Today’s podcast is very personal to me. Today, I take a trip down memory lane for you guys and tell you exactly how I lost my virginity. “Nervous” is not a strong enough word for the feelings I had swirling around inside of me over that brief (but seemingly very long) two-day period in my life.

You just finished having some of the best sex in your life. It was hot. Man, she had many orgasms. She was oozing and bubbling with sexual desire. Everything was great. Now sex is over, and one part of the bed-the part that you had sex on-is starting to get really cold. Real damp, and it’s right in the middle of the bed. It’s in what I call the cuddle spot.

Why is the wet spot on the bed always in the spot that you cuddle on?

That is the question. To vibrate or not to vibrate, that is the question. What the hell am I talking about? You know what I’m talking about today: At what point do you say to yourself, “I got to stop masturbating,” and start connecting with people?

Have you been bombarded? It’s amazing how good e-mail spammers can get at times. For a while there, I wasn’t getting a single e-mail from them, and all of a sudden, they started squeaking their way in and now they’ve got new promises.

When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.

So your sitting across the table from your fantasy woman, and all of a sudden you think. “Wow I need to get sexual with her right now so she gets turned onto me” So you space out for a second and you stop listening to what she is saying. You then go into deep thought [...]

Man, I gotta tell ya, jet lag is brutal the first day. I tossed and turned last night, but nothing beats jet lag like walking it off around London, a nice breakfast, and interacting with all the people out on a Friday morning. London really is one of my all-time favorite cities.
As I was tossing and turning in my bed last night, I was thinking about what men and women think about each other after their first night sleeping together

This is a blog that women are going to love, and by which they might at times may make them feel a bit threatened. Men are going to read this blog and be thinking, “I want to have that. I want to possess the power of the penis.”
So what am I talking about here? What is the power of the penis?

You guys seemed to really like the blog about dating more than two people at the same time.
Let’s go a little further today and talk about sleeping with two people at the same time. I’ve got to admit, I’m guilty of it myself. While I was dating heavily in my 20s and even a bit in my 30s, I did sleep with two people at once. No, get your mind out of the gutter-I did not have a three-way. I wasn’t sleeping with two women at the same exact time, but I was dating and sleeping with multiple partners at the same time.
At the time, I found it fun.

So I’ve started getting a lot of emails from you guys lately.
Got a great one from somebody the other day that I really thought was worth posting, especially where there seems to be a common theme.
As you know, I will never post e-mails that you guys send me unless I have your permission. So I e-mailed this guy back and I told him I want everybody to know and understand and learn from your own experience, and he had no problem having me post it.