Comments on: The Definition Of A Crappy Day http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Nicky http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29687 Nicky Sat, 18 Jul 2009 11:50:54 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29687 Yes, I totally agree David! You've just got to realise that there are millions of other ppl out there having a bad moment too. I always think to myself, things could be a lot worse. I could find out I have cancer or be in a car accident and get paralysed etc. I think your dating life is what you make of it. I moved to a new city 8 mths ago and was complaining to my gfs that I hadn't me anyone. So I jumped onto an online dating site and have been on a few dates. Yeah they weren't my type but it was fun nevertheless. Just when I though I was sick of the online dating thing, I logged on today and started chatting to two nice fellas. We exchanged nos and I'm going to catch up with them sometime this week. It amazes me how it's that easy!! So there's no excuse really. Even the internet is becoming a way of meeting new friends too. I have a couple of friends here who are foreigners and wanted to expand their social circle. They've met up with other people recently who are in the same boat as them in a new city and they were all really cool and NORMAL. Don't get freaked out that the internet is full of weirdos. Sure there are some on there but in the dating sense, you just have to weed out the bad ones from the good ones. No different to meeting guys in a bar I think. Yes, I totally agree David! You’ve just got to realise that there are millions of other ppl out there having a bad moment too. I always think to myself, things could be a lot worse. I could find out I have cancer or be in a car accident and get paralysed etc.

I think your dating life is what you make of it. I moved to a new city 8 mths ago and was complaining to my gfs that I hadn’t me anyone. So I jumped onto an online dating site and have been on a few dates. Yeah they weren’t my type but it was fun nevertheless. Just when I though I was sick of the online dating thing, I logged on today and started chatting to two nice fellas. We exchanged nos and I’m going to catch up with them sometime this week. It amazes me how it’s that easy!! So there’s no excuse really.

Even the internet is becoming a way of meeting new friends too. I have a couple of friends here who are foreigners and wanted to expand their social circle. They’ve met up with other people recently who are in the same boat as them in a new city and they were all really cool and NORMAL. Don’t get freaked out that the internet is full of weirdos. Sure there are some on there but in the dating sense, you just have to weed out the bad ones from the good ones. No different to meeting guys in a bar I think.

]]> By: Mark http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29663 Mark Fri, 17 Jul 2009 16:49:39 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29663 I just heard the podcast. Thank you Dave. You brighten my bad day LOL I just heard the podcast. Thank you Dave. You brighten my bad day LOL

]]> By: Link http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29660 Link Fri, 17 Jul 2009 13:50:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29660 Haha excellent podcast! Very very funny and equally insightful. I couldn't stop laughing after the part "I'm having a BAAAD DOG DAY!" Whenever something bad happens to me, I just think about that part & I immediately start cracking up. I took your advice yesterday and kept treating bad moments as just that... bad moments and nothing else. And the amazing thing was, as a result, I didn't let little things get to me! Even when my girlfriend & I got in a fight last night, I kept my cool the whole time holding that thought. And so later on as a result, she really warmed up to me. Holding my own & letting go of what could've been a crappy day allowed her to do the same. David, you rock! :D Haha excellent podcast! Very very funny and equally insightful. I couldn’t stop laughing after the part “I’m having a BAAAD DOG DAY!” Whenever something bad happens to me, I just think about that part & I immediately start cracking up.

I took your advice yesterday and kept treating bad moments as just that… bad moments and nothing else. And the amazing thing was, as a result, I didn’t let little things get to me! Even when my girlfriend & I got in a fight last night, I kept my cool the whole time holding that thought. And so later on as a result, she really warmed up to me. Holding my own & letting go of what could’ve been a crappy day allowed her to do the same.

David, you rock! :D

]]> By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29624 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Fri, 17 Jul 2009 00:34:45 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29624 Let me tell you about crappy days... or rather a crappy night. How about not being able to sleep because you have the runs.... and need to go to the bathroom every 20 mins... from 1 am til the next night? Ouch! Let me tell you about crappy days… or rather a crappy night. How about not being able to sleep because you have the runs…. and need to go to the bathroom every 20 mins… from 1 am til the next night?

Ouch!

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29616 Sandra Thu, 16 Jul 2009 14:54:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29616 I have crappy days also do I ever...When things don't go my way sometimes but it is like the old saying done deal get over it...A quote from my friends a long time ago. I had one Tuesday I wanted to mow the yard but what happened I strained a muscle in my lower calf and I could not walk on it. I had to go to the doctor about it. It started Saturday and it still bothers me. Okay I know that you are not Dr. David Wygant. But after I get all the negative out of me then I look at it and say it must have been my selfishness and my foolish pride that got in the way. We as individuals wants things to happen our way but sometimes we are fooled when it does not happen the way we want it. Then that starts the complaining and bad hair days. I have crappy days also do I ever…When things don’t go my way sometimes but it is like the old saying done deal get over it…A quote from my friends a long time ago. I had one Tuesday I wanted to mow the yard but what happened I strained a muscle in my lower calf and I could not walk on it. I had to go to the doctor about it. It started Saturday and it still bothers me. Okay I know that you are not Dr. David Wygant. But after I get all the negative out of me then I look at it and say it must have been my selfishness and my foolish pride that got in the way. We as individuals wants things to happen our way but sometimes we are fooled when it does not happen the way we want it. Then that starts the complaining and bad hair days.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29614 Marina Thu, 16 Jul 2009 14:40:51 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29614 Johnny Love, Thanks, They are few and very far btw. Truly whole bad day are less than fingers on my hands and still on those days there are moments filled with joy and positive feelings. It's really a way of thinking and if you have not been exposed to the power of your thinking and what you can do yourself from childhood or as an adult, then all I can say get Davids stuff. This is really how this has work for you, to function in a flow and where outside influence has little to do with how you really feel like. Don't get me wrong I love human contact, but I don't need it to make me happy. I am happy, and I choose to be it on my own. I don't let fear rule my life, but it will show it's ugly face and when it does, then I make the choice to let go or if I am not ready to let go of the fear I acknowledge that it's there and just the awareness of it will eventually make me able to let go of it. I was raised with a grand mom who spoke naturally about death and always said to the whole family, If you don't sit around laughing and enjoying each other at my funeral, then don't bother show up. I am dead, I am feeling great no reason to cry for me. Johnny Love,

Thanks, They are few and very far btw. Truly whole bad day are less than fingers on my hands and still on those days there are moments filled with joy and positive feelings. It’s really a way of thinking and if you have not been exposed to the power of your thinking and what you can do yourself from childhood or as an adult, then all I can say get Davids stuff. This is really how this has work for you, to function in a flow and where outside influence has little to do with how you really feel like. Don’t get me wrong I love human contact, but I don’t need it to make me happy. I am happy, and I choose to be it on my own. I don’t let fear rule my life, but it will show it’s ugly face and when it does, then I make the choice to let go or if I am not ready to let go of the fear I acknowledge that it’s there and just the awareness of it will eventually make me able to let go of it.

I was raised with a grand mom who spoke naturally about death and always said to the whole family, If you don’t sit around laughing and enjoying each other at my funeral, then don’t bother show up. I am dead, I am feeling great no reason to cry for me.

]]> By: marc http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29604 marc Thu, 16 Jul 2009 10:48:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29604 This podcast makes so much sense...when I look back at the times where I had bad moments and let them ruin the entire day, I realize how completely ridiculous and nonsensical it is. Once again David, thanks for the fantastic advice. It's amazing how a simple change in mindset can impact your life. This podcast makes so much sense…when I look back at the times where I had bad moments and let them ruin the entire day, I realize how completely ridiculous and nonsensical it is. Once again David, thanks for the fantastic advice. It’s amazing how a simple change in mindset can impact your life.

]]> By: paul loughner http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29602 paul loughner Thu, 16 Jul 2009 03:03:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29602 David, I just love it when you get enthusiastic about something. I'm at the shop tonight at 11 pm because I screwed up a job due for tommor. I needed a good laugh. Hmmm! I wonder what oatmeal topped with Jack Daniels tastes like?? Oh I decided to buy your Online Dating product yesterday! That decision was a no brainer! I have been through it once already. Terrific product. David, I just love it when you get enthusiastic about something. I’m at the shop tonight at 11 pm because I screwed up a job due for tommor.

I needed a good laugh. Hmmm! I wonder what oatmeal topped with Jack Daniels tastes like??

Oh I decided to buy your Online Dating product yesterday! That decision was a no brainer!
I have been through it once already. Terrific product.

]]> By: Rick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29600 Rick Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:31:35 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29600 man you write like two words at a time :) anyway thanks i will ask him! man you write like two words at a time :)

anyway thanks i will ask him!

]]> By: jimmi http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-definition-of-a-crappy-day/1810/#comment-29599 jimmi Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:30:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1810#comment-29599 and you can ask him when he gets here. and you can ask him when he gets here.

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