Everything you do, everything you experience is about seduction.

From waking up in the morning to getting dressed, looking your best, and feeling your best.

When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you feel powerful, strong, sexy, and amazing?

Walking into work, saying hello to people with command, looking at people in the eyes, smiling, and enjoying your day is seductive.

Eating lunch by yourself, looking people in the eyes, being sure of who you are, being strong, being powerful to your core—these are all seductive traits.

Life is all about seduction.  

The better you seduce, the more money you make.

The better you seduce, the more friends you have.

The better you seduce, the more relationships you experience and the greater love you can feel.

Seduction works in all aspects of life, from getting discounts, upgrades, getting great customer service, and having people respect you in all ways.

You have to master what a great seducer does.

Master seducers are strong and self-aware and they know that they can have and do whatever they want. It’s a powerful way to live. People sense that power, and women can’t resist it.

I urge you to not only work on your game with women, but work on your life game, so that you can walk around with the power of a great seducer.

It’s all about inner game. If you truly know that you can do and be anything, what is there to worry about?

And if you’re not worried, then you’re not in your head.

When you’re not in your head, all of your personal energy and charisma is being expressed without filter. And that’s really the ultimate goal.

Honestly express yourself.

Be authentic.

Be you.

I think a great topic that everyone should be talking about this weekend.

The weather is getting cold outside and it is time to start warming up the fires inside.

So how do we warm up the fires that lurk deep inside every woman.

Glad you asked.

Today I am in a pre holiday mood and I have a special video just for all my readers.

Today I am going to share with you the secrets on how to make her sizzle with passion and desire for you.

Not only that I am going to show you how to do this the second you meet her.

Enjoy today’s video.

Are you ready to learn the truth behind her orgasms and what really makes her hot for you. Click here to find out, your going to be even more shocked.

Do you know all there is to know about romance and seduction?

Do you fully understand what women want, desire and crave when they meet a man?

If you are begining a new relationship or even want to find a girlfriend sometime in the near future, this podcast is for you.

We explore how to secure a girlfriend in today’s podcast and I reveal one dating myth that everyone does wrong.

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More information about tomorrow’s FREE tele-seminar titled “Training Any Woman To Be Your Future Girlfriend” click here!

And as far as the winner from yesterdays blog. It was really tough, there was some great responses but I had to go with this one from Alan.

Hey DW… Might sound kinda cheesy, and not believable, but I spent my V-day listening to your Self-Love Audio, again! Because I need my mindest (the part of the mindest to love myself) to be ready, even if it means listening to it 15 times!

Valentine’s Day is all about Love.

Alan is practicing, what I feel is one of the most important ways to express love.

Without self love we have no love.

Alan shoot me an email and I will set up your coaching call.

Why not? Sunday is a great day to stay in bed all day and have amazing sex.

So how do you make this happen?

Ahhhhh . . . you must watch today’s video to find out.

You think that is good? CHECK THIS OUT!

David: So here I am, sitting here, and talking to a good friend of mine who has never appeared on the blog but is an avid reader and really wanted to share her thoughts with all the men and women. Today she really wanted to help the guys out on the blog, and we’re going to talk about the art of seduction, using hot oil massage and foot massage. She’ll give you her step-by-step way of turning a woman on, just by hanging out with her and watching TV. All women need to pay attention to this as well…you can use this seduction on the men.

So let me ask you a question. You’re sitting, watching a movie with a guy, and the guy wants to seduce you. What would be the best way – instead of him just grabbing you – to seduce you when you’re watching television?

Jessica: I would say that a good place to start would be to slowly massage me, starting with my hands or the back of my neck, my head, or my feet – if you touch my feet, you’re in for sure!

David: So should the guy get some foot lotions and other things to like rub you during the movie?

Jessica: Absolutely! If he did that, I would feel like a princess, I would feel pampered; I am a sucker for massage. If you massage me long enough, you’re definitely getting some action!

David: And how long – a lot of guys don’t know how long they need to massage a woman. A lot of guys do the obligatory five-minute massage and that’s it. How long do you think is good?

Jessica: At least 35 minutes!

David: So would you say that during the whole movie it would be good to kind of massage your feet, maybe massage your legs, maybe massage your hands?

Jessica: Yeah! If you start off with some nice small caressing, and then say, “I would like to give you a massage, do you want one?” of course I’m going to say yes!

David: So they’ve given you a massage while you’re watching the TV, and now the movie is over. Now it’s time to take it to the bedroom. How would you describe the perfect way to continue this to keep you in the mood you’ve been in during the movie?

Jessica: Saying something like, “hey, this was just a warm up massage, I’ll give you the real thing, with massage oil or lotion,” in fact, David has told me about this great candle that he uses when he has a special guest.

David: The candle is called Jimmy Jane. Go to www.jimmyjane.com and check it out. It is a candle that comes in six different fragrances, and all of the fragrances are very sexual in nature.

Jessica: That sounds amazing if we were not sitting in this coffee shop right now i would jump you:)

David: Thanks and I always wondered what it would be like if you jumped me:) Ok…back to the candles here. They’re all very sexual and sensual in nature. There is a spout on the candle so you can actually pour the hot oil and wax all over your lover’s body. You light the candle, and then pour the oil on them, but the oil is not really hot when it touches them…

Jessica: Wow that is super hot. I once had a guy drip hot wax all over my body.

David: How did it make you feel?

Jessica: Hot! It’s really sexy, and sexual, and it very much put me in the mood. It was great because the fragrance of that candle that he used was very strong and it definitely helps arouse your senses – I’m getting aroused right now just thinking about it!

David: I think you were born aroused!! So you love when there’s a lot of hot oil, a lot of touching, and a lot of rubbing?

Jessica: YES!

David: You like the constant attention…

So let’s say the guy is massaging you – this is something that a lot of men don’t understand – many men will perform oral sex but they don’t really understand how to do the right kind of oral sex. It’s not just the way you lick! Share with the guys what they need to be doing with their hands in order to get a woman to climax really strong.

Jessica: You need to start off by stroking our legs at the same time, and I like it when the guy looks up at me. I also like it when… well, I don’t know what else to call it besides human vibrator! When a guy, like, hums? What would you call it?

David: You mean like vibrate your mouth?

Jessica: Yes, vibrate your mouth – that’s exactly what I’m trying to say. When a guy vibrates his mouth on me – that feels really good. And then you should slowly take one of your fingers and put it inside of me. Then give it a little bit more pressure, and do it a little bit deeper and move it around inside a bit more, to try to touch my walls and find my G-spot. That’s really hot.

David: And so let me ask you a question – there’s one hand inside, and the way the tongue is moving the other hand should be using those oils, and massaging what? Where should they be rubbing?

Jessica: All over! My inner thigh, my stomach, my hips, my breasts, my neck – and stop every once in awhile and talk to me, too. Keep using your finger, but you can talk and tell me how good I taste, and how turned on you are, and how much you want me – all of that good stuff!

David: So if a guy does all that, how much harder are you going to cum, and how much more are you going to desire him?

Jessica: Both, very much more so! I’m going to cum super-hard, and first of all, I’m going to pull you over and return the favor! I’m also going to want to come back for more… and more and more!

David: So for a guy to get really good head from a woman, he should pay attention to all of these little things. If he does this with every woman he’s with, he should be getting some amazing head, shouldn’t he?

Jessica: Absolutely. And you know, what goes around comes around – literally!

David: I agree, and I have to tell you, a lot of guys think that they’re doing it right just by licking her clit, but there are definitely different pressures you can use to lick her clit. A lot of women like things differently, as well – there are some women that love hard pressure at the top, there are some women who love it super hard and fast towards the end.

Jessica: I like it when am man tells me to spread my lips for them and hold them too.

David: Yeah that’s very erotic. Tell me why you think that’s so erotic, so men can learn.

Jessica: Well, I’ve only had one man tell me that! I think it’s naughty. I like to be bossed around, maybe not everyone would, but I do, and it’s all in the way a man says it. It really makes me feel like i am with a strong powerful man. I am not talking being mean or anything, but strong erotic talk and telling me what to do sexually is super super hot!

David: So you like being bossed around?

Jessica: Yes!

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Todays video is all about how to become a master at the sly smile. Did you know that this sly smile worked on a very famous actress that I met the other day. She may have been Paris Hilton or she may have been Kate Hudson.

But only I know who she was and the smile and conversation was a trip….this works on all women whether a famous celebrity or the girl next door!

The biggest mistake most men make is that they walk around waiting for a hot girl to talk to. In reality, by waiting for that hot girl, they’re not creating any energy around them.

What you need to do is to start talking to people in every store that you go into. You need to talk to people there and remember things about them.

For instance, we were hanging out and we went into this sunglasses store. I’ve been in this store probably 10 times, and I’ve bought two pairs of sunglasses from there. When I walked in, both people working there immediately said hello to me and came right over.

The salespeople were treating the person I was with really well also, talking to him and being really nice. When he bought something, they gave him a discount. He got a discount because he knew me. Just knowing me is not always necessarily going to get you a discount, but since I had been there before and always been really nice, friendly, and I asked questions about them, they wanted to give him a discount.

When I walk into a place, people are going to stop and talk to me. The great thing about that is that everywhere you go, you start getting friendly with people. If you go to the supermarket, get friendly with the person behind the cash register – it’s very important! Get friendly with the person that makes your sandwiches. Get friendly with the person that pours your coffee.

The reason for this is that there will be a time in your life when you are going to see a woman that you are attracted to, and you’re going to have approach anxiety. You’ll just have one of those days where you’re not feeling that comfortable with yourself – or maybe not feeling all that secure. So what do you do in that situation?

It is so much easier to talk to somebody you already know. For instance, let’s say you in line at the grocery store, and there’s a woman behind you that’s really cute and she’s got you feeling tongue-tied – you know that feeling you get when your tongue is tied and you can’t undo it?

So what do you do? You talk to the person who you know – you talk to Joe, the guy who’s scanning your groceries and you remember things about him. You say, “hey, Joe, how’s the newborn treating you?” All of a sudden Joe says, “wow, it’s been really tough.” You might say, “have you been having trouble sleeping?” All of a sudden Joe starts laughing – and you’ve bonded with Joe.

Most of life is very non-verbal. So the woman standing behind you sees the way that Joe is looking at you, and it’s very favorable. She sees the way his eyes are lighting up, the smile on his face – what that is telling her is that this guy in front of her in line at the supermarket is a nice guy.

What happens then is that you start meeting people based on your energy, but the key lesson here is that you start attracting people. You’re not chasing women anymore – you’re attracting them.

I’ve written about this before, in a lot of blogs – be the mayor of your life, be in complete control of your life, create powerful energy in your life – but this is something that you need to be doing over and over again.

The key to meeting people is engaging everybody in conversation, becoming memorable, and attracting people to you, rather than spending your entire life chasing.

I go deeper into this in todays video.

Happy memorial day to everyone.

Today we are going to lose all routines forever, check out the video below. But first do women talk in a secret code like men?

So many men have been tortured by pick-up artist material – they see a woman and they have to go in and think about 17 different things – instead of just realizing that all you need to do is observe what a woman is doing. What is she doing? Where are you? What is she doing – is she eating? Do you want a bite of her food?

Are you in a museum and is she looking at a picture? You want to elicit an emotion – go up to her and ask, “what do you think about that guy with the sheep hair?” if the guy in the painting has one of those old wigs from the 1700s.

If you listen to some of the crap that’s all over the internet – The Phantom and all the other dating methods that are out there – you have to think about escalating. How do you escalate – how do you sexually escalate?

Let me tell you something – do you think a group of women ever sit around and say:

“Hey Jill?”
“Yes, Mary?”
“How do we escalate our conversations with men? Can we escalate?”

Do you think women actually use these terms? In the pick-up industry there is something called ‘puas’ – pick-up artists. Are there ‘wpuas’ – women pick-up artists? No – they don’t sit there and use this terminology. I can’t even imagine women sitting around and talking about escalation.

Women would never say this: “how do we get them to escalate? What do I say to him in the first minute to get him to escalate this so that they like me? How do I create an emotional response in him in the first minute?”

How do you create an emotional response in a woman? You fucking listen! Women want you to listen. That’s all they want you to do – they want you to listen to them. They don’t want anything else.

I’ve said this a thousand times – walk up to a woman and do three things. Walk up and observe: what is she doing? Where is she? Is there something you can comment on? Is there something with which you can bond with her?

After you make the comment on something you’ve observed, you listen. If you listen to her, and you go in there with energy, and you smile and you’re having a good time – you go in and say it like you own those words – she’ll get turned on. You own those words, instead of going over there and saying, “excuse me…” like a little wimp. That ‘excuse me’ terminology doesn’t work.

Escalation my ass! The only thing that escalates is an escalator. You don’t need to escalate – all you need to do is listen, smile, be excited about her, and you will turn her on.

Otherwise, they would have something called wpuas – women pick-up artists. There should be a website – wpua.com. I’d love to see women hang out on the internet with funny nicknames. Can you imagine a woman dating expert, how much fun she would be?

She would be called ‘The Manstigator’ – manstigatormethod.com. Can you imagine if women sat around and said:

“oh my god, you study the Manstigator method? That’s unbelievable! But the Manstigator method doesn’t talk about escalation the right way – I heard that the Manny method…”
“The Mannie method? M-a-n-n-i-e?”
“No, no, no – I know M-a-n-n-y, the other one.”
“Oh – there are two Mannies? Wow…”

Can you imagine if women had nicknames and dating experts, how funny that would be? “The Manny Method: the Manny Method teaches you a four-prong method to get a man to be excited about you in four ways.” Think about how funny that would be!

Can you imagine that instead of Keno, there was a woman’s version of Keno? Keno is the thing in Vegas, the card game that they play. “Keno? Keno? Keno?”

Come on guys, stop trying to nickname everything and grow up. Start becoming men, and learn that you escalate a woman the second that you walk over and say hello. It’s a Hugh Grant romantic comedy right from the get-go. From the second you walk over to her, you basically create a moment in her mind.

This is why you talk about what she’s already doing and it will be this serendipitous, incredible moment, and she’ll start thinking, oh my god, he understands me! If you’re interested in her, and you’re excited about her, guess what you’ve done? You’ve escalated.

And here we are: we did this blog in the London Portrait Gallery! We’re in the Portrait Gallery where I just proved to two guys from London who said you can’t meet somebody in a museum – and how many women have we met in here guys?

Client: Two. No, three if you count the French woman. And the woman that was into the portraits!

David: Yeah, let’s go meet some more portraits in here!

And it’s really quiet in here too; you didn’t think we’d be able to record a blog in a museum, did you? Remember what you said to me? You said, “man, you can’t talk to people in the Portrait Gallery?” Not only have we talked to people, but we also recorded a blog in the Portrait Gallery! There’s so much you can do in this Gallery.

So let’s go back to hitting on REAL portraits. That’s another great one – ‘hitting on’ women. What are you going to do, slug her in the face? “Oh man, I just hit on somebody,” “really? Let me see your knuckles – oh man, they’re all bloody! You really did hit on her!”

Todays video will show you how to become that natural confident man that women desire.

Lose the routines forever.