seize the day “with children. I see how excited they get with little things that happen throughout the day and now I really try to look at things through a child’s view. That also makes daily interactions more playful and pure.

Dan, if your girlfriend is initiating half of the conversation then it sounds pretty even and that she too is enjoying it. At the momemtum you are describing, why would you take a day off? I think that might send the wrong message, especially if things are going well…. I like your idea of just enjoying and not thinking about the end result so much:)

Kimberly

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