Comments on: The Answer Lies Within http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 24 May 2012 21:46:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Megan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-66859 Megan Tue, 10 Apr 2012 01:14:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-66859 Hi, new to this site. in grief over something right now - have looked for it on here but soo many articles! What if you feel you truly love someone but aren't attracted to them sexually? If you were and sex was great in the beginning but then it just faded and didn't come back? Idk whether it's just lost libido completely (have pretty much no interest in sex at all anymore whereas b4 was very into it) or if it's a sign of the relationship. your input would greatly be appreciated, as I have searched and searched within and am still confused. Hi, new to this site. in grief over something right now – have looked for it on here but soo many articles! What if you feel you truly love someone but aren’t attracted to them sexually? If you were and sex was great in the beginning but then it just faded and didn’t come back? Idk whether it’s just lost libido completely (have pretty much no interest in sex at all anymore whereas b4 was very into it) or if it’s a sign of the relationship. your input would greatly be appreciated, as I have searched and searched within and am still confused.

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28926 hunter Mon, 22 Jun 2009 01:51:59 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28926 Sandra, if we were as bright as you and DW, chances are we would not be on this blog!.....hhhmmhh... Sandra, if we were as bright as you and DW, chances are we would not be on this blog!…..hhhmmhh…

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28923 Sandra Mon, 22 Jun 2009 00:46:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28923 Back years ago I would ask advice from a female friend of mine and did you know it was the hardest thing that I had to do is not call her and want to talk about my recent relationship. Today the problem I am having is wanting to discuss it but I must remain silent and seek the answer within. Dave You are right about what you said...Just being in each others presence should be enough. Back years ago I would ask advice from a female friend of mine and did you know it was the hardest thing that I had to do is not call her and want to talk about my recent relationship. Today the problem I am having is wanting to discuss it but I must remain silent and seek the answer within.

Dave
You are right about what you said…Just being in each others presence should be enough.

]]> By: Geese Howard http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28915 Geese Howard Sun, 21 Jun 2009 18:22:38 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28915 I will tell you how powerful this advice is - look at the time between this post and my last post. I have just set up 2 dates this week by following the above advice. It's a litte complicated how but it worked! Ha! I will tell you how powerful this advice is – look at the time between this post and my last post.

I have just set up 2 dates this week by following the above advice. It’s a litte complicated how but it worked!

Ha!

]]> By: Geese Howard http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28914 Geese Howard Sun, 21 Jun 2009 17:29:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28914 Nice post but I wanted to ask you something so I e-mailed you a few questions about how to go about this. Maybe you could give me some advice as to what questions I should be asking myself. Just kidding. ;p I actually am gonna do the homework... Nice post but I wanted to ask you something so I e-mailed you a few questions about how to go about this.

Maybe you could give me some advice as to what questions I should be asking myself.

Just kidding. ;p I actually am gonna do the homework…

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28912 hunter Sun, 21 Jun 2009 14:20:50 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28912 Marina, you are a bright person, many adult minds, can't figure themselves out to save their lives..that is why impact therapy, is coming to be.... Marina, you are a bright person, many adult minds, can’t figure themselves out to save their lives..that is why impact therapy, is coming to be….

]]> By: Montse http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28911 Montse Sun, 21 Jun 2009 07:13:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28911 We are also taught to think about what we are supposed to do like if there's a right way or a wrong way. As a friend of mine used to say "it is what it is" We are also taught to think about what we are supposed to do like if there’s a right way or a wrong way. As a friend of mine used to say “it is what it is”

]]> By: Hamburger http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28910 Hamburger Sun, 21 Jun 2009 06:20:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28910 Hi David, I just dropped in to say thanks for the little "wake-up!" emails that you are sending out. Today's email about "Raise Your Woman Expectations!" really made sense. I haven't closely followed your blob for the last few weeks and now decided to get back into the habit. In German, one word for advice is "Ratschlag", which consists of the words "Rat" (advice) and "Schlag" (hit). I like this word because it shows the strong impact that giving or receiving advice can have. It can be like a slap in the face or a kick in the butt. So be careful whom you go to for advice and be careful about the advice you give to others. The coolest, wisest and most mature advice is to make people think and find THEIR solution by THEMSELVES. And I think this is what you are doing. Greetings from Hamburg, where it's "car-free day" today. Good for a long walk and some good thinking. Hi David,

I just dropped in to say thanks for the little “wake-up!” emails that you are sending out. Today’s email about “Raise Your Woman Expectations!” really made sense.

I haven’t closely followed your blob for the last few weeks and now decided to get back into the habit. In German, one word for advice is “Ratschlag”, which consists of the words “Rat” (advice) and “Schlag” (hit). I like this word because it shows the strong impact that giving or receiving advice can have. It can be like a slap in the face or a kick in the butt. So be careful whom you go to for advice and be careful about the advice you give to others.

The coolest, wisest and most mature advice is to make people think and find THEIR solution by THEMSELVES. And I think this is what you are doing.

Greetings from Hamburg, where it’s “car-free day” today. Good for a long walk and some good thinking.

]]> By: kismet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28907 kismet Sun, 21 Jun 2009 05:31:06 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28907 There are times when I am swept in a wave and lost within it. The wave are other people (friends, acquaintances) who pressures and encourages me to go for a guy who I initially had little interest. When they keep pushing you, you start to follow their words instead of your intuition. This happened to me back during march with between a friend and a new guy ("love triangle"). After weeks of uncertainty, of values being broken, I cleared my mind, had a real talk with my friend about what was going on and after a few days, I realize, I had no interest/attraction to begin with which is why I kept waiting for the sparks but there weren't any. Now and then I take a look back and see it from each person's point of view I understand more about what went on. Why it didn't work out. Why I felt the ways I did. And as one of my friend told me, I learned to trust my gut feelings more. :) There are times when I am swept in a wave and lost within it. The wave are other people (friends, acquaintances) who pressures and encourages me to go for a guy who I initially had little interest. When they keep pushing you, you start to follow their words instead of your intuition. This happened to me back during march with between a friend and a new guy (“love triangle”). After weeks of uncertainty, of values being broken, I cleared my mind, had a real talk with my friend about what was going on and after a few days, I realize, I had no interest/attraction to begin with which is why I kept waiting for the sparks but there weren’t any. Now and then I take a look back and see it from each person’s point of view I understand more about what went on. Why it didn’t work out. Why I felt the ways I did. And as one of my friend told me, I learned to trust my gut feelings more. :)

]]> By: Taras http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-answer-lies-within/1747/#comment-28905 Taras Sun, 21 Jun 2009 01:02:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1747#comment-28905 Interesting point about foreplay vs sex... I never thought of it that way. Interesting point about foreplay vs sex… I never thought of it that way.

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