So when is the right time to have sex? I think the right time to have sex is when you’re ready to have sex with that man. Not only that, it’s when he’s ready to have sex with you.

I think savoring the moment is what some people don’t realize is what makes you very, very special to a man. I think the more you tease a man, the more the man is going to want you.

I think the more you kiss him or you lead him on, and the more you tell him how much you desire him but you’re not ready, the more interested he’s going to become in you. The longer you can hold out, the better it is.

I’m not saying that if you have sex with a guy on the first date, the relationship isn’t going to work out (because it might work out just fine). I think, however, that the linger effect is something that’s really good to do.

I say wait at least three to five dates before you have sex with a man, because it creates desire. Plus, really, what’s the rush?

If you’re just looking to have sex or a one-night stand, then by all means just go for it. If you’re looking to create a relationship with somebody, though, the memories leading up to sex is what makes the sex so much hotter.

I know when I really like somebody, I don’t want to have sex with them right away. Sex is tough the first four or five times, because you want to really please one another but you don’t know each other’s bodies.

I think the most amazing thing is learning each other’s kiss, and learning how each likes to be held and touched. The art of foreplay — mental and emotional — is what a lot of guys are not used to which a lot of women don’t understand. Don’t worry if this guy is impatient.

If a guy is impatient because you’re not sleeping with him quite yet, guess what type of lover he’s going to end up being? He’s going to end up being an impatient lover who won’t satisfy you at all.

Take your time if you want to take your time. Tease the hell out of him. The more you tease him, the more intrigued he’s ever going to become.

Today I have a video for women.

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A lot of women fake orgasms because they never explain themselves sexually to a guy.  Recently I was having a conversation with a woman and she said to me “I don’t understand. A lot of my friends fake orgasms. Don’t the guys know?”

I told her “A lot of guys don’t know. If a woman moans the right way they don’t know. A lot of guys don’t realize that when a woman has an orgasm – especially from intercourse – her muscles in her vagina will be spasming.” Not only do a lot of guys not know that, but a lot of guys don’t pay attention to that. Some guys just flat out don’t care.

Regardless of that group of men, what’s important for women to know is that there are a lot of us men who DO care. Many women don’t realize that.

So to women I say this: Be really open and communicate openly sexually what your desires are and what you like. If a guy is performing oral sex on you and it doesn’t feel good or he’s missing the spot, then show him where the right spot is and how to make you feel good. Encourage him a little bit.

Guys will get frustrated because they are trying please you and they aren’t succeeding in doing it. By you being 100% open with them the whole time, though, you will eventually get to the place of having an amazing sex life together.

Start opening yourself up sexually.  The thing is, a man’s ego is fragile and will get bruised when he doesn’t know what you want and when he’s not able to please you. By telling him what you like, what you enjoy and what turns you on, you will get a man to respond to you sexually like never before.

So, the next time you’re with a new partner and you get all shy sexually, neither one of you know what’s going on, and you fake an orgasm (or whatever it might be), start taking the advice from this guy and be open sexually with your partner. I can tell you nothing turns me on more than when a woman tells me what turns her on and what she wants.