You either became a total mute paralyzed by fear or you teased her so no one knew about your secret crush.

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You must be thinking right now, where is he going with this? Ache? Like in the heart? Or does he mean ache with desire?

You know that some men suffer from a severe case of blue balls. For those women who don’t understand blue balls, I wrote a great blog about it about six months back, but here’s a quick review.

A man suffers from blue balls when a woman is teasing him mentally, emotionally, and physically, but yet doesn’t deliver on any type of release. Your balls tend to swell up at this point, but they don’t necessarily turn blue. But they do turn very large and a painful shade of red.

And when you have blue balls and this incredible desire, it feels like you are carrying around 30 lb weights between your legs. If you’ve ever seen a rat walking around with swollen balls, that is exactly what blue balls feel like.

But the question I’ve always had is this: do women get blue lips?

Do they ever ache with so much desire that their lips actually hurt? Do they walk around and feel the pain in their lips all day long?

Do women have blue lips? Do blue lips even exist?

I’m curious about this. Many women don’t think that blue balls actually exist. Many women think blue balls are a farce.

But I’ve had blue balls throughout my life – when I’m really turned on by a woman, all she has to do is text me and I’ll get blue balls.

Perhaps some of us are just more sensitive down there. Some of us might really like the color blue.

But do women have blue lips? That’s the question that I’m trying to figure out today.

I need the women of the blog to chime in right now and let me know: do you suffer from blue lips?

Or is blue lips a myth, just something in my mind? Blue balls is a reality, but is blue lips just a myth?

One of the absolute best things you can do to make a guy want you more on a date, is at the end of the date to lean in toward him letting your lips touch his ear as you whisper “I had a great time tonight.” Then you walk away.

Let his eyes follow you as you leave. He will follow the shape of your body as you walk away, and you will leave him wanting more.

You didn’t kiss him on the lips. You didn’t kiss him on the cheek. You didn’t give him a hug or a handshake. You didn’t do anything except whisper in his ear.

Do you know why this works? It works because it clearly and unambiguously communicates exactly what you want to him, i.e., that you are interested in him (and in him wanting you) but in a way that doesn’t seem at all desperate.

Think about the alternatives. None of them achieve both these objectives. If you kiss him on the cheek, then he will immediately think you are putting him in the friend zone. If you kiss him just on the lips (and don’t involve at least a little bit of tongue), then is going to be wondering if you might just be friendly.

If you whisper in his ear, however, he will get so turned on that from that moment forward he will be just like a puppy dog coming after you. What happens when someone whispers in your ear – even if it’s to say “I’ll be right back” or “It’s so great to see you” or whatever it may be – it immediately makes you remember some great sex you had with someone who whispered certain things in your ear.

So this is one little trick you can use to not only fill a guy with desire for you, but which will get that guy to call you right away. Doing this will not in any way make a guy think you are going to sleep with him right at that moment. The only thing you will lead a guy to think when you do this is that you are one cool woman.

Are you wondering how I know this? I know this because every time a woman has ever done it to me, I couldn’t get my head out of the clouds for hours.

Many guys pay too much attention to body language – if she’s holding her arms this way… Many guys are looking for signs from her body language, but they aren’t leading with their own bodies.

You have to lead with your body. For instance, let’s say you’re out on a date with a woman and you’re talking. If you lean back in your chair, she’s going to lean back into hers – usually people mimic each other’s body languages.

So how do you know that she’s not just mimicking you – how do you know if she is actually interested?

You want to be the leader in the body language game. You want to be the guy that gets her to do what you are doing.

What I’ll sometimes do on a date is mix it up. I’ll lean back in my chair, and then when she says something particularly interesting, I’ll lean forward. I’ll get her to follow me. If she’s interested in me, she’ll also lean forward toward me.

Another thing that I will do is put my hands on the table as I’m leaning forward. I’ll then watch to see if she puts her hands up there too. Sometimes she’ll move her hands closer to my hands so that literally the center of the table is the dividing line between our almost touching fingers.

If she leans forward and her hands are almost touching mine, then I will move back and pull away. Why? It has to do with that teasing aspect. Life is all about teasing.

So then I’ll lean back just like this, and I’ll see where she’s at. If she leans back too, then I know that she’s following my lead and mimicking me. I’m leading and she’s following – that’s what you want!

Maybe five or six minutes later, I’ll do the same thing and lean forward towards her. This time I will put my hands over the dividing line and I’ll see how close she’ll move her hands to mine.

She might put her hands over the dividing line as well, onto my side of the table. This means that we’ve broken each other’s personal space boundaries.

These are some of the little clues that you can read into when it comes down to body language. You want to play with it a little bit.

Don’t worry if she folds her arms. If she folds her arms, she might just be cold – it doesn’t necessarily mean anything bad.

Do you see the difference? It’s all about playing; leading and following, leading and following.

Now that we covered some thoughts on how to know if she is attracted to you.

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