Come to one of my Bootcamps and get coached by my coaches and I, and we will give you every skill you need to be successful. We will kick your ass. You will have every bit of information you need to create total success in your dating life. That by itself, though, is not enough…

As I’m driving in my car right now, I’m thinking to myself how late for an appointment I am going to be. I have no excuse why I’m going to be late. So far today I’ve been working in my office and I made some lunch. I really didn’t have much going on, and certainly nothing that couldn’t wait until later. Nevertheless, here I am driving 50 miles an hour through the streets of Los Angeles because I’m running late.

Life is like call waiting. Call waiting is so annoying. I seems like it has gotten even more annoying. I think it used to be just two beeps, and that was it. Now it seems to go on beeping forever. Well at least if you have an iPhone or a BlackBerry you can hit ‘ignore’ and not hear the beeping go off. Life, though, is a lot like call waiting. There is…

Someone asked me the other day what I thought about manliness. Here is the truth about manliness. A real man walks over to a woman in whom he is interested. He gets to know her. He realizes that he is a catch. If he finds something attractive about her, then he asks her out and gets her phone number. A real man will call her up…

Have you ever been in a relationship in which you keep having the same conversation over and over again? You’ve explained your situation, or a need or desire you have, or something that might bother you about your partner. You’ve talked about it with them over and over and over again. You feel good after each conversation.

Let’s talk about Mr. Perfect today. I want everyone to know about Mr. Perfect. Everyone who is out there trying to improve their dating life by meeting people in situations in which they normally don’t meet people is playing the role of Mr. Perfect. So let’s put Mr. Perfect in a situation so you can see what I mean.

Why don’t they act the way they did the first six months? What happened? Why don’t they do the things they used to do during the first six months, like write me love letters? Why don’t they light candles like they used to do? Why aren’t they attacking me sexually in the same way? Are they just bored with me? Do they no longer want these things?

Here’s another reason why you need to journal. You need to journal so that you learn not to edit your thoughts. When you speak, you speak from your heart. You can articulate your words without any judgment. This is one reason I love Copytalk. You call them up, speak into your phone — talking to the air really — and speak your thoughts. This allows you to learn how to journal without editing your thoughts.

Let’s talk about crap. No, I’m not talking about the crap you leave in the toilet bowl each morning, and I’m not trying to be crude or disgusting. I want to talk about a different kind of crap — your personal crap. The taxes that are due. Your father with whom you aren’t getting along. The bad fight you had the night before with your roommate. Your boss being mean to you. All of your personal crap.

I’ve been asked what living in the moment means to me, and what my inner processes are as to how I live in the moment. I’ve also been asked how I deal with my own demons. I love my demons. It’s interesting, because to me living in the moment is the only way to go. The only thing that really means anything is right now.