Masturbation is a very funny word. “What are you doing tonight?” “Not much, I think I’m going to go home and masturbate.” It would be funny if people talked that way, and were very frank about masturbation. “What did you do last night?” “Not much. Watched a movie, masturbated for a while and ate some dessert afterwards. Couldn’t fall asleep, so I masturbated again.”

Every day someone will send me an email asking this question: When is the right time to have sex and how do I know if I am doing it at the right time? I am going to answer this in a way that you may not expect. The right time to have sex is…