We’re so caught up in trying to get people to like us. Think about it. You see a woman (or man) you think is attractive. You think, “I just want her to like me, so I’m going to edit myself because that is how people respond well to me.” You think similarly about how you act around your friends. You think, “That’s why…

All men are racists. That’s right, you heard me correctly. You are all a bunch of racists, every one of you. Do I have your attention yet? Are you intrigued as to how I can possibly make that statement? Do you have any idea about what I’m talking? You are thinking to yourself right now that…

I think a lot of people are really unrealistic. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Think about this. There are 52 weeks and 365 days in a year. Think if you went out and met people every single day with the goal of getting one date per week. I’m not just talking about a date with anyone you can find, but with someone with whom you share a real chemistry connection.

Are you a voicemail blabberer? Do you just freeze when you hit someone’s voicemail? The phone is ringing, and all of a sudden you hear “Hi. This is Jane. Please leave a message . . .” Your heart starts beating really fast. The next thing you know, you start blabbering. “Oh, hey Jane. It’s Mike. Okay, that’s . . .

It’s Friday and you’re thinking, “Where do I go tonight? Should I go to a party? Should I go to the bar I normally go to on Friday nights, and just kick back and have some beers with friends? Should I maybe go to that new Irish pub on the corner? I heard it’s a lot of fun there.” This blog has nothing to do with where you should go on Friday night. I think that no matter where you choose to go tonight, however, you just need to be sure you…

Give yourself permission. That is a term I use a lot. A lot of us don’t give ourselves permission to talk. We will give ourselves permission to think, though, so we basically spend a lot of time just thinking about what to say. We walk through life thinking to ourselves “What should I say?” instead of just observing and making comments about what we see. Give yourself permission to…

Can you all believe that it’s already April? And it’s a holiday weekend to boot. Spring is here! So enjoy the weekend. Today’s video is all about how to talk to any woman, anytime, anywhere. Need I say more?

Do you ever see a hot woman working in a store, and wonder how to make yourself stand out from the pack of guys she sees all day long? Attracting hot women in a store is simple, if you know this one trick to how to talk to them. Watch this live in-field video to see how this store clerk ended up asking these guys out…

You have started a very intriguing text conversation in the middle of the day. There is, however, a problem with texting. People misuse it as a substitute for conversation. Guys will get a phone number from a woman, and what do they so often do wrong? Ah, you will need to listen to today’s podcast to find out.

Do you know what I love? Man, I love doing a Bootcamp. I love cramming all the guys into my car. Usually I have to drive around with Daphne or Sonja. I also love when a guy at a Bootcamp comes up with a scenario he thinks is going to be a huge challenge for me. Nothing is a big challenge for me anymore, at least in the area of meeting women (and the emotions and concepts behind it). It’s something that I’ve mastered, and it’s easy for me. I so enjoy now showing guys how it can be equally easy for them.