So when I want to instantly get into a good mood, I always remember I Dream of Jeannie. Why?

When I used to smoke pot in college, we used to play the game “If you could be any television character, who would you be?” I always wanted to be Major Anthony Nelson, six inches tall and able to go into a bottle and have sex all night long with my genie on her pillows. How great would it be to have miniature sex in a bottle?

So what I always do is to bring myself back to funny, amusing moments. Whenever I am not feeling good in life I do this.

Do you ever have trouble keeping your energy up and staying positive? I know that is something with which a lot of you guys struggle.

How do you feel great about yourself at all times, for example, if you are getting rejected over and over again when you approach women? You need to come up with your own Un Diva Havick Ya Ha Vivee moment.

My Un Diva Havick Ya Ha Vivee moment is I Dream Of Jeannie, and picturing how amazing it would be to get a massage from a six inch tall, hot and sexy Barbara Eden.

For any of you not old enough to remember that show, Google or look on YouTube for how hot Barbara Eden looked on I Dream Of Jeannie when she came out of that bottle.

So what is your Un Diva Havick Ya Ha Vivee moment?

iTards are basically two people who sit across a table from each other and instead of conversing, they just pass an iPhone back and forth to each other. “Look at my picture!” “Wow, look at the new YouTube video that just got posted!” “Wow, check this website out!”

This made me realize that there is a whole new style of dating going on out there. It’s called iTard Dating.

In iTard Dating, you really don’t talk about emotions or life experiences. You just pass an iPhone back and forth to each other.

So whenever you run out of conversation, you just start passing the iPhone back and forth. “Oh my God, I have nothing more to say on this date, but I’m an iTard so let me show you the new apps I just downloaded.”

If not that, maybe you show them some “texting of the future” thing on your iPhone. You say, “Hey, look how I can text everyone I know at once. Look here at my entire text conversation . . . or should we watch a movie together on the iPhone?”

So clearly there is a whole new way of dating going on out there. It’s called iTard Dating, and it’s for all of the iTard people out there.

It’s unbelievable how people are so attached to their iPhones. It really is.

We’ve become a generation not of intelligent people, but of iTards. This is going to be perpetuated if all these iTards get together and have kids. They are going to start having babies together, and have to wait until the baby is born to see if he or she is iTarded or not.

I mean, you guys are always wanting to see long, in-field videos where we’re going out, flirting with women and breaking it down. Videos where I go through the “what to do” versus the “what not to do” in different situations. That’s the kind of stuff I put up for the members on my Community site.

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The YouTube videos are — I hate to say it — short, sweet and to the point. The guys on my Community Site, though, seem to be learning a lot more. I mean, I put 20 minute videos on my Community Site and two minute videos on YouTube (because that’s the attention span of the average YouTube viewer).

No offense, guys. I actually absolutely love when I get complaints that a YouTube video I put up is too long. So after getting a certain number of these complaints, I started saving all the long, really good ones for my Members (and leaving all the short ones for the rest of you).

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What is up with people who write nasty comments about other people? Really, what is up with people like that?

Why would you have any desire to trash someone who is trying to improve themselves? I don’t care what you say about me, because I know who I am. Not only that, but people who write negative comments about someone is usually very jealous of that person.

So when it comes to someone who writes comments that spew negativity, it usually means that they are a very jealous person. They can’t do what you do, so they trash you instead of just congratulating you on your accomplishments.

They will say things like, “That guy is lame” or “That guy is a pussy” or “What a faggot!” Negative comments are often so juvenile. If you read a lot of the comments on YouTube, you would think a 12 year old is writing them. Actually I think I am giving too much maturity to these — it’s like a 5 year old is writing them.

You have no right to criticize people who are trying to improve themselves — whether they are just out approaching people or they come to a Bootcamp or in whatever way they are trying to make improvements. This is especially true for people who are willing to put themselves on video so that you can learn from their experiences.

Negativity is a disease that too many people have due to their own inadequacies. The reason why they’re negative is that they are so afraid to go out and try the things they’re being negative about on their own.

They’re so afraid to improve themselves, and would rather be an “armchair quarterback” who acts like they can do better. What is funny, though, is that they are the ones watching these videos.

I’m not negative about anybody. I truly believe that everybody’s path is their own, and and I embrace on whatever path people people choose to be.

If you’re not good at something, I am not going to make fun of you. I’m not five years old.

You can almost hear these people in their five year old whining voice saying to their computer screen, “You can’t do it, you can’t do it, na na na na na na…” I mean, come on folks.

We’re all out there trying to do better in life. Instead of being negative, support somebody and say “Hey man, that must have been tough doing that. I can’t do it and I’m gonna man up and tell you that I can’t do it.”

Start doing that, and maybe then people will come and reach out to you. If you’re negative, you’re not better than anybody else. Negative people are never better than anyone else, because anyone who is truly secure and confident and capable of doing what they are criticizing would never be so negative about someone learning how to be that same way.

Happy Sunday!

Still off on my vacation, and I wanted to give all of you a little motivation to get out there this weekend and start talking!

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Buying those gadgets will have you missing out on the chance to meet fellow readers at Barnes & Noble, Borders and all the best bookstores.

If you’re single, you always need to do your shopping in a store, and not online.

You never know who you may meet!

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Anyway, we were talking about my friend Behar. A lot of you know Behar from the Men’s Mastery Series. He has become something of a legend from that.

He’s actually the man who looked at me at age nineteen and said, “You just have no clue. Do you?” It was an eye-opening moment for me at that time (being age nineteen), because I really didn’t have a clue.

Behar is a basically an “average guy” — about 5’9″ or 5’10″, is kind of going bald and has the “Jewish nose.” Whenever we would go out, he would always kind of throw me under the bus — and this is something every one of you can do when you’re out trying to meet women.

After seeing him do this about a thousand times, I can give you the sequence of events in perfect detail. Here is how this would go down every single time.

He and I would go to a restaurant. The waitress would come over and, of course, would start flirting with me instead of him.

Behar would immediately look at the waitress and say, “Oh, you’re so typical. You go for the solid, good-looking guy just like women always do.” Then the waitress would feel the need to defend herself, and would look at him and say, “No, no that’s not me at all.”

Behar would respond, “What are you talking about? You ignored me like I was not even sitting here. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever thought about going for short, fat, bald Jewish guys? Do you have any idea what you’re missing?”

The waitress would start laughing. Then Behar would tell the waitress to leave and get our order.

When the waitress returned, she would once again start to flirt with me. Behar would say, “Have you given any consideration at all to what I talked to you about? Are you a woman who doesn’t want to expand her horizons, and just continues to do the same things over and over again? You know that is the definition of insanity.”

At this point, her ears were perked up and her mind was racing. Of course, she would always seem to say, “So tell me about short, fat, bald, Jewish guys.” Behar would then look at her deadpan — right in the eyes — and say, “You’ll just have to find out for yourself.”

I mean, it was brilliant. It is one of those things that either works or it doesn’t. The bottom line is that it worked half the time — half the women would go for it and the other half would go back to what they originally wanted, i.e., me.

Anybody can do this. It doesn’t just work if you are a “bald, fat, short, Jewish guy.” It can work if you are average looking, or of a particular ethnicity (e.g., of the “Asian persuasion”), or if you’re super tall or super skinny or whatever it may be.

If, for example, you are of the “Asian persuasion” (as one of my Bootcamp students once termed himself), you could say something like this: “Let me ask you a question. have you ever had a guy of the Asian persuasion? I mean, come on, do you always go for the tall white guy? Have you ever tried Asian? You know, we come in a lot of different flavors.”

There are so many different ways that you can do this. There are so many different ways to have fun with this.

Women love to respond to a challenge. Doing this is calling them out on their shit.

People love to be called out on their shit. They love to be challenged.

So how are you going to challenge yourself to challenge a woman? That’s the real question I have for you today.

You walk over to a woman. You open her with a simple observation. When she responds, you have a great opportunity to use humor to keep the interaction going but you don’t take it. Your brain shuts down and you end up talking about useless nothing.

If this scenario sounds at all familiar to you, then you are going to want to check out today’s video. In it, you will see this exact scenario take place right before your eyes. Then I talk about how you can past this kind of awkward moment using humor.

Enjoy and have a great Saturday!

So here’s the deal today.

I have an amazing video for you to see which is a LIVE in-field video I recently shot at Whole Foods.

Check out how Will makes the perfect approach, but then . . . Well, you will need to watch the video to see what happens to him.

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When I woke up this morning, I was thinking about how I could really ignite your life when it comes to meeting the opposite sex.

Last night I saw the movie “Avatar.” It is a really amazing movie. In it, the lead character had to learn a whole new way of life.

So my question to you is this: Are YOU ready to learn a whole new way of life?

Are you ready to do something that will forever push you out of your comfort zone?

Check out today’s video message. There is a challenge in there, as well as a chance to win three free hours of coaching!

Have a great Saturday!