Then a commercial came on. You know, with late night television you really don’t have a lot of great choices unless you’ve recorded something. If you start recording a lot of stuff late at night, you really are a television addict.

Anyway, there was a commercial on for Time Warner. Someone built a real estate office and they called in someone from Time Warner to talk about their business.

So who comes over from Time Warner? It’s a well-dressed guy in a suit who comes in and shakes the business owner’s hand.

I’m thinking to myself, “How come this guy never shows up to my house when I call for someone from Time Warner to come over?” I get the sweaty guy who shows me his butt crack, and basically tells me they can’t fix something.

Where’s the guy in the suit? I want him to be hooking up my Internet!

It’s funny in life how companies represent themselves publicly, and then how they do so in person. So many companies don’t walk the walk. So it’s really interesting how important it is to not just talk the talk, but walk the walk.

Now the question back at all of you.

When it comes down to dating do you walk the walk and talk the talk?

The only thing missing is a Cialis® commercial. Imagine it . . . “Do you suffer from approach anxiety? Take Cialis®. It will cure approach anxiety and give you an erection that will last 36 hours.”

This podcast goes into the mindset that infects 85% of us, i.e., why we are so afraid to approach the opposite sex. I used to feel the same way, until I realized that it was all about my belief system and mindset. I talk all about that in today’s podcast.

I also make a special announcement in the podcast. For those of you who don’t already know, something happened around Thanksgiving that changed my life . . . but you will have to listen to the podcast to find out what that was.

Also, next week I’ll be doing a limited release of a brand new product that deals with overcoming approach anxiety and becoming a master communicator.

This product, however, will only be available to people on my list. It will not be available on my website for sale for months. If you want the opportunity to be able to get one of these special preview copies, and have access to a special offer along with it, then be sure you are on my list so you will get notified when it’s released next week Tuesday.

To listen to today’s podcast, click here:

Do you have Little Voice?

Everything you say in life should be spoken with authority. You have to be authoritative with every word that you say.

Let’s say, for instance, you’re in the middle of a bootcamp, as we are right now while I’m recording this blog. There’s a group of about ten of us heading down the stairs, and this woman starts to walk up the steps in front of us.

Of course, we could say anything to her: “hey, how are you doing?” “what direction are you going, my friends are always in the way!” – anything.

It doesn’t matter WHAT you say; it’s how you say it. It’s all about having a big voice. It’s how you project your voice.

You never want to have Little Voice.

You have to say everything with authority, like you’ve said it a thousand times before. That’s what makes you a natural when it comes down to meeting women.

When you say things over and over again, say them with authority.

How do you do that? How do you say things with authority?

Start practicing! There’s an exercise that I tell guy s to do all of the time – take a mini digital recorder and start talking. Start reading stories, start saying sentences: “hey, how are you doing today?” “How are you today?” – things like that.

Then replay everything you’ve said. Listen to how you speak. Would you respond to yourself? If someone was walking towards you and said that to you, would you respond?

This is something that you need to ask yourself: how do you say things?

The reason that women don’t respond to men often times is because they are suffering from Little Voice. Little Voice is the worst thing to have.

The next time you see a woman, project your voice. Learn how to speak, and learn how to project.