“What? David Wyant has written a post telling me I shouldn’t approach women?” That’s right my friend! You’re not seeing things, and you’re not imagining what you’ve just read. There IS a time you shouldn’t try to talk to or approach women, and that is when you’re drunk or stoned. I’ve just seen a group […]
Topic: talking to women
Apple has finally done it. Apple has eliminated the need for human beings to ever actually talk to each other. That’s right. Now, humans never need to engage in genuine conversation, because now we have the ultimate dramatic pause in conversation. Now, humans have the iPhone anticipation bubble. Those of you who have an iPhone […]
It’s Wednesday, which means its “Dear David” day. Today I’m answering a question from Mark on approaching women in public. It’s interesting, because it’s something I talk about a lot, but this takes the subject a little deeper. Mark asks… “David, I love the idea of using observations with women. I understand pickup lines don’t […]
I’ve been getting so many e-mails from you guys lately asking the same thing. It seems like the summer of the silent man. The question every single day is, “How should I talk to women?” If you start from that position you’re never going to get anywhere. Everyone; men and women, are all completely individual […]
In order to really be able to connect with people, you need to improve your memory. So many times when you’re in a conversation with someone, you fade out and go into “Me World.” Slipping off into “Me World” during a conversation could happen out of fear or out of disinterest, or it could happen simply because you fail to remain present. At the moment you feel yourself starting to go in that direction, you need to dial yourself back become totally present in that conversation (whether you’re talking or just listening).