And starting this year all bootcamps are 3 long fun days!!!!!

This is a conversation we had last night and it is something that most people do not ever think of.

Do you know what is the best place to sit when you go out with a group of eight people or more?

Most people will make the mistake of taking the end seat of the table. The problem with that seat is that if you have people on your side that you don’t want to talk to anymore, you’re just stuck in silent mode the whole time.

The key seat to take at all times when you go out with a group of people is the middle seat of the long side. Then, you can direct your conversation to just about everyone.

If you sit at the end, that’s not the lead seat – that’s the lecture seat.

Khiem: Sure, if you’re in a formal setting, the end is a good place to sit. But if you’re in a social setting, the best seat is absolutely-right-in-the-middle. You can connect to more people and you can also pay attention to everyone.

David: It’s a really important thing. Whenever you’re out at a group meal, make sure you’re not at the end. You don’t want to be at the head of the table.

You’d much rather be in the middle because if you look at the way the projection works – the person in the middle can basically project all the way across the table with no problem.

But when you’re at the very end, you’re stuck.

A lot of people always go for that seat because they think it has the most space. They think that it’s the best seat. And it is, from a power-structure point of view. You feel like you’re in the power zone.

It’s really that easy!
Todays video will bring back some fun summer memories.

Enjoy the day!!

Do you have Little Voice?

Everything you say in life should be spoken with authority. You have to be authoritative with every word that you say.

Let’s say, for instance, you’re in the middle of a bootcamp, as we are right now while I’m recording this blog. There’s a group of about ten of us heading down the stairs, and this woman starts to walk up the steps in front of us.

Of course, we could say anything to her: “hey, how are you doing?” “what direction are you going, my friends are always in the way!” – anything.

It doesn’t matter WHAT you say; it’s how you say it. It’s all about having a big voice. It’s how you project your voice.

You never want to have Little Voice.

You have to say everything with authority, like you’ve said it a thousand times before. That’s what makes you a natural when it comes down to meeting women.

When you say things over and over again, say them with authority.

How do you do that? How do you say things with authority?

Start practicing! There’s an exercise that I tell guy s to do all of the time – take a mini digital recorder and start talking. Start reading stories, start saying sentences: “hey, how are you doing today?” “How are you today?” – things like that.

Then replay everything you’ve said. Listen to how you speak. Would you respond to yourself? If someone was walking towards you and said that to you, would you respond?

This is something that you need to ask yourself: how do you say things?

The reason that women don’t respond to men often times is because they are suffering from Little Voice. Little Voice is the worst thing to have.

The next time you see a woman, project your voice. Learn how to speak, and learn how to project.