Comments on: The Body Language That Turns Her Off http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40581 Khiem (DW Coach) Mon, 10 May 2010 23:43:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40581 Drew, Have you emailed David before? Why don't you send him an email and talk to him about his situation? He always answer the first email free of charge. We want to help you guys more than anything else! Drew,

Have you emailed David before? Why don’t you send him an email and talk to him about his situation? He always answer the first email free of charge. We want to help you guys more than anything else!

]]> By: Cathy J http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40535 Cathy J Sat, 08 May 2010 23:42:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40535 Mario and Fat-Albert - thanks for the warm fuzzies - it is lovely to know advice is heard and appreciated. Body language is a big area. I wonder what David thinks about sitting on the bench together. I used to think straight on - looking into each other's eyes, then side by side so you are looking out at life from the same perspective. Diagonally if you are on a bench ie pointed in - anyway whatever comes natural. as the man, you must choose if you are at a restaurant if you want to change the seating arrangement - opposite or diagonal. Go with what feels right or try one then if it doesn't work swap it - tell the young lady that you are trying it out - she will appreciate your honesty! Mario and Fat-Albert – thanks for the warm fuzzies – it is lovely to know advice is heard and appreciated.

Body language is a big area. I wonder what David thinks about sitting on the bench together.

I used to think straight on – looking into each other’s eyes, then side by side so you are looking out at life from the same perspective. Diagonally if you are on a bench ie pointed in – anyway whatever comes natural. as the man, you must choose if you are at a restaurant if you want to change the seating arrangement – opposite or diagonal. Go with what feels right or try one then if it doesn’t work swap it – tell the young lady that you are trying it out – she will appreciate your honesty!

]]> By: Fat-Albert http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40524 Fat-Albert Sat, 08 May 2010 06:52:33 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40524 Hey guys, Cathy J - thanks for reinforcing that point. Sure, push through with the conversation (leaving on a high point of course with her number or sexually escalate). Drew - have you been on this site long? Follow DW's methodology (notice something about the situation/woman, make a statement and follow up with some intriguing questions/statement) and practice, practice, practice. Eg in front of a mirror; watch a movie and note the situational cues that you could comment on if a woman you're interested in was there. Remember, practice builds competence; competence builds confidence. Also, believe you can; believe in yourself; believe that she's already attracted to you mate. Now get out there and practice (without getting bogged down with too much PUA theory)... Don't forget that every journey starts with one small step Drew. All the best Fat-Albert Hey guys,
Cathy J – thanks for reinforcing that point. Sure, push through with the conversation (leaving on a high point of course with her number or sexually escalate).

Drew – have you been on this site long? Follow DW’s methodology (notice something about the situation/woman, make a statement and follow up with some intriguing questions/statement) and practice, practice, practice. Eg in front of a mirror; watch a movie and note the situational cues that you could comment on if a woman you’re interested in was there. Remember, practice builds competence; competence builds confidence. Also, believe you can; believe in yourself; believe that she’s already attracted to you mate. Now get out there and practice (without getting bogged down with too much PUA theory)…

Don’t forget that every journey starts with one small step Drew.

All the best
Fat-Albert

]]> By: dragonclaw@fastmail.fm http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40523 dragonclaw@fastmail.fm Sat, 08 May 2010 06:20:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40523 I can say this from experience, don't try to emulate what you think is sexy and confident body language. No matter how much you try to do it, it will never be authentic because it's not coming from within. Truly sexy and confident body language and presence comes from your beliefs about yourself, how you percieve the world and how you think the world percieves you. Im not saying that you can improve your posture and mov movement by creating new positive habits but its really alot better having a ferrari with a ferrari engine rather then a fererri with a Delorean engine. Just drawing an analogy. Say this to yourself 20x a night or more and your body language will improve like that of a natural: I am a sexually desirable man Try it, it works. Just believe it. Also every time you look in the mirror give yourself a pep talk or just compliment yourself (even if you may not believe it). This exercise will improve the way you see yourself. When you change the way you see yourself, the way people see you changes. I can say this from experience, don’t try to emulate what you think is sexy and confident body language. No matter how much you try to do it, it will never be authentic because it’s not coming from within.

Truly sexy and confident body language and presence comes from your beliefs about yourself, how you percieve the world and how you think the world percieves you.

Im not saying that you can improve your posture and mov movement by creating new positive habits but its really alot better having a ferrari with a ferrari engine rather then a fererri with a Delorean engine. Just drawing an analogy.

Say this to yourself 20x a night or more and your body language will improve like that of a natural:

I am a sexually desirable man

Try it, it works. Just believe it.

Also every time you look in the mirror give yourself a pep talk or just compliment yourself (even if you may not believe it). This exercise will improve the way you see yourself. When you change the way you see yourself, the way people see you changes.

]]> By: Frank http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40522 Frank Sat, 08 May 2010 03:53:56 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40522 The one thing that makes me laugh is this new craze that guys wear summer clothes in the middle of winter. They are basically freezing themselves to look hip. They cross their arms and legs to to try and keep warm and look totally ridiculous. They may gain slightly in fashion but they lose greatly in body language. The one thing that makes me laugh is this new craze that guys wear summer clothes in the middle of winter. They are basically freezing themselves to look hip. They cross their arms and legs to to try and keep warm and look totally ridiculous. They may gain slightly in fashion but they lose greatly in body language.

]]> By: Drew http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40521 Drew Sat, 08 May 2010 01:05:37 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40521 I don't know what do to, I don't know who to talk to , I'm at a loss, I keep saying this, but things keep getting worse. I need to talk to SOMEONE. I need some answers. Anyone willing to help, could you please give me your email? I'm not expecting anything, I'm just asking. Please help. I'm here because I can't talk to the people in my life. I don’t know what do to, I don’t know who to talk to , I’m at a loss, I keep saying this, but things keep getting worse. I need to talk to SOMEONE. I need some answers. Anyone willing to help, could you please give me your email? I’m not expecting anything, I’m just asking. Please help.
I’m here because I can’t talk to the people in my life.

]]> By: stefano http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40520 stefano Sat, 08 May 2010 01:00:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40520 i have to say that the only thing now for me is not to be to passionate otherwise women can ber afraid as if i want to jumpo into a relationship straight away. i am in touch with few sexy women, and you david changed my life, but i am still learnning any advice for that? i have to say that the only thing now for me is not to be to passionate otherwise women can ber afraid as if i want to jumpo into a relationship straight away.
i am in touch with few sexy women, and you david changed my life, but i am still learnning

any advice for that?

]]> By: Mario http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40519 Mario Sat, 08 May 2010 00:03:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40519 hey cathy j this is "god help me" remember me thanks a bunch for those last tips. anyways this blog is going to help my ass out on may 11 when i take that girl out. i didnt really know how to look with my body because it feels as though i did without realizing. this david wygant stuff is helping me out so much, and i thank my friend for showing me this website and his youtube vids. so if your talking to a girl thats close to you and your both sitting on a bench do u face as much her as you can with your body? hey cathy j this is “god help me” remember me thanks a bunch for those last tips. anyways this blog is going to help my ass out on may 11 when i take that girl out. i didnt really know how to look with my body because it feels as though i did without realizing. this david wygant stuff is helping me out so much, and i thank my friend for showing me this website and his youtube vids. so if your talking to a girl thats close to you and your both sitting on a bench do u face as much her as you can with your body?

]]> By: Cathy J http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40518 Cathy J Fri, 07 May 2010 23:25:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40518 Confidence is so important. Even if you feel like you are bluffing,bluff anyway. When you are already in the conversation, most likely you will become confident. If you do say something stupid - laugh - we all do say stupid things at times!!!!! Confidence is so important. Even if you feel like you are bluffing,bluff anyway. When you are already in the conversation, most likely you will become confident. If you do say something stupid – laugh – we all do say stupid things at times!!!!!

]]> By: Collin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-body-language-that-turns-her-off/4493/#comment-40516 Collin Fri, 07 May 2010 22:12:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4493#comment-40516 Lexi, don't start thinking you ladies get off free and clear on the confident/secure/self aware front. It applies to y'all too! Lexi, don’t start thinking you ladies get off free and clear on the confident/secure/self aware front. It applies to y’all too!

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