That is the question. To vibrate or not to vibrate, that is the question. What the hell am I talking about? You know what I’m talking about today: At what point do you say to yourself, “I got to stop masturbating,” and start connecting with people?
When you’re dating and you’re having sex, it’s always fresh. The sex is always fun, it’s always new and exciting. You’re really exploring a new person, there are always new ways to connect with each other, and every day it feels like you’re finding out something new about each other.
But in relationships, the sex can get monotonous.
I’ve been spending months upon months frustrated in bed. I’ve been unable to sleep half the night. My body and my head won’t stop racing and feeling anxious. I keep looking over at her wondering when this problem is going to stop.
There is a conversation that comes up time and time again with my women clients that I think is really interesting.
So many women tell me how they want to explore themselves sexually, but then tell me all the reasons why they don’t do it or why they feel they shouldn’t do it.