Comments on: The “Cool” Guy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25707 Khiem (DW Coach) Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:17:03 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25707 "Cool" is such a conversation killer. It never leads it anywhere! Kismet, you can flirt by being playful and getting personal. Flirting is such a broad topic. It's combination of playful teasing, sexual innuendos and just getting emotionally personal and deep with that person. “Cool” is such a conversation killer. It never leads it anywhere!

Kismet, you can flirt by being playful and getting personal. Flirting is such a broad topic. It’s combination of playful teasing, sexual innuendos and just getting emotionally personal and deep with that person.

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25638 Sandra Sun, 05 Apr 2009 01:44:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25638 Or that's neat... Or that’s neat…

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25637 Sandra Sun, 05 Apr 2009 01:44:15 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25637 Me..I use the word cool meaning that is interesting how that does that...But when I hear him say cool that means he is interested in the conversation at hand...but I am a talker anyway so I can talk someone's ear to death even in real life but you may never know what comes from my mouth when I speak sometimes I wonder about my typing....Just an outspoken person Me..I use the word cool meaning that is interesting how that does that…But when I hear him say cool that means he is interested in the conversation at hand…but I am a talker anyway so I can talk someone’s ear to death even in real life but you may never know what comes from my mouth when I speak sometimes I wonder about my typing….Just an outspoken person

]]> By: Sri http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25626 Sri Sun, 05 Apr 2009 00:15:06 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25626 RE: K Okay -- There are plenty of guys (me definitely included) who are honestly scared of saying something bold or controversial that will screw up his chances with a woman. If he's talking to you, he likes you. If he wants to spend any sort of time with you, he likes you. If he does anything around you that involves paying attention to you, he likes you. A lot of the feeling-out process for guys, I think, is making sure that the woman isn't just going to talk at him and use him as a sounding board for her own personal issues. "Cool" is a good sign, but probably a nudge that you should draw some info/opinion out of him. RE: K Okay — There are plenty of guys (me definitely included) who are honestly scared of saying something bold or controversial that will screw up his chances with a woman. If he’s talking to you, he likes you. If he wants to spend any sort of time with you, he likes you. If he does anything around you that involves paying attention to you, he likes you. A lot of the feeling-out process for guys, I think, is making sure that the woman isn’t just going to talk at him and use him as a sounding board for her own personal issues. “Cool” is a good sign, but probably a nudge that you should draw some info/opinion out of him.

]]> By: Queen Lindsay http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25621 Queen Lindsay Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:17:31 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25621 The only time I want "cool" to come out of a dude's mouth is when he says I'm a "cool" chic. If a guy says you are a "cool" chic, this means something! The only time I want “cool” to come out of a dude’s mouth is when he says I’m a “cool” chic. If a guy says you are a “cool” chic, this means something!

]]> By: hunter http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25612 hunter Sat, 04 Apr 2009 15:58:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25612 Marina, I agree with you, I found Spaniards to be flirtatious/mischievous/with a light sensual tension/spunky. I do that here and some women give me that big eyed, cold stare, I just smile, women usually, just, turn the other way. Marina, I agree with you, I found Spaniards to be flirtatious/mischievous/with a light sensual tension/spunky. I do that here and some women give me that big eyed, cold stare, I just smile, women usually, just, turn the other way.

]]> By: jamesgreave http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25607 jamesgreave Sat, 04 Apr 2009 11:58:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25607 Dave, it was really a good article. I agree with every word of yours. The way you explained about the 'cool' word is really awesome. Anyways thanks for the post. Dave, it was really a good article. I agree with every word of yours. The way you explained about the ‘cool’ word is really awesome. Anyways thanks for the post.

]]> By: Hamburger http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25604 Hamburger Sat, 04 Apr 2009 08:04:24 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25604 Hola Marina! You are so right.. the weather can make all the difference here in Germany as well. Today, it is sunny and bright and Hamburg looks like little Italy... people wearing sunglasses, driving cabrios and sipping Café Latte. I'll be off to the city soon and hope not to be the cool guy today. Hola Marina! You are so right.. the weather can make all the difference here in Germany as well. Today, it is sunny and bright and Hamburg looks like little Italy… people wearing sunglasses, driving cabrios and sipping Café Latte. I’ll be off to the city soon and hope not to be the cool guy today.

]]> By: Marina http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25603 Marina Sat, 04 Apr 2009 07:53:02 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25603 I am from Denmark but my family lives in Spain. The stiff ness you refer to i more of a barrier. Most times it just takes a bit more to wiggle it down. Flirting just make people feel the can approach you. Not that different than your softener story. When i was back home i felt it was also a weather thing, on a great day in Denmark they girls and boys would be as flitatious as our southern european counterparts. I dont flirt as much as i did as i more often have been taken serious over here, i europe flirting was more a way of life. Just being friendly with a twist of sensuality. I am from Denmark but my family lives in Spain. The stiff ness you refer to i more of a barrier. Most times it just takes a bit more to wiggle it down. Flirting just make people feel the can approach you. Not that different than your softener story. When i was back home i felt it was also a weather thing, on a great day in Denmark they girls and boys would be as flitatious as our southern european counterparts.

I dont flirt as much as i did as i more often have been taken serious over here, i europe flirting was more a way of life. Just being friendly with a twist of sensuality.

]]> By: Hamburger http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/the-%e2%80%9ccool%e2%80%9d-guy/731/#comment-25602 Hamburger Sat, 04 Apr 2009 07:33:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=731#comment-25602 Marina, I wonder to which part of Europe you are referring? Here in Germany, I experience people being quite stiff. Or to say it with David's words... they run around in a coma... Marina, I wonder to which part of Europe you are referring? Here in Germany, I experience people being quite stiff. Or to say it with David’s words… they run around in a coma…

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