I was on the phone the other day with a client and he asked me, “When are things going to be perfect in my life, and when am I going to be amazingly happy? Because I’ve been doing the ‘growth thing’ for a almost a year.”
I stopped him at this point, and said “Almost a year? Do you realize that self-growth is a never-ending process?”

There you are. You’re walking down the aisle.
You can’t believe that you’ve made it this far.
The date that you have planned for tonight? Well, it’s worked out. Oh yes, you know everything about it! It doesn’t matter that it’s presently 2011–it doesn’t matter at all. You can see the future. Years down the road, you’re able to look into the future and know exactly how that date’s going to go tonight.

“I can’t.” Are these words in your vocabulary?
Do you ever say to yourself, “Man I’d really love to go talk to that woman I’m really attracted to over there, but I just can’t do it?” If you’re a woman, do you hear dating advice telling you that you need to more of a huntress with men and think “I can’t do that?”

This is really funny but true. Thanks Zach from the blog for sending this to me. Thought you guys would get a kick out of this sad but true way we communicate. And here is a great clip on how men talk. This should get all of you excited for this weeks games.

Sometimes people just really annoy me. It could be the person driving in front of me who is driving so slowly that I feel like I must honk my horn to teach them different rules of the road. It could be a close, personal friend I’m hanging out with who is just annoys me with everything he does.

Do you find yourself falling for people really quickly? You’ve gone on one (or maybe two) dates with someone, and you’re already planning the next six months of a relationship that hasn’t even really started yet.

So you went out on a date and now its the morning after. Who do you call? Who can help you figure out each and every moment of the date? Who is going to confirm all that they said on the date? Who is going to stop you from being inside your head all day after a date. Guess who? Me and this podcast will help you stop being a neurotic dating speculator!

Yes sir! Yes Ma’am!

Your penis does the least amount of thinking. I was on the phone with a client of mine, and we were talking about how many guys are totally about validation. When they walk over to a woman, all they are thinking about is whether she will like them. In reality, what is going on in that situation is…

I met with Coach Jacob on the phone the other day. Jacob is one of my lead coaches and an unbelievable Bootcamp instructor. He’s a little version of me . . . literally. I’m 6’2″ and he’s 5’7″. He’s almost like my adopted son. He’s an amazing, loving and honest person, but like any child he can also drive me crazy. One way that Jacob drives me crazy is that he…