Say you’re on a date with a woman and she says, “Don’t worry, we can spit the bill.” What do you do in that situation?

I can tell you what I’ve done the majority of my life. Unless I was broke and poor, and just plain couldn’t afford it, I’ve responded to that by saying “No, I’ll take care of it. You can get me another time.”

I hate to say this, but a lot of women at that moment are testing you. They really are.

A woman at that moment wants to see if you will “man up” and pay for the date. It doesn’t matter if it’s a cup of coffee, drinks or dinner. She wants to see if you will be a man and pay for the first date.

A lot woman will take you out on date three, four or five. They really will. They still want you to pay for the first date though.

So guess what happens to the guy who says “Okay” or “Great!” to the woman who says you can split the bill on the first date? She probably won’t ever return your phone call or go out with you again.

Here’s another note about this. Don’t take women out on dates you can’t afford. Pick dates that are within your budget.

Don’t to take a woman out to a 5-star restaurant if you can only afford a 1-star restaurant. Don’t take a woman out for a bottle of wine when you can only afford a glass of wine.

Always pick up the bill on that first date, because women will test you with this. They don’t know you yet, and they will test you. You don’t want to fail her first test.

Why not? Sunday is a great day to stay in bed all day and have amazing sex.

So how do you make this happen?

Ahhhhh . . . you must watch today’s video to find out.

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I’m about to give you six easy things you can (and should) do to impress a woman on a date. As you will see, none of these six things involve picking out the right food or the right restaurant.

1.What Do You Know About Her?: So what do you know about this woman you want to impress? What are her likes and dislikes? In order to plan a great date, it has to be something that really interests her. A lot of guys do the standard “take her out to dinner” thing and just hope for the best. In reality, though, that’s just not the right way to do it. You need to think outside the dinner box, and think about something that will show her you thought about her when you planned this date. Picking something that relates to something she likes or in which she’s interested goes a long way.

2.Have A Plan: There’s nothing that turns a woman off more than when you call her and ask her what she wants to do on a date. It’s called listening. It’s about knowing what she likes. If you like her, you will do things that resonate with her, and you will know what (at least some) of those things are because you’ve been listening to what she’s had to say when you’ve talked to her. Also, women like strong, confident men. Women like men who have a plan.

3.Activity Dates Are Great: When you plan your date, do something where you can challenge each other and have fun. Go bowling. Play miniature golf. Go to one of those pottery places where you can paint a mug. Take your dogs for a walk. Go get some ice cream. Instead of just having dinner, take a walk around a lake. Do something that’s casual, fun and no pressure. The problem with going to dinner on a date is that is can feel very high pressure. You are sitting across from each other with nothing to do but watch each other chew and resume swap. Do something more fun than that, and the more child-like the activity the better. Plus activity dates give you lots of easy conversation topics.

4.Have No Expectations: Even though you are so excited to be out with this woman, you really don’t know who she is yet so why have expectations? When you have expectations, you have pressure to make things work. By remaining present on the date and by not thinking ahead to other dates, you’ll actually have more fun (which will give the date a much better chance of being successful). The reason why so many dates go south is because you’re thinking ahead during the date. In reality, though, all a woman wants is the real you. She wants you being present and being engaged in the moment with her. She wants the real you, not the “playing it safe” version of you.

5.Don’t Worry About The Goodnight Kiss: If you both have a good time on a date, then don’t worry about the goodnight kiss. So many times, guys feel like they have to “seal it with a kiss.” So many times, guys will start thinking about the goodnight kiss the entire last part of the date. It’s like it’s the 4th quarter of a football game and they’re planning their comeback, when what they should be doing is just enjoying the play-by-play. When you walk her to her car, just give her a hug or a little kiss on the lips. Don’t worry about the full-blown makeout session. Women love foreplay, and they love to be left wondering about that passionate kiss they will have with you.

6.Follow Up With A Second Date: If you had a good time and she had a good time, then why leave her in suspended animation? Ask her out for a second at the end of the first date, and ask her to do something you both talked about enjoying on the first date. That way, when she goes home and does the play-by-play with her friends, she’s going to say that you’re one of the few guys who didn’t leave her wondering what she did right or wrong on that first date. You will stand out among all the “other guys” she’s met.

As a man, you want to be a leader. You need to remember that women love romantic comedies. They are always looking for that serendipitous moment where a man just knows things about her and takes her to her favorite coffee shop without even having to ask her which one that is. You want to be the leader, not the follower. You want to lead her on a romantic journey. So taking her to a restaurant and watching each other chew just isn’t going to cut it. It’s time to get creative.

I’m in Detroit this weekend coaching a client, and we were out tonight at a bar on Lake St. Clair. Let’s set the scene right . . .

There were women over the age of thirty, very sexually aware, that spent the day drinking beer, laying in the sun, and thinking about dick. The only problem is that most men lack the balls to walk over, flirt, listen to them, and carry on a conversation so that the women can act upon their raw, sexual desires that they were flaunting all night at Jack’s.

Guys – wake up!!! Women want dick so bad, that they’re willing to look past your social retardation. Men don’t understand that women crave sex after a long hot day of drinking beer and laying in the sun as much, if not more, than men.

Women, when they talk sex with their friends, go over every single detail from how big you are to how good you are with your tongue. Women, when they have sexual fantasies, use battery-operated toys as they lay in their bed thinking about a man that they met or a man they want to meet and how he would feel inside of them.

So here I am at this bar tonight, and four women were looking at me like a piece of steak on the grill. As I walked by they licked their lips, smiled at me, and said hello.

This was after they had stared directly at me for twenty straight minutes. If interested, all I had to do was walk over and talk to her.

How would I have closed the deal tonight, and not ruined it like most men do? I would walk over with edge and I would bust her with: “You haven’t stopped staring at me all night long. Let’s cut through the BS. I’ll share with you one secret if you share with me one secret.”

Some of you right now will read this and say “there’s no way this will work” because you live in fear. So you won’t even try it.

You’ll just dismiss this immediately because it’s so far removed from anything you’ve ever done. But everything you’ve ever done has never given you the results you desire.

Guys – Women love dick. They love it, they crave it, they desire it.

They buy toys in the shape of your dick. They fantasize about a strong, confident man having sex with them. If they don’t find it in the bar that night after a day in the sun, they’re online on a dating site cruising and looking.

What do you think women do at 11:00 p.m.? What do you think they’re really thinking?

They’re thinking about having sex and connecting with a man. Some of them are just horny and want dick. Some of them just want to feel love, romance and passion.

Hey guys . . . I don’t do this for my health. I already know and understand women. I do this because I want you to know and understand women better.

So how do you get laid tonight? How do you not screw it up so a woman gets her dick?

This we’ll go over more in an upcoming podcast. For now, think about what I said. Process it. Because this blog is going to be all about real, hard-hitting, no-BS advice.

Love it or hate it, this is who I am and this is what I’m all about.

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