A lot of people get into what I call “relationship sex mode,” which is that point in a relationship you reach where you always know the sex is going to be there. How does this manifest itself?

Have you ever seen a woman when you’re standing in a bar, or standing in Whole Foods, maybe you’re at a coffee shop – it doesn’t really matter where you are – but then your mind takes over – the fantasy part of your mind takes over and you start manufacturing an entire story about [...]