Being a lifelong Jets fan I expected them to lose.

So my prediction of the Jets going down was all wrong.

Watch this video and check out what passion and confidence is all about.

Moments after the Jets won Bart Scott was asked how he felt.

No self censorship or monkey chatter here!

Check out Rex Ryan as well.

Confidence is what makes people believe and it starts internally.

The Packers have followed this formula and look where they are now.

All of you can listen to this message and follow this formula in all areas of your life.

Enjoy the games today and for those of you who do not follow or could give a @%^$ about football, have an amazing Sunday.

And who could ever get enough of this.

You gotta love Rex Ryan!

Maybe Rex should lay off the feet and just be like his Dad Buddy.

This is a classic clip.

And now for today’s scores.

Hate to say this but.

Bears 31 Seahawks 10

And this one hurts even more being a Jets fan.

Patriots 34 Jets 17

You go to your first dinner party, and most of your friends — the ones who used to go out drinking with you a few years ago — are married and looking at you as the lone single guy. You’re like the Lone Ranger all by yourself.

It actually makes you feel like something is wrong with you. Your own mother and grandmother gang up on you and say, “When are you finally going to meet someone and settle down? We need grandchildren!”

It’s called the late pressure. It’s almost like the full-court press, or like Rex Ryan sending seven defensive backs at you when you only have three wide receivers. How are you going to find the open man?

How are you going to find that woman with whom to ‘settle down?’ You start to put pressure on yourself, and you do what I did in my late 20′s: You go on a wife hunt.

The wife hunt is very scary because what you’re doing is you’re looking for somebody with whom you can join that dinner party. You are finding someone so that you no longer have to go to those dinner parties alone.

I did this. I went on a wife hunt, and I ended up with somebody who was really one of my best friends. I was never really super sexually attracted to her. I loved her, but always looked at her at that friend. You don’t want to make that mistake.

If you go on a wife hunt, you are probably just going to accept whomever comes your way and you are not going to get exactly who you want. Marriage is really serious, though, and you need to think it through before you do it.

You need to find someone who is just like you — thinks like you, acts like you, and shares the same beliefs and interests. You need to find someone who can teach you things and help you grow as a person.

When you go on a wife hunt, there’s no way in the world you’re going to find that. You are going to find whatever is available.

It’s almost like when you go to rent a house. Just imagine if you gave yourself two years to find the perfect house to rent, and during that time you go and look at a lot of houses. Eventually, you are going to find the right one. You’re going to find the one that fits who you are. You’re going to find one in the right location and at the right price.

When you have to have something — or feel pressure to get something — within a certain time limit, then the results of what you end up getting is never as good. If you feel like you need to find a wife in six months or less, then you may find one but she likely will not be the right one. You’re not going to find the woman with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.

This is your life. So the next time someone starts asking you why you’re not married yet, realize that there is no good that comes from feeling the need to act under their pressure.

Instead you should look them in the eye and say, “I just haven’t met the right person yet. Do you have anybody you can introduce me to? I’d like to meet someone amazing. I’d like to meet somebody with whom I can spend my life, but I am not going to rush it.”

This is exactly what I used to tell people after my first wife hunt. People would look at me and sometimes you would see that look in their eyes that said that they found their wife on a wife hunt (and may or may not have found the right person).

This is your life. Take your time. Enjoy it! Find the right wife even if it takes a long time, and be sure sure to enjoy every moment and every woman you experience along the way.

Your emails have also been requesting I go deeper into what I talked about on the podcast. So, as always, your wish is my command! Enjoy!

I’m on the phone right now with a good guy I’ve known for years who is going to start interning with me. He first saw me when I spoke at Union College about four years ago. He lives in the Czech Republic, and he said he really wants to do what I do.

He wants to expand my business into Eastern Europe. He wants me to have an amazing coach available to people in Prague and Russia.

There is only one of me, and that is the reason why I have other coaches work with me. I want to reach out to all of you.

So as he and I were on the phone, we were talking about something really interesting. We were talking about how I became successful in life. When I say life, I mean all aspects of life — money, business, women.

I learned something a long time ago. In order to become really successful in business, you need to find people who are as passionate as you are about what you’re doing and then you need to basically clone yourself.

One person can’t do everything. By cloning myself, I am able to reach a lot more people. By cloning myself, I am able to give more people the David Wygant experience.

For years I worked by myself. I was always tired.

All of a sudden, I started meeting some of my team. My team is amazing. For any of you who have had the opportunity to be coached by a member of my team, you know exactly what I mean.

They are all just versions of me. They are all people who share the same passion. That is what a real team is all about. It is a group of people who share the same passion, the same goals and the same drive.

Take a look at the New York Jets right now in the playoffs. Nobody thought they’d be in the championship game.

Do you know how they did it? They did it as a team. They were persistent, they believed in themselves and they worked really hard every single day to get there.

Now they have the opportunity to play Peyton Manning and the Colts on Sunday. Everyone thinks the Colts are going to destroy the Jets because Peyton Manning is the best quarterback in football.

If you listen to Rex Ryan, and if look at how their record went from 4-6 to 9-7, however, there is a reason why the Jets made it to this point in the playoffs. It’s called persistence. It’s called a belief in yourself.

In order to succeed in life, you need to believe in yourself and you need to persistently do little things every single day. No one is going to give you the key to life. When you have this persistence in life, though, life will get easier and easier and easier.

It is a challenge to push yourself every day. It is a challenge to go out there and do things for which you are not always rewarded (whether it’s getting a woman’s phone number or a financial reward in business).

When I first started this business, I wasn’t rewarded financially for two years. I had to learn everything I could possibly learn, and I was persistent.

Did I get frustrated at times? Absolutely. When that would happen, I’d go home at night and I’d journal to work things out. Then I would wake up the next morning and do it all over again.

I go into this concept more deeply — and go into detail about I create a blueprint for successfully achieving any goal — HERE.

It is the one thing that so many people lack that, if they had it, would make their life feel like they are playing in their own version of the Super Bowl every day.

So what is that one essential thing? I’m glad you asked.

Listen to today’s podcast and find out what it is:

I share my story of, and my own personal journey to, achieving real inner confidence and true happiness in a special audio. I also talk about how go on a journey like that in your life. Find out more about hearing that by CLICKING HERE FOR MEN and CLICKING HERE FOR WOMEN

So not only can I predict the outcome of your dates, I can predict the outcome of football games for you too. Regarding your dates, I predict that most of them probably won’t go really well. That’s not to be negative, but the majority of dates don’t go well.

The Jets are the only team not to allow an offensive touchdown this year. That impresses me. Do you know who impresses me more? Rex Ryan, the Jets’ coach.

So much of life is all about coaching — in football, basketball, baseball . . . and even in dating. Without the right mentor, coach and system in place, you’re never going to get good at anything.

Life is really all about having good systems — good belief systems and good coaching systems. There’s a reason why Bill Belichick makes the Patriots competitive no matter which players they lose. It’s the system he’s put in place. Every player believes in him and believes in being a Patriot.

Life is also all about your mindset. Yesterday I saw a good friend of mine, Dr. Wayne Dyer, speak. I really enjoyed it. Here’s a man who has lived 69 years with the right mindset and belief systems, and he’s accomplished everything in his life that he’s ever wanted.

Without the right mindset, coaching and guidance, people will remain lost. How many of you resist change? How many of you have trouble changing because of your belief system? How many of you fear change, but yet you desire it so much?

Who coaches you through your hard times? To whom do you go for advice?

How honest are you with yourself about the changes that need to be made in your life? Are you someone who repeats the same mistakes over and over again, yet you can’t figure out how to change that pattern?

It’s all about coaching. It’s all about implementing a belief system that can work for you, and a belief system that will still get you to make changes on a daily basis even if things don’t always work out for you.

The reason why the Jets won yesterday, was because they made changes to their game plan at halftime. They came out in the second half, and Mark Sanchez began throwing the ball. They got the lead, and then basically proceeded to shut the Patriots down for the rest of the second half.

How did they do this? They made changes necessary to dictate the flow of the game in their favor.

Can you dictate the flow of your life in your favor? Can you do it even after frustrating things and setbacks happen to you? Can you recover quickly from rejection, or do you allow it to torture you all day long?

When something doesn’t go my way, I recover instantly. I shake it off as any good well-coached person will do.

I don’t allow things to affect me for any longer than they need to affect me. Whatever happens to me affects me in the moment, then I get over it and don’t remember even five minutes later why I was so shaken.

The systems I’m talking about are not some kind of magic system to pick up men or women. It’s about having a belief system. It’s about having the right belief system.

What is your belief system? What changes do you need to make in order to accomplish everything you want?

Wayne said is really well yesterday. He said that we should all spend the last five minutes of each day before we go to sleep imagining how we want the next day to be, imagining how we want our life to be, and imagining how that will feel.

You don’t want to spend the end of your days thinking about what didn’t get done, what you messed up and what you haven’t achieved. By thinking this way, a lot of you are programming yourself to be in a constant state of panic (that begins from the moment you wake up).

So today on this Monday, I challenge all of you to write down all the things you want to change, and how you will feel when you implement those changes.

For those of you who are looking to bet on tonight’s game — because you know I am a master handicapper — the game will be a lot closer than you think. The Colts, however, will squeeze out a win when the Dolphins forget to throw to Ted Ginn.