I was working out at the gym the other day, and I saw one of the tabloid “rags” sitting out nearby. I figured I might as well do a little bit of reading while I was bouncing around on the Stairmaster. The Stairmaster isn’t the most fun piece of equipment in the world, so I thought I would do something to pass the time.

So once a month on a street called Abbott Kinney there’s something called “1st Fridays” where all the stores on that street stay open late. You know, I think there actually was a guy named Abbott Kinney. It’s kind of a cool name . . . and hearkening back to my “Yo! and Hey Man!” blog, I can just imagine people yelling out “Hey Abbott!” and “Yo Kinney!”

I got a ton of emails from all of you after you listened to yesterdays podcast on the it factor

In order to be in love with a woman, who is the first person that you need to fall in love with?

Can you believe that it’s already January 2009. It’s just ridiculous how quickly time flies.

But there’s something interesting that I want to bring up to everyone on the blog. As many of you know, I’m not really in to New Year’s resolutions – I think that they are a crock of shit. They are just a complete waste of time.

Men, here is the greatest exercise you can possibly do: go to a chick flick on a Saturday night and sit behind three women.

Don’t watch the movie; just listen to the movie and watch them.

When the leading character fucks up – because that’s what we do, we don’t say what we should have, and we fuck up. It’s the Hugh Grant moment where he realizes, why didn’t I tell her that I loved her at that moment? He’s just sitting there with his friends at a pub, and he realizes it.

And then he sees her out, and he still can’t tell her. When he finally goes and does it, watch the women’s reaction. Forget about watching the actors on screen; watch the reactions of the women in front of you.

Jonathan: If you want to take someone out, what do you say on the first call?

David: What would I say on my first phone call? The first phone call should always be based on something that we talked about the night before – always. I want to bring her back to the moment that we had before.

It’s interesting. I recently wrote a blog titled “I Want More” which was extremely deep. It really talked about the lingering yearning you feel when you meet a person you feel is the most amazing person you’ve met in a very long time.

I’ve been on a journey for the last couple years learning about self-love. Self-love is one of the most important things you can ever have, because you will never be able to truly love someone else until you learn to truly love yourself.

During last weeks site rollover we lost this blog.
I had 100 plus emails asking me to repost this.

Have a great Sunday!!!