David,

Hear you have a private member site that you’re charging like $37 a month for. I’m sure it’s great and all, but $37 bucks a month is really too much money for me to spend at this time in my life. Don’t know how I can justify spending that much or if I even have that much extra every month to spend.

Donny, NY

Donny’s email along with some great news for you (which I’ll fill you in on in a minute) inspired me to write this blog.

I do have a membership site that costs $37.42 per month. For that $37.42 per month, members get access to a load of member-only things including a killer forum, five podcasts per week, four long videos per week, a weekly teleconference, and member-only discounts and promotions.

In addition, all members have 24/7 access to my coaches and individualized coaching. One of the favorite features are my video breakdowns. Four times a week a week I post a 30 minute video me breaking down an audio or video submitted by one of the members. These are like being with me live as I’m coaching a client.

So when Donny wrote me to say that $37.42 a month for all of this was way too much for him to spend at this time in his life, I felt compelled to respond. Let’s talk about $37 a month.

I just had lunch with somebody, and it cost me $37. So $37 is basically like eliminating one lunch. It’s eliminating one night of drinking in a bar. I mean, if you are serious about wanting to go out and meet women, why are you going to deprive yourself of that? This site gives you that opportunity and so much more.

So to Donny and any who have a similar mindset that $37.42 is too much to spend to invest in yourself and for this, I’m calling you out on your shit. The fact of the matter is that if Donny was really serious about meeting women, he could find a way to make the $37 happen. It’s just another excuse, and I’m tired of excuses.

So anybody who’s serious about learning to meet and connect with women can join me on my membership site. The rest of you can just continue to learn from the blog. For those of you who do and give me attitude about wanting something more for free than I already give, though, I don’t have the time or patience to care about those who don’t respect my time.

In today’s podcast, I am going to issue a challenge you like none other . . . and you will look at yourself in a way you never have before. I also reveal a SPECIAL OFFER in this podcast, so be sure to check it out!

Click the play button below to listen now:

Now for that great news I referenced earlier…

==>Big Announcement<==

As some of you already know, my membership maxed out and has been full since soon after it launched. In fact, we had to put everyone who wasn't able to get a slot on a waiting list.

Well, due to me hiring an additional coach I am now able to accept an additional 125 Members on the membership site! (Because of all the individual coaching and personalized attention that members receive on the site, I strictly limit the number of members in proportion to the number of coaches)

If you want one of those slots, click here:

Once those 125 slots have been snatched up, the site will once again close and I will once again have to put everyone else on a waiting list. So if you want one of these slots, I wouldn’t wait too long to click on the link!

The obvious thing is always the best thing to say. And you have to wait for it. I’m patient. Most men are very impatient, and then go into the situation thinking, how am I going to open up this woman? How do I get her to talk to me? Blah blah blah…”

Most guys think that, while I’m just thinking this: what is she doing? I ask myself that question all the time. What is she doing? What is she looking at? What is she doing? Think about that instead of what clever line to use to open her.

If she’s looking at a book, or reading through the pages, I think, okay, is there anything about this book that I can talk to her about? That’s what I ask myself.

Then I see the handwritten name of someone in the front of the book. I think to myself, what memory does that bring up for me? – because everything brings up a memory, and life is about connecting with people’s emotions. So, what memory did it bring up for me? It brought up the memory of my grandmother writing my name in my books when I was a child.

So all of a sudden, a situation starts to arise. What is that situation? The opener. I can go and talk to her and say, “oh my god, look at that. Do you want to know what the coolest thing about that book is? You get it with someone else’s name. Do you remember when you were a kid and your grandmother wrote in the front of your books?”

She’ll start laughing and say, “oh my god, you’re so right! Why did we write our names in the books? Were we actually going to lose them or take them somewhere?” and the conversation starts from there.

You don’t have to be funny. Just look for the obvious every time. If you calm yourself down, the obvious thing will always present itself.

Today’s video is live footage from a past bootcamp. We were at a farmers market and we went over how powerful it is to be direct.

Sometimes some people are just a bit too direct.

Off to London tomorrow for another great bootcamp!!!