I want you right now to look at your life. I want you to take inventory of your life. I want you to write down all of the people who are in your life right now. Then I want you to look at that list, and separate it into two lists: the people who drive you crazy and the people who don’t drive you crazy. Now take your “drive you crazy” list, and I want you to…

Have you ever hear that song, “Everything Is Beautiful?” Awful song. It makes me think about an email I get from so many people. An email that says, “There’s nothing abou tme that people find attractive.”
Let me tell you something. There is everything attractive about you.

I get emails all the time asking me this question: “I like a girl (or guy). I don’t know how I can make her like me more. What do I have to do? Can you please tell me how to get someone to like me more?” Here is my advice on this. Get on your hands and knees, look up at them and beg them. Stare right into their eyes and say, “Please like me more.

Sometimes when I sit down and write a blog, I think to myself, “This is going to be one of my favorites.” It is a feeling I have. When I sit down to write a blog, I often get motivated by topics that relate to something in my own life or by a thought or feeling I’m having. Today’s blog was spurred by something that came up in a conversation I was having earlier. Someone used the term “I didn’t sign up for this.”
People will use this phrase about…

Everyone is hot, sexy, charming and amazing. The problem is that people do not embrace the positive, and they harp on the negative. So in today’s podcast, I talk all about how amazing you all are.

One of my favorite lines ever from a movie is in A Few Good Men when Jack Nicholson says to Tom Cruise, “You want the truth? You can’t handle the truth!” We’ve talked a lot in the blog about the truth — the importance of telling the truth and being honest with all the people [...]

I received an email the other day from a friend who was checking out my YouTube videos. He noticed that people were harshly criticizing some of guys in my videos and said, “Man, sometimes those comments are so negative!” What is up with people who write nasty comments about other people? Really, what is up with people like that? Why would you have any desire to…

I love being imperfect. I really do. I must admit, though, that most of my life I wanted to be perfect and I hated my legs. I called them chicken legs – or I’d make the clucking noise and call them “bock bocks.” I remember in my 20′s when I used to…

I’ve talked quite a bit recently in the blog about self love, and I read all the comments you post. One comment that was posted asked a great question: How do you accept yourself and love yourself if you are trying to improve yourself? There is a very simple answer to that question.

Never be looking for validation from other people. If you changed yourself every time someone said something about you, you would be nothing more than a human diaper. The only people in your life who should prompt change in you are your close friends and family. Feedback should only be listened to in retrospect, and only from people you love and trust. Strangers know nothing about who you really are. So when they pass judgment on you, they are doing so based on nothing but superficial things.