You’re fun at work.

Everybody wants to hang out with you.

You’ve got this personality that people like.

But for some reason, when you talk to women you become the world’s most boring man.   

When you approach a woman, you always wonder what to do, what to say next, and how to get her to like you.

You’re constantly thinking, “Why can’t they like me like the guys at the office like me?”

You’re really actually good at talking to women you’re not attracted to.

No problem communicating with them, talking to them, actually flirting and having fun.

But, when it comes down to the real hot, sexy girl you want to meet, you become the world’s most boring man.

The reason why you’re doing this is because you’re talking to women like they’re aliens.

That’s right.  You’re treating the hot ones different than the other ones.

Do you want to know a secret?

I talk to everybody the same.

Oh yeah, you heard me right. I talk to everybody the exact same way.

Here’s the deal.

Women—whether they’re pretty or not—all think they’re attractive.  So, if you could talk to the ones that you don’t think are attractive, you could talk to the attractive ones.

Think for a second.

The woman you spoke to today that you didn’t find all that attractive, when she woke up this morning she didn’t say to herself, “God, I’m so ugly.  I hope a guy can talk to me.  I’m such an ugly girl.  I really am.  I’m ugly.  I’m ugly.  I’m ugly. “

She doesn’t think that way at all.  What she’s thinking is, “I’m hot. I look good.  Guys are talking to me. “

Here’s the deal, guys: if you have good communication skills, and you can talk to women you’re not attracted to, you could talk to the women you are attracted to just as easily.

It’s about getting out of your head.  See, you’re a man that’s inside his head constantly.  You’re constantly, mentally masturbating trying to figure everything out: how to talk to women, how to meet them, how to get the hot one.

You’re just not communicating.  And, you’ve got to learn how to become a great communicator and overcome that fear—that fear that you have of talking to beautiful women.

It’s all in your head.

You’re a lot better at this thank you think you are.

I read this a few months ago and just reread it today.

Enjoy and before you read it one last thought.

Eagles and the steelers!
I want to tell you about the story of Brian Boyle.

Brian Boyle was a zombie. In 2004, a truck smashed into his jet black 1994 Chevy Camaro, a month after he graduated from high school. From the article: “the collision forced his heart to the right side of his chest, collapsed his lungs, and splintered his ribs, collarbone and pelvis.”

“He lost 60% of his blood and was given 36 blood transfusions. He lost over 100 lbs on his presumed deathbed and died eight times just on the operating table. Just over three years later he completed the 2007 Ford Ironman World Championship in Kona, Hawaii.”

What did he say about this? He “used all of the negative things that were thrown at [him] after the accident as ammunition for [his] arsenal. When [he] crossed the finish line, [he] wasn’t Brian the sick boy anymore. [He] wasn’t the skeleton in the wheelchair – [he] was Brian the Ironman.”

He woke up from a two-month coma, and then “embarked on three years of intensive rehab, which included relearning how to blink and walk. He had only six months to train specifically for the Ironman, but most of his preparation, he said, had taken place in the hospital.”

He says: “My mentality was similar whether I was undergoing endless physical therapy sessions after the coma or pushing my body to reach the finish line at Kona. If it was learning how to blink my eyelid again or pounding through one more mile during the run, it was about the small goals. Pain was now something that I could conquer.”

So what’s next for him?

He wants to go back and do another Ironman.

What’s next for you?

You have no physical handicaps. You have only mental handicaps. You are allowing a weak mind – and your fears and insecurities – to dominate your life. You’re not willing to communicate with people because you’re not willing to push yourself the extra distance.

Some of you can’t push yourself, and some of you just WON’T. You know who I’m talking about here!

But read this story of Brian Boyle. Brian Boyle died eight times. You just have trouble flirting with the opposite sex. Which do you think is more challenging? Whose life do you think is harder? Whose comeback is harder?

Push yourself to be the best that you can possibly be, and stop with the fear and excuses.

Your brain is powerful. Your mind is powerful. You really need to start looking at it as the powerful entity that it is. You can create anything you want.
. Read this again and learn about him, and then tell me if you don’t feel inspired to get out from behind the computer and start talking to people!