In the beginning, you try to impress each other. You do special things for each other. When they come over you set an intent for the evening — you light candles, put on some music and maybe make a special dinner.

As the relationship progresses, though, you stop setting intents. It’s almost like you stop listening to each other. “I know he (or she) likes candles, but I’m just not going to light them anymore because I’m lazy (or because we’re in routine world or because they are as attracted to me as a piece of furniture).”

There’s a lot of things that we should keep doing for each other because they are fun and are things the other person likes. There are also things we shouldn’t be doing for each other.

One of those things is settling into the comfort zone where we stop doing the great romantic things you used to do for each other and letting the inner slob come out. Men tend to start farting more, leaving the door open when they go to the bathroom, and really just leaving their smell all over the place.

Women may not walk around farting, but they tend to start leaving their stuff everywhere. There are products in every nook and corner, and underwear hanging from every hook and hanger. Some women will start wearing sweatpants every single night.

We tend to stop doing things for each other because we get comfortable. Of course we love the other person for who they are, and nobody has to get dressed up for their partner every day. You need to be 100% comfortable in a relationship, but you also need to do all the things that were amazing at the beginning.

Click here for some great ideas on how to keep the fire lit in your relationship.

You have sex the same time every Saturday night – and it’s the same sex over and over again.

How do you break up those routines in a relationship? It’s very simple.

Grab a piece of paper, and sit down with your lover. Write down the things that you want to do. Don’t focus on the negative and say, “Baby, we’re in such a boring routine.”

Instead, take the high road and say, “I’ve got some great ideas of things I want to do with you. I think that we could be sharing more together, and I have some things I’d like us to share together.”

So write down the 10 things that you’ve never done sexually with your partner. Write down the ten places you’ve never been with your partner that you’d like to go to together.

And then once a week, do something from that list. Start doing things differently.

How many of you are in relationships where you can’t have date night anymore because the kids are always around? Everything has become routine.

Do you realize that dating will help you to put the excitement back into your relationship? Start dating your wife or your girlfriend all over again.

Pretend like you’re in a brand new relationship, and stop letting things get so routine.

So the next time you’re sitting around, watching TV with your partner for the 100th night in a row, take the remote control, flip off the TV, grab your partner’s hand and lead them downstairs to the bathroom. Make a bath. Or give each other erotic massages.

The only reason that your relationship has become routine is because you’ve let it happen!

Life is all about choices.

How does this quote make you feel?

“A good opener is not based on what you are thinking, but rather on connecting with her inner reality. Opening her based on her thoughts, energy and emotions. Living that life is the only way to become powerful”

What about this one?

“Picking up women is an action. Attraction is a state of mind that defines who you are. It is a state of being. Which one would you prefer to be?”

I want to hear your thoughts on this today.

Todays video is all about how to attract women with the power of your own personality. It is all about how to stop the routines and start using the power of you!

Enjoy and have a great Wednesday.