Recently I did a podcast about what your past dictates, what you can learn from it, and how you can formulate a whole new future. One thing you should know about me is that when I coach others (by doing things like creating my podcasts), I really learn a lot about myself.
I learn about my own issues and my own “stuff,” like my own fears that I may not even have realized I had. I am not talking about fears having to do with when I coach guys how to approach women. I have zero apprehension about that.

How long after a breakup should you wait before you start dating again?

Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship, but it’s equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you’re already in it.

Over the last couple days, I’ve had (to say the least) some interesting comments in the blog. It’s been most interesting to see how people have responded to what I’ve posted and what they do with what I’ve said in my last couple blogs.

I got an email from a friend of mine who is completely heartbroken. One of her best friends is a guy. They have been best friends for eight years. They are completely just buddies – she is like a sister to him and there is no sexual chemistry between them at all. She’s been friends with him through all of his relationships.