Dating Tips and Dating Advice by David Wygant » the truth

Do You Suffer From To Good To Be True Syndrome?

David Wygant — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 22:44:28 +0000

No words can describe what I am going to share with you on todays podcast.

Everyone I know suffers from a very curable disease called To Good To Be True Syndrome!

You will not find the cure while watching TV.

You will not find the cure in any magazine.

Your friends are powerless to help you.

Your parents have no clue but they are the first people who actually transmitted this powerful disease to you.

Are you intrigued?

If so, click and listen this podcast, it is a must for all men and women who read this blog.

One last thing be a good friend and pass this onto anyone you care about!

To Download Today’s Podcast Click Here!

The Truth About The Truth

David Wygant — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:22:56 +0000

There is something I want to share with all of you today that’s really important. It’s called the truth. I don’t think I ever really covered this before in a blog, however, it is something I think we all need to realize.

Have you ever been in a relationship, and you just knew something you were doing – whether on a conscious or subconscious level – was not the right thing but you did it anyway? I am not talking about cheating (because I think cheating is 100% wrong).

I am talking about other things. I am talking about getting in touch with a friend and talking about your personal business with other people (or whatever it might be). Then, when confronted with it, you lie right to someone’s face about it.

Do you realize that whenever you tell a lie in life, you will get caught? You will always get caught in lies.

I learned something a long time ago: It is hard to keep a lie straight, but it is easy to keep the truth straight. It is easy to keep the truth straight because you don’t have to remember stories.

You never have to remember alibis. You never have to remember anything.

When you tell the truth, there is nothing to remember but the truth. The real truth, along with the real feelings and the real emotions behind it.

When it comes to a lie, you always have to “cover your tracks.” You have to remember what you said to each person.

Lies are not worth it. Lies are destructive in relationships, and they will never get you anywhere.

So, when you are out there right now trying to meet somebody, remember what I’m telling you here about the truth. It’s always easier.

Sometimes the truth might be hard to say in the moment. Telling the truth in that moment, however difficult it is, will mean you never have to go back and apologize about it later.

Back Talkers

David Wygant — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 18:59:16 +0000

Are you a back talker?

That is, are you somebody who won’t talk to people to their face – so you talk shit about them behind their back?
There is nothing I disrespect more than back talking. I don’t respect someone who can’t look me in the eyes and talk to me directly – someone who badmouths me behind my back. I find that to be the most disgraceful way of addressing something.


	I don’t honor people who talk behind other people’s backs. I don’t honor people who don’t look me in the eyes and tell me what is on their mind. I don’t respect somebody who can’t talk to me face-to-face.
	If anyone has an issue with me, I want to hear about it. I want to discuss it, because that is what a real friend would do. 
	Do you know anyone who is a real back talker? Or are you somebody that has been a chicken in life and decided to talk behind people’s backs?
	Really, I think that back talking shows something important about your personality. I think it shows something about your development and your confidence level. A genuinely confident person will talk to somebody about the things that bother him or her. They won’t talk shit about somebody.
	Shit talkers and back talkers are people who are really insecure. These are people who don’t really know themselves.
	Do you know of any back talkers in your life? Or have you been one at times?
	We’ve all talked shit about people behind their backs before. We’ve all done it. But hopefully most of us have stopped doing it – it really is one of the ugliest traits anyone can have.