Do you have Little Voice?

Everything you say in life should be spoken with authority. You have to be authoritative with every word that you say.

Let’s say, for instance, you’re in the middle of a bootcamp, as we are right now while I’m recording this blog. There’s a group of about ten of us heading down the stairs, and this woman starts to walk up the steps in front of us.

Of course, we could say anything to her: “hey, how are you doing?” “what direction are you going, my friends are always in the way!” – anything.

It doesn’t matter WHAT you say; it’s how you say it. It’s all about having a big voice. It’s how you project your voice.

You never want to have Little Voice.

You have to say everything with authority, like you’ve said it a thousand times before. That’s what makes you a natural when it comes down to meeting women.

When you say things over and over again, say them with authority.

How do you do that? How do you say things with authority?

Start practicing! There’s an exercise that I tell guy s to do all of the time – take a mini digital recorder and start talking. Start reading stories, start saying sentences: “hey, how are you doing today?” “How are you today?” – things like that.

Then replay everything you’ve said. Listen to how you speak. Would you respond to yourself? If someone was walking towards you and said that to you, would you respond?

This is something that you need to ask yourself: how do you say things?

The reason that women don’t respond to men often times is because they are suffering from Little Voice. Little Voice is the worst thing to have.

The next time you see a woman, project your voice. Learn how to speak, and learn how to project.