As some of you may (or may not) know, I’ve recently been looking for a car. Looking for a car is fun – at least in my world. Surfing the Internet, checking prices and lowballing people are all fun to me. I mean, you never know who may say yes to one of those lowball offers. What amazes me, though, is that no matter how many times I sent a lowball offer, that almost no one…

Your life is only as powerful as the people you meet. Think about this for one second. In order to become something in life, you need to learn something from everybody you meet. Everything in life that happens to you, happens to you for a reason. This is not a revelation; it is all just plain truth. The real question, though, is what do you do with this? What do you take away from meeting each person with whom you come into contact?

Alright, I f*^ked up! I’m not perfect. I was 5-2. 5-2, and I lost my fantasy game too because I tried to maneuver some roster moves that backfired. Was I angry with myself yesterday during the Colts game? Well it took me a massage, but I got over it. So, recently I f^*ked up. Today’s [...]

It’s Saturday and as I was leaving this morning to go speak, I was thinking that I still need to give all of you…

I am about to start a Bootcamp with some great guys, and I had these thoughts I wanted to share with you.

Do you want to “get lucky?” Do you REALLY want to “get lucky” this weekend?

Men tend to be very outcome dependent. Many men approach women with one goal in mind: to get their phone number. Such men think if they approach a woman, they must get her phone number in order for that approach to have been successful. These men, in fact, will base their entire assessment of an encounter on whether a woman gives them her phone number. This type of mindset is what I’m referring to when I talk about outcome dependence.

Let’s talk about another kind of relationship right now: what is your relationship with money?

This should be one of your best and most well managed relationships.

What is your relationship with money?

Let me share with you what my relationship with money used to be. Growing up in my household, money was doled out when we were being good. You went to Grandma Frankie’s house, and if you were a good grandson, you’d leave with a couple of hundred bucks for a pair of new sneakers.

I’m sitting on an airplane right now to New York City in coach, which is a whole other treat in itself. I hate flying coach. Whenever I fly I always try to upgrade with all of the certificates I have.

Not to sound like a total snob, but I have to tell you something – once you fly business class, it’s really hard to go back to coach.

Remember that first bite of a McDonald’s hamburger and how good it tasted? And then the first time you went to Morton’s Steakhouse and had a really good piece of meat? It’s just hard to go back to McDonald’s after that.

Do you really wish that there were a shortcut in life for everything?

The other day someone told me that he wanted to get into my business after he listened to me talk about how I struggled for the first few years of my career. He told me he wanted to get into the business, and I asked him why.