Every day you need to look at how your actions affect others. You also need to look at how dropping your ego is important not only for your personal growth, but so that love can grow deeper. Understanding how your actions affect others could be life’s biggest challenge. I know I’ve written about this before (and probably a lot) in the blog, but I think this is something we all need to learn.

Let me share a story with all of you that I think may be a great weekend reminder. I remember when I was about 16 years old and some friends of mine invited me to a big kegger. For anyone who doesn’t know what a “kegger” is, let me give you the quick description. A kegger is when a bunch of high school kids sit around drinking beer out of a keg, get drunk and act like idiots. I remember that all the hot girls were going to be at that party, and how badly I wanted to go. Despite this, I couldn’t…

You are flaking . . . and I’m not talking about your scalp or the tip of your nose. I’m talking about you flaking on people. You can’t make commitments. You cancel at the very last minute. You say yes to something, but then you always tend to blow it off. Are you someone who decides you want to go to an event, but you blow it off at the last minute because no one else will go with you? Do you know what flaking says about your personality? It shows…

Do you know anybody who is just mediocre at a lot of things? It is amazing how some people feel they are entitled in life to be compensated for mediocrity. Everybody wants to be the boss. Everybody wants to be paid like the boss, but no one wants to excel like the boss…

I received a great question the other day from a guy on Facebook. He asked me, “How do you practice self love?” As to the question of how to practice self love, there are a number of ways to do this. You should start writing down everything about who you are as a person. Answer these questions when you are writing this all down…

Do you ever sit back and really think about what you want the meaning of your life to be? How do you want to be remembered? What do you want to accomplish? I was at the dentist recently. Actually, I feel like I actually live at my dentist’s office. It’s not really a fun place to…

Let me ask you all a question. Does watching the NFL playoffs sometimes make you look back at your athletic past and say, “Well, I could be Peyton Manning if I had only worked harder at it?” If your answer is yes, I say to you … Really?! Come on now. The fact that you would even compare yourself to anyone else is a sign of emotional immaturity. The only person you need to compare yourself to is…

How many of you live a life about which you are absolutely not passionate? Can you speak about your life from a place of ultimate passion? If not, it is because you are really not in love with who you are. This podcast is going to teach you how to speak from a place of true passion and how to live a passionate life. This is a “must listen” to podcast. It’s that important and that big.

It’s really interesting. I got an email this morning from a woman who listened to one of my products, but who never went out and did anything to apply what she’d heard on the product. She emailed me asking me

The phone rings and you hear the dreaded words “We need to talk.” Then you get the knock on the door, your significant other comes in, and everything spirals down from there. The next thing you know, you’re hearing “We just aren’t connecting the way we need to be” or something similar to that. Whatever the specific phrase is, someone has just broken up with you.