I had a great conversation today with someone about the difference between what a relationship is like the first three to six months, and what it is like once it really “settles in.” It’s really interesting if you think about it. In the beginning, you try to impress each other. You do special things for each other.

Are you in a relationship that has become routine? Every night, you both come home from work, you make dinner, you sit there and watch television, you go upstairs, and you go to sleep. You’re both just going through the motions.

I am off to NYC in 2 days for a bootcamp and I was thinking. Life is all about choices. How does this quote make you feel? “A good opener is not based on what you are thinking, but rather on connecting with her inner reality. Opening her based on her thoughts, energy and emotions. [...]