You just finished having some of the best sex in your life. It was hot. Man, she had many orgasms. She was oozing and bubbling with sexual desire. Everything was great. Now sex is over, and one part of the bed-the part that you had sex on-is starting to get really cold. Real damp, and it’s right in the middle of the bed. It’s in what I call the cuddle spot.

Why is the wet spot on the bed always in the spot that you cuddle on?

That is the question. To vibrate or not to vibrate, that is the question. What the hell am I talking about? You know what I’m talking about today: At what point do you say to yourself, “I got to stop masturbating,” and start connecting with people?

Have you been bombarded? It’s amazing how good e-mail spammers can get at times. For a while there, I wasn’t getting a single e-mail from them, and all of a sudden, they started squeaking their way in and now they’ve got new promises.

Love the English language. Really enjoy it. So many words that are so powerful, but yet there are words that need to be eliminated.

Maybe you’ve been watching the stock market spike and dip last week. Last week it hit below 10,800. And as you watched it dwindle down, you thought to yourself, “Can it hit zero? Then I’ll have no return on my investments.” Well its now Saturday night heading into Sunday. Its time to look at your own personal dating life like a stock chart.

Some of you need to think of your dating life as the stock market. Lots of ups, lots of downs.

Shogo and I were speaking at our Art of Communication and Seduction seminar in New York last weekend. We talked the whole second day of the seminar on the topic of seduction. One of my favorite quotes we came up with: Women look at sex like a marathon, but guys look at it like a horse race.

I think guys look at sex as if they were at the Kentucky Derby. The woman gets naked. She’s standing there in front of the gates, ready to go

Something that I tell women all the time when I’m coaching them is, “”You really look your best when you don’t look your best.”"

I know that’s probably confusing to some of you right now and you’re wondering what I mean by that.

When I was in Vegas a couple of weeks ago, I was out on a Saturday night with my client

Remember the movie A Few Good Men, when Jack Nicholson looked at Tom Cruise and said, “You can’t handle a good blow job!”

Well, ok, he didn’t really say that. But in my version he did.

So you meet a new woman

In your marriage, was there ever a time when you forgot to be your spouse’s husband or wife? I want you to think about this for a minute. Whether you are currently married or are recently divorced, I want you to think about whether there was ever a time that you really forget that you [...]

You come up with something really great- “Tomorrow night, I’m going to take you out to this really great restaurant.” You send them a text that morning, and you said “Hey, are we going to go out to this great restaurant? Really want to go out to this great restaurant.” And I’m using restaurant as an analogy there.

They don’t respond to it.