Hey everyone Shogo here heading back on a train from my friends wedding in Connecticut. Good time and it got me thinking about how people love to be challenging.

In dating, being challenging is great.

As all of you know life is all about observations, and the better you get at observing the world around you, the better you will become at opening conversations and connecting with people.
So when you read today’s blog……..

The other day I was with a client in Baja Fresh and he saw a woman he just could not take his eyes off of. So what did I have him do and how is a napkin such a powerful meeting tool?

How many of you are about to head out for the Friday night game of cat and mouse? Do you want an offbeat easy laid back Friday night? Try this out and see how easy it can be!

Over the river and through Whole Foods to anyone’s house we go . . . So on this Thanksgiving Day, I wanted to share with all of you my take on the day — as well as a little personal message from me.

How many of you are always waiting for your friends so you can do things? You want your friends to do things with you. You want to go to this place or that place. You want to go out and meet women.

“What are you doing tonight?” “I don’t know. Not much. I think I’m just going to stay home, watch a movie, maybe grab some dinner. Nothing special. What are you doing tonight?” “I’m going to go dancing with all my friends. We’re going to go out partying and have a good time.” How does it [...]

I met with Coach Jacob on the phone the other day. Jacob is one of my lead coaches and an unbelievable Bootcamp instructor. He’s a little version of me . . . literally. I’m 6’2″ and he’s 5’7″. He’s almost like my adopted son. He’s an amazing, loving and honest person, but like any child he can also drive me crazy. One way that Jacob drives me crazy is that he…

I get tons of emails from both men and women asking me one major question: “David, What can I do to meet more people?” Then these emails usually will go on to explain all of the places they go just to meet people. They’ll say, “I just can’t figure it out. I go to bars. I go to parties. I go to all the “it” places. But I just don’t know why I am not meeting more people.” Here is what I tell everyone who asks me that question

Give yourself permission. That is a term I use a lot. A lot of us don’t give ourselves permission to talk. We will give ourselves permission to think, though, so we basically spend a lot of time just thinking about what to say. We walk through life thinking to ourselves “What should I say?” instead of just observing and making comments about what we see. Give yourself permission to…