Recently I did a podcast about what your past dictates, what you can learn from it, and how you can formulate a whole new future. One thing you should know about me is that when I coach others (by doing things like creating my podcasts), I really learn a lot about myself.
I learn about my own issues and my own “stuff,” like my own fears that I may not even have realized I had. I am not talking about fears having to do with when I coach guys how to approach women. I have zero apprehension about that.

What a great group of men at this bootcamp, we’ve been having such a blast so far! This morning we were at Borough Market in London meeting new people, engaging so many interesting women, and generally just having a great time and sending out a great vibe.
The food at Borough Market is always fantastic. I’m such a food guy too, what I really wanted to do was sample some of everything. I wanted one big, gigantic combination plate of the best food that the market has to offer.

When we get involved in a relationship, why are we always searching for that perpetual carrot?
It’s amazing that when we’re unsatisfied in a relationship — feeling like our partner is not satisfying our needs, wants and desires — that we feel afraid to tell them. It’s amazing that we are afraid to be that open, honest, raw and vulnerable with our partner.

Have you ever been involved in a relationship where it just went the other direction, and you always think about what it was like the first three months or the first six months?
It seems like in the first three to six months of a relationship, you actually do things for the other person. You make nights special. You light candles for each other. You make sure nights are romantic. You make love for hours instead of minutes.

I was on the phone the other day with a client and he asked me, “When are things going to be perfect in my life, and when am I going to be amazingly happy? Because I’ve been doing the ‘growth thing’ for a almost a year.”
I stopped him at this point, and said “Almost a year? Do you realize that self-growth is a never-ending process?”

There you are. You’re walking down the aisle.
You can’t believe that you’ve made it this far.
The date that you have planned for tonight? Well, it’s worked out. Oh yes, you know everything about it! It doesn’t matter that it’s presently 2011–it doesn’t matter at all. You can see the future. Years down the road, you’re able to look into the future and know exactly how that date’s going to go tonight.

Do you procrastinate your life? Are you a “tomorrow” person, and if you are a “tomorrow” person, you may be related to a “later” man or a “later” person. Procrastination can be a constant and consistent pattern, not just with things we don’t feel like doing, but especially with things we’re passionate about. People can get very passionate about something. For instance, you can be passionate about going out and meeting women…

I hadn’t been watching the news lately. When I did tune in recently, though, I see that I have been missing some really important issues being discussed.
It’s amazing. As each year passes, there seems to be less news and more pop culture dressed up as news……

Do any of you believe in the replacement theory when you’re dating someone? Have you ever been in a relationship that is just not what you want it to be?
Maybe there isn’t a great sexual connection……..

What would you do? Are you ready to have a relationship? Do you know all there is to know about romance and seduction? Do you fully understand what women want desire and crave when they meet a man? Today’s podcast explores this topic and I reveal one dating myth that everyone does wrong.